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this is a total bongi.....i DISAGREE!
That's your right but perhaps i should have tried to elaborate my statement a bit more.
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Anyways, I'd like to know what the first thing you men look for in a girl is? And be honest!
the FIRST thing we NOTICE....is Beauty......and we are not ashamed to admit it.......unlike most here who say that Guy's money is not at/near teh top of the list...
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^it isn't.
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^ again 
Re: desi girls...
this is a total bongi.....i DISAGREE!
I disagree with your disagree.
Re: desi girls...
^it isn't.
Larkion ki fitrat hai laalach! :D
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Majority of the girls do look for good education = good income when choosing guys. But most of them would continue with their marriage if God forbid the husband becomes jobless for any reason and they would NOT leave their husbands just because he does not have money anymore.
So money is a criteria at the time of marriage just like guys have the criteria for beauty. But money is NOT something most desi women want to keep loving their husbands.
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Yes, but then again beauty doesn't last forever either.
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True you can interact with people and all , but no amount of interaction there will bring about anything more than attraction. Not love anyway as this person defines it. Sure you can find qualities to make you want to pursue the person and get to know them better, but in that getting to know them better, you wouldnt accept their rishta proposal just cos you found them attractive.
You make is sound like it's not possible at all to fall in love before marriage when it is.. You can feel more than attraction for someone when you see them long-term whether that's in school or uni or working alongside them from 9-5.. and it doesn't necessarily always have to come from haram actions tho obviously it often does..
Re: desi girls...
the FIRST thing we NOTICE....is Beauty......and we are not ashamed to admit it.......unlike most here who say that Guy's money is not at/near teh top of the list...
Money is a factor. But it isn't the most important thing or the first thing we look at.
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Yes, but then again beauty doesn't last forever either.
Thats why we see many desi husbands getting bored of their ageing wives and getting a new wife for themselves. So I guess desi women are more likely to continue loving their husbands if the husbands lose all their money as comapred to desi men who are more likely to get bored of their over-weight, ageing, wrinkled wife.
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Thats why we see many desi husbands getting bored of their ageing wives and getting a new wife for themselves. So I guess desi women are more likely to continue loving their husbands if the husbands lose all their money as comapred to desi men who are more likely to get bored of their over-weight, ageing, wrinkled wife.
oh no, I'm not justifying anyone's behaviour. It's shallow and lack of character IMO to leave your partner because of the above reason.
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oh no, I'm not justifying anyone's behaviour. It's shallow and lack of character IMO to leave your partner because of the above reason.
I also think that leaving spouse for reasons other than physical/ verbal abuse and infidelity is shallow and lack of character. Continuing marriage requires lots of hard work and determination and reasons of lack of money or declining beauty should not affect the marriage.
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Thats why we see many desi husbands
how many would u say?? lets say out of 100 desi men u know.....how many married second time???
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I also think that leaving spouse for reasons other than physical/ verbal abuse and infidelity is shallow and lack of character. Continuing marriage requires lots of hard work and determination and reasons of lack of money or declining beauty should not affect the marriage.
Are you divorced?
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how many would u say?? lets say out of 100 desi men u know.....how many married second time???
I did not say many desi men 'married' second time. I just said that comparatively more desi men get bored with their ageing wife because she starts losing her beauty than desi women who start hating their husbands when they are out of money. Then again it may be because losing beauty is an irreversible thing whereas the husband can start earning money again :D Not many men I have seen married second time, but they do tend to try to appreciate and value young and 'fresh' women when their wives are over-weight and start looking like aunty-jeee :p I remember a thread few weeks ago in which women here were talking how their husbands look, start, checking out and appreciate other women :D
Are you divorced?
No, I am never married. My views expressed here are based onmy observation in my life which can be different from yours :)
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Ok I take back my words 
It was just slip(s) of fingers on the keyboard 
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^ 
this is the first time i have seen this happen here…:k:
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Sometimes, Jazbaat main typing hoti chali jati hai and we don’t really mean what we say and would have certainly revised it if we read it before posting 