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parhnai kaam karnay jatein hen ya window shopping karnay?

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:smack2:
About Mentality level of desi & walaiti :sunnyboy:

BTW I"m a boy not a gal :cobra:

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Good and bad people are everywhere...you just cant name one...it all depends on one's own perceptions and standards.

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:lajawab:
This is the thing i wanted to say.

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I dont write for free…pay me fee :stuck_out_tongue:

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@Sannan sorry thought you were a gurl :P ma bad.

So I guess we are done here, in DESI WOMEN LOVE DOES NOT EXIST unless you add a money value to it. And that Marrying is A gori is a lot better than a brown/pale.

One post mentioned earlier by Deeba1234 has point but, i don't that could be one hectic reason since teens or young adults these days don't learn from anyone they make their own way into learning.

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What a conclusion you have derived in just 25 posts :cb:

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Nope dear, I think you never heard LOVE IS BLIND …
BTW from where you concluded that in DESI WOMEN LOVE DOES NOT EXIST :hmmm:
I"m not sure that any desi will prefer to get marry with a gorri :cb:
Do you know the percentage of Divorce in Gorries ? :hmmm:

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She means you interact with people, male or female, and some are humorous, some are intelligent, and you find that attractive. This is inevitable unless you are that guy/girl who just doesn't talk to anyone.

Women aren't gold diggers but are subconsciously attracted to men with power and social status, this usually comes in the form of money. Just like how men are attracted to women with body shapes conforming to the golden ratio. It's just how we're built. It doesn't mean that all women are gold diggers, just that having money or social status, in addition to personality and looks, can make a man even more attractive to a woman. Of course there are women who are just gold diggers.

And this is regardless of race but maybe because there is so much corruption and nepotism in Pakistan, people feel more compelled to ensure the guy is well established.

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Love is blind but not deaf. It hears and like the sound of coins.

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i still stick to my point. koi larki ksi bhookay mein kabhi love find karnay ki kosish nahi karti. First they see if the guy has got money and eduction or not :)

PS: i am not speaking of girl in early teen :P

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Ever individual is diff… so dont generalize:snooty:

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True you can interact with people and all , but no amount of interaction there will bring about anything more than attraction. Not love anyway as this person defines it. Sure you can find qualities to make you want to pursue the person and get to know them better, but in that getting to know them better, you wouldnt accept their rishta proposal just cos you found them attractive. That isnt enough is it? And going further than attractive, getting to know them beyond that, is to some level wrong in our culture and society no? Girls from other cultures, go way beyond that. They move in with them, date them, get physical. They literally have a common marriage before saying yes Ill marry this guy and I dont care abt his financial status.

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Did anyone tell you that desi girls have horns on their head and a tail?

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this is a total bongi.....i DISAGREE!

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At least I wouldn't choose money over love =) But yeah im sure that there is a lot of desigirls who will dream about love marriage when they are young but when it comes time to marry education&money is more important than love&chemistry... I wouldn't be impressed if my spouse would tell me in future that he choose me because of my education status or family background, personality is way more important than degrees and bank account balance and at least I want that when im getting married that person would like and fall in love with me because of my personality and It doesnt matter how rich&important man would be but I wouldn't never marry someone with whom I dont click and whose personality doesn't match mine..

I hope that u will find ur dream spouse, good luck with that =)

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I might be getting to the conclusion too soon, but thats because everyone seems to be pulling the original question in different direction. Although some answer were very interesting. And Kayz is saying the same thing again and again when i made it clear what is the guy is wealthy enough and still she is just getting because of his money.

Let me remind of the original question since it has gone to the last page.

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Q) most girls have this image of there knight and shining armor, but why is it that when it comes settling down and marrying someone, that they prefer the company of a man who is well healed a.k.a with deep pockets..
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The denial leaves me in awe .......

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Ha ha ha ha, my Dad said the exact same thing to me.

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Brown girls?!! Lol! I think we just need to clarify that it's not the colour of one's skin that is the issue here; it's the social upbringing.

Anyways, I'd like to know what the first thing you men look for in a girl is? And be honest! :p