That's the wrong attitude. By saying "life is not fair", you are being passive and asking women to accept this kind of widespready skanky behavior in our society. Is that how you want to raise your sons - beta go out and spread your seed, and then we'll marry you to the most shareef girl we can find?
That's total BS. And half these families know what their boys are up to. They just dont have the parenting guts to contain it.
Sorry if it was not clear enough. I never said I agree with life being unfair when it comes to human treating others unfairly.
There are many other facts which we accept everyday.
Even God is male figure.
More men ruled and rule today this world than women.
The country you live in never had a woman president in hundreds of years..... Should we call it wrong? :)
Re: Dearth of Decent guys a Real problem for Western Desi Girls?
Please don't use God to justify the skankiness of men and how we should all be so greatful to have you pervs as our husbands. Straighten out your act, behave with some morals, and maybe those of us who were educated here and have some class will think about marrying you. Until then, go ahead and settle for the Visa-hungry families in Pakistan. There are a number of them, and it means nothing to me if you're happy marrying a woman of unknown background despite her shareef appearance who may only be interested in having lots of fun frolicking at hotspots abroad with her newfound Gucci purse and her Coach glasses at the expense of your wallet.
Please don't use God to justify the skankiness of men and how we should all be so greatful to have you pervs as our husbands. Straighten out your act, behave with some morals, and maybe those of us who were educated here and have some class will think about marrying you. Until then, go ahead and settle for the Visa-hungry families in Pakistan. There are a number of them, and it means nothing to me if you're happy marrying a woman of unknown background despite her shareef appearance who may only be interested in having lots of fun frolicking at hotspots abroad with her newfound Gucci purse and her Coach glasses at the expense of your wallet.
What if that same gucci purse seeking newly arrived pakistani qualified doctor or engineer or some other professionally qualified girl gets her "skills" upgraded and began to work.Not really a bad deal.........!
Re: Dearth of Decent guys a Real problem for Western Desi Girls?
[note] Please stick to the topic . Thanks [/note]
I think our egos are so HUGE that no one is ready to show any flexibility . One of the causes .
Btw few of my white friends married Asian women . They are even learning Chines / Japanese for them . When I asked the reason , they were like ''They are good wives , and great mothers'' . :)
What if that same gucci purse seeking newly arrived pakistani qualified doctor or engineer or some other professionally qualified girl gets her "skills" upgraded and began to work.Not really a bad deal.........!
LOL. So you want a working girl from Pakistan. Why not just find someone locally - plenty of young eligible docs, engineers, etc.
DEAR PCG I have nothing against western-raised Pakistani women because my fianace is one of them.just talking of their dilema in general and their “tough” choices…!
Re: Dearth of Decent guys a Real problem for Western Desi Girls?
and there is nothing wrong with misbehaving either. What a colourful character she makes. The shalwar-wala-johnny-bravo-uff-mountain-man at home hardly appears something to rush back to.
Please don't use God to justify the skankiness of men and how we should all be so greatful to have you pervs as our husbands. Straighten out your act, behave with some morals, and maybe those of us who were educated here and have some class will think about marrying you. Until then, go ahead and settle for the Visa-hungry families in Pakistan. There are a number of them, and it means nothing to me if you're happy marrying a woman of unknown background despite her shareef appearance who may only be interested in having lots of fun frolicking at hotspots abroad with her newfound Gucci purse and her Coach glasses at the expense of your wallet.
Read my posts, I never justified skankiness for men or women...let alone using God.
