dealing with muslim women marrying non-muslims

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Re: dealing with muslim women marrying non-muslims

First of all please quote a verse of QURAN that allows Muslim women to marry a non Muslim men

as for Men " you can marry a non Muslim but your wife needs to convert in 6 months if she don't men will have to divorce her

A guy came to a sahabi and asked him " I want to marry my sister he replied YOU CANT ITS HARAM and quoted a verse. He insisted why is it haram and I love her and she is the one etc etc..
sahabi replied now you go and marry her !!!
people asked him how can you allow him he replied
when I told him its not allowed it was not from me but direct order from Allah the merciful and soon as he argued the direct order from Allah he was no longer a muslim so now he con go and do what ever he wants....

mulla , aalim , may be respected personalities not doing something is different but arguing a direct order is real bad !!!

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Re: dealing with muslim women marrying non-muslims

Based on the further posts, I have increased the percentage of Mulla worshipers to 20%.

Whatever happened to live and let live.

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What about the Teechi'z???whats their percentage right now??

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Well if you tell me what Teechi'z is, I will try to hazard a guess as to their percentage on this forum.

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Re: dealing with muslim women marrying non-muslims

^well Teechiz are all those who believe in Teechi Teechi

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Regarding the first bit in bold that is not how halal and haram works.. unless something is declared haram we don't have the right to call it so and so far no-one seems to have been able to provide any clear evidence from the Qur'an that a woman marrying a man 'of the book' is absolutely forbidden, only that Muslim men have been given express permission whilst there seems to be no mention of it for our women. Like I said before, I'm not for or against but I do see a problem in terms of the way a lot of ppl are trying to say a complete 'no' to it with no Qur'anic verse to back up what they're saying.

The second bit in bold simply isn't true, don't know who told you that..

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If you care about Islam then you should know that your children will have to follow your husband’s belief and not yours because it’s a father’s right upon his children, so if you’re okay with raising your kids as non-muslims then go ahead. :k:

As for Quran, it clearly states that marriage muslim men and women are not allowed to marry a non muslim. And in another ayah the ijazah is only for men to marry jewish and christian girls with certain conditions. There is no ayah that allows a muslim woman’s marriage with a non muslim man.

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I believe that such a marriage would be haram and would never allow a daughter of mine to go through with anything like that. I haven't heard of any difference of opinion on the matter among any scholars. I'm surprised that that any Imam would be willing to carry out such a marriage.

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Tum kon ho? Altaf hussain worshipper?

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Islam has never discouraged discussion - it is the narrow-minded people who discourage discussion.

Yes, Islam sets our haraam, halaal, makrooh and a whole host of other principles by which we are expected to live our lives. But we are not asked or expected to blindly follow the "rules." We are supposed to follow the principles with a deeper understanding of why we do what we do.

Allah wants his followers to ask questions because he has provided answers to their questions - it is us who fail to ask those questions.

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Must be someone who reads bismillah before eating pork chops. lol

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Re: dealing with muslim women marrying non-muslims

islam doesnt support any other religion but islam, because it is the only way of salvation minus to whom Allah swt chooses to forgive.

if one finds themselves looking for loopholes, i'd say they are lacking conviction. so it may be wise for those to first deal with this issue of conviction

remember the believer will choose hellfire instead of the jannah presented by the dajjal - thats conviction

the shahada and takbir are not mere words, but pledges of the soul

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20%? After going through the topic, I see that 0% of the people posting so far are mulla worshipers.

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Some people will find ways to make wine halal and some will insist that head covering for women is not part of islam...........so where do we draw the lines?

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well i agree with you.Every muslim believes the same.
Muslim is he who believe in Allah and the finality of of the Prophethood of Hazrat Muhammad Mustafa (S.A).
The rest of the lot posing as muslims likes to try new experiments.

humay kia.

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Most ppl aren't looking for loopholes, just an honest debate and an analysis of the facts. It's funny that issues involving riba and so on can be so widely discussed and some sort of flexibility reached (who here doesn't have a credit card or a mortgage?? And yes, there is an alternative called renting if a person is that worried about breaking rules in Islam).

For some reason as soon as a lot of Muslims hear about an issue involving women it's suddenly 'all discussion closed' and it becomes somehow forbidden to even look into the ins and outs as well as the reasoning concerning these apparent rulings..

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Mortgage is haram and so is marriage with non muslim men. But for mortgage people there's no other option available except being homeless.

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^They could *rent
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Yes, you're right. I'm not a fully practising muslim but even I'd prefer to rent because the thought that you're earning a sin (though some modern scholars allow it) by giving mortgage is just horrible. I've bought a house few months ago and I'm already thinking of selling it. The matter of marriage is even serious because it involves children.

The feeling of guilt, I guess if you can live with that, you can live with anything/anyone.

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no, no, youve got it wrong. discuss as you wish, i love debate and passionate debate at that. i find it fascinating

but often theres a problem with the one party, imaan is clearly visible or absent sometimes. when its absent, its clearly just a defence of islam excercise, an uphill trek. thats why people close the discussion