What would y’all say are relationship deal breakers for you?
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Infidelity. A Richard type from “Sex and the City” that feels like monogamy is not practical or possible.
Continued emotional and physical abuse.
Game players that manipulate for the fun of it. A Big type of guy.
No mutual love or respect.
Those are all mine.
*I just started watching re-runs of “Sex and the City” on Amazon Prime 
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How can you tell that if you’re getting to know a guy? I mean what would be your deal breakers if you were trying to get into a relationship/marriage with a person?
and lol, amazon prime has such a limited selection of movies.
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Not regular in prayers, fasts and payment of zakat.
Doesn’t care about haram/halal
His location
Doesn’t respect those who are lesser than him in status and looks down upon others
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Does eating non-zabiha count as non-halal? Cause where i live there’s this big debate about zabiha and halal being two different things lol
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I talk only for myself. Yes, I don’t eat non zabiha and neither will my kids, so I want a husband who doesn’t eat non zabiha meat too.
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:k: this one in particular is a big deal for me as well!
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**One of my deal breakers is narcissism and girls that are really self-centered.
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First there needs to be offers on the table for one to accept or reject. The more offers there are the pickier we can get. As Aqua put it you need to look at what you offer and what all they offer, maybe the guy who is namazi, rozay daar, triple haji is weak, short and bald and the guy sipping on the vino is good looking, polite and well off.
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Thank you, but I’d prefer the weak, short and bald as long as he’s humble too along with the other attributes.
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you’re short and bald yourself tho lol
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Thank you for picking out my post to dissect instead of telling what the deal breakers are/were for yourself 
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Being humble is one of the most attractive qualities in a person and if the guy does not possess that despite having everything else, that would be a no from me.
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If someone is earning haraam.
If someone is fake, shallow, materialistic & artificial then I cant take it.
People who have double standards. There are guys who are like we went to listen this lecture of Mufti Menk & then on their way back stopped at a pub to party, drink & pick girls.
Pathological liars.
People who try to fool you & play with your emotions.
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Yo is it important for you girls that your husband be a virgin? I’m asking for a friend.
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lack of faith
ill-mannered
not understanding, nor showing empathy to others
lack of ambition in life. (ie. does not have goals/ a vision)
smoking/drinking
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these “asking for a friend” questions are my fav. 
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Is it important tho? I have a lot of brown friends that committed zina, I don’t endorse it but it’s really common. Is it a deal breaker?
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it’s tough. was it a on-off situation? was it a haraam relationship? Details are necessary.
It’s common but I still want to believe all my MSA peeps are super shareef.
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Most of these guys were/are in the msa lol, I even know brown girls that hooked up. One of them asked me if it was a deal breaker, I said no until I found out the guys she slept with were ones I knew :\ I thought it would be awkward, so I consider that a dealbreaker.