I am not for dating. Now please dont mix dating with talking to each other and getting to know each other...
Same here.
okay.. so.. hmm...
girls, What's your opinion on dating? i often see (desi) girls here who wants to marry and wants to find a guy on their own. They meet a guy, starts liking him...hang out for few months and stuff.. decides he is not for me and move on and find someone else.. trend continues till you meet ur match
Is it right?? i would just like to hear ur opinion this topic as i see a lot desi girls dating guys in Canada
and for guys, would you marry a girl who has had b/f(s) in the past??
just curious, what ppl think on this topic besides few desi i personally know.
I don't think it's right. I've grown up in Canada myself and I've never dated. I would not be inclined to marry a girl who has had a bf in the past either.
a lot of men that are dating white women isn't b/c they look up to them or highly of them compare to desi. They date them mainly b/c they are easy (all about sex). Most guys i know would never marry a white woman but would only date them. in fact when it comes to dating most desi guys prefer whites over desi.
Isn't that worse???
Oh, and nice generalisations about white women..
Most desi girls who date and/or marry white guys (there are some who marry converts without any dating) don't do it cos they 'look up to them', it's just a case of attraction (physical or personality-wise), nothing complicated about it all.
Can't stand the hypocrites who think it's ok for Pakistani guys to sleep with as many white girls as possible but if a girl has even one relationship or contemplates marrying a white guy it becomes a big deal. To all the idiots who think it's 'harmless fun' when the boys do it open your eyes and see what happens when the girls end up pregnant - it's a lot more common than u think..
Unless we are stuck in some time-loop where the person who writes first copies the one who wrties afterwards, then the only conclusion is you haven’t been on your Meds again have you
a lot of men that are dating white women isn't b/c they look up to them or highly of them compare to desi. They date them mainly b/c they are easy (all about sex). Most guys i know would never marry a white woman but would only date them. in fact when it comes to dating most desi guys prefer whites over desi.
WOW STOP THERE!!!!!!!!!!!!! I am a white girl and NO WAY are we all easy!!! Maybe just the ones you meet....but you cannot stereotype like that! We are in 2010...why can't people spend time with others regardless of ethnic origin etc etc...if people get one END OF!! If they go on to get married...kids etc...so be it! Yes some white girls are easy but not ALL!! Well I'm not easy anyway!! I beleive in desi way...no sex before marriage...as if you have such a strong connection with someone and get on well...care for them etc...the sex does not matter ne way
Dating culture where a girl and a guy are together as a couple is not right.
If its a girl and a guy talking to get to know each other...not hanging out or being intimate...then its not dating. Walking into a blind marriage without knowing the other party's views at all...is WAY too risky in this day and age.
Let me get it straight. According to you guys, it is OK for a boy and girl to talk over the phone and texting...? If they meet cannot be alone but fine if its in a group meeting like friends party, wedding etc...?
i dont see any harm in it n honestly in todays time n age i think thats how it should be..meeting people n gettin to know them well before marriage is very important.how r u gona find out if they r compatible if u dont go out with them..it doesnt have to be physical at all!..going out for lunch or dinner or a long drive u know
Let me get it straight. According to you guys, it is OK for a boy and girl to talk over the phone and texting...? If they meet cannot be alone but fine if its in a group meeting like friends party, wedding etc...?
I don't think a guy and girl should be on the phone for hours everyday. I'd encourage texting over that. You wanna leave some conversations for after the marriage. And yes, meeting while surrounded by friends and family is better... it's more chaperoned. It's better to go out to watch a movie or eat dinner with siblings, cousins, or friends present than alone. But that's my opinion. I don't encourage anyone to marry someone without a good amount of interaction, but that interaction needs to be within limits. In the end, dating and limits vary from person to person.
i dont see any harm in it n honestly in todays time n age i think thats how it should be..meeting people n gettin to know them well before marriage is very important.how r u gona find out if they r compatible if u dont go out with them..it doesnt have to be physical at all!..going out for lunch or dinner or a long drive u know
If times change then so should one's morals/ethics too?? Whatever one think is right or wrong should remain the same no matter what time/age it is.
I'm wondering how many of you who are so against dating have even had a decent opportunity? If the most perfect person came along, would you really reject them?
Are you all going to have arranged marriages then?
