Thats so ture with me also …although many people would think it as wrong or perverted but thats me I wouldn’t be able to help it but to think how my husband can be romantic with anyone else ! Just too much to bear for me …:no:
If my husband ever take this step , either I leave the house or I’ll kick him out. 
Men who do such acts mostly end up having kids who hates them esp kids from 1st wife they are never able to love their dads bcuz their dad gave their mum so much pain. Things don’t last forever and everyone times changes , all of us need someone in our lives , esp when we grow old and kids usually pull themselves out of life of such a dad who brought a sotan to their mom. I have seen that in many families.