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well , the two whom I personally know had converted to Islam before meeting their husbands who were muslims.
One of those ladies really fascinates me .She is way better than any muslim I have personally come accross.I havent seen a simpler person than her and her daughters arent exactly like her though.
She didnt find problems adjusting in the pakistani culture.

The other lady was a moderate muslim so wasnt very religious and had probs adjusting in the pakistani culture.

Either ways both decided to leave Saudi and live in America 'cuz it had better opportunities for their kids.

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you mean couple with moderate religious thoughts feel it difficult to adjust in Pakistani or Saudi culture

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both.

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Do Saudi kings have wives from other religions. I think King of Jordan had a christian wife.

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God knows .
Are you trying to get me deported from Saudi ? :emmy:

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How come? Is it a crime to know about religion of Saudi family’s in-laws?

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Anything negative is a crime worth being deported :hehe:

ok ok i was just kidding :smiley:

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Ok which country you support, during India - Pakistan matches?

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difference of religion

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Pakistan ( and no im not saying tht cuz im on a pakistani forum :hehe: )

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You mean ShahRukh Khan and Gori?

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My nani's cousin was married to an iranian dentist....

Who had a job in india...after that he moved back to iran and asked her to accompany him but she refused..............:@:

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what happened then? Personally I think that she should have moved, becuase Indian nari follow the song 'Jahan piya wahan main' religiously

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Pakistan !!!!
I have a friend her inlaws are from India,so she says.
Jeet to meri hi hai chahe maika jeetay ya sasural :p

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The love of country and mother earth.

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the most difficult part is adopting many practices which are way more complex and unique. Over a period of time matter settles automatically, the problem in trans marriage is one should not have cultural ego:)

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Finally someone experienced :k:

What do you mean by cultural ego and how it affects the relationship?

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The problem is one religion says one thing other says otherwise, for instance, hinduism says to bow in front of idol because it is personifying symbol of god, while Abrhamic religion might say entirely opposite, Logically one may find both of them correct, but once belief system gets in, wrong and right appears immidiately and is relative, relative to the side you are on. and here comes choosing, you can either chose belief system or relationship. Marriage and its entire stability is always personal choice.:slight_smile:

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Yes adjusting in two different religions is quite difficult task especially when you have to decide which religion the children are going to follow, but cultural differences also big no for some families when they look for life partner of their children

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Depend upon case basis, but I feel when one is inheriting everything of father, then religion should be father's, even I adopted my father's religion, it makes things easier. Cutural difference is big no in most of the family then comes, caste,ethnic differences etc:)