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that Islam as a faith does not endorse concubinage of anyone - women or men.
war prize issue of captives is exploitative in nature. and from the world's beginning, exploitation of women and their lovd ones, by humiliating them, by hurting them and by torturing them, by kidnapping and enslaving them or forcing them into submitting to unethical and debasing sex work is not something that Islam ever allowed or allows.

yes, in each era, men and society's ignorance has certainly made this trend look like legalized.

for that matter, romans and greeks, monguls and many others races and groups; when they fought in the past ages and to this day, where ever wars have been waged, the first group of people who have been the weakest and the most vulnerable targets gets hurt - namely, women and children.

what the world has done against this, is a whole different question to ask and account for.

dragging religion into the affair of legitimizing something as obnoxious as stripping someone of their shame and doing so under fear and captivity for humiliating and hurting life, torturing the weakest and poor brutally and unthinkingly, is not what faith has EVER allowed, so who ever says that Islam allows concubinage, is not a Muslim and is one of the basest humans as far as the ethics of such an amoral individual or society goes. and their punishment in waiting, remains with God, until due time.

best,
Dushwari

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^ fundamentally i dont disagree with you that the rich exploit the weak and poor...but the way u summarized ur approach to slavery is a very simplistic way of looking at a extremely complicated subject...
how do you view slavery in islam ? share ur views

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what is so complex? Enslaving another human being under whatever name is barbaric. Forcing (whether by force or by exploiting circumstance) any woman to submit to you is disgusting.

What the religions say, culture says, quran says etc is all immaterial if you do not subscribe to these basic human values

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not feeling shame for something as unethical as that, is non-religious.
no religion ever says that exploit women, especially Islam.

slavery is not a special license to exploit.
otherwise, why is giving the ransom for a slave who is in captivity is encouraged??

Islam takes higher roads, which pagans and so called Muslims hood winked and hood wink shamelessly for own base instinctive short comings of character.

and it dissolves the merits of a society where respect for the rights of humans is practiced and endorsed. and thus it becomes a social ill.

whites did this too - enslaved blacks for so many centuries. if you have watched movies such as roots, you will see how ignobly women have been humiliated during captivity and surely forced into horrible forms of concubinage to a point that once these women were spoiled, they were brutally killed.

indian society has this ill too, so does chinese and arab society. african and spanish has this ill too.

it is happening in Iraq and Afghanistan right now. It has gone on in the form of women trafficking in eastern europe and so on and so forth.

what is the end to it?

best,
Dushwari

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Das Reich, why don't you make it simple. Offer yourself as a slave to some woman out there? There are plenty of women who like that sort of stuff. Problem solved.

Or ... is offering yourself a slave pretty low... in which case, I'd like to see you take a woman in your family and offer her up as a slave. Or does that not apply to someone you're related to?

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transatlantic slavery was not simply whites vs blacks ...thats exactly what i mean by u oversimplyfing things
most slave traders were blacks in africa and before blacks, whites enslaved whites in europes ...so much so that germans used to sell their children to romans so they are given a dog in exchange to eat !
blacks never had it that bad ...but mr. huxley just wanted to make slavery a holocaust for the blacks
not that blacks havent suffered they have suffered enormously , and why go further what is ur opinion on muslim slavetraders enslaving blacks and treating them like trash ?
and care elaborate on the "instinictive shortcoming of character"

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instead of personalizing anything.
just like you, i presented facts when i referred to races and groups practicing slavery.
whites enslaving whites, or indians, or blacks is the same.
affluent exploitative lot pawning on the weaker poor lot.
and all the onslaught of hatred and crimes thereafter.

it is all the same.

best,
Dushwari

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like who ?
and how will it solve the problem

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.. in which case, I'd like to see you take a woman in your family and offer her up as a slave. Or does that not apply to someone you're related to?

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sorry I dont own the women of my family ....they are free to do whatever they like with their lives ...u seem to have very backward concepts regarding women

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u are assuming [wrongly] that i defend everything that was shown on that movie "roots" thats why u depict everything as a armageddon between good and evil

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subject slavery in Islam. Yes, Islam allows slavery but who are the slaves in Islam, they are the captives (prisoners) of war. So why did Islam not abolish such barbaric practise? This is because wars can't be abolished, and so slavery is inevitable. Instead of throwing the salves in jails and dungeons, Islam ordered Muslims to be kind to slaves and many other rights.

As far concerning concubines, they cannot be forced to do something without their consensus (i.e. sleep with their master, or commit zina to earn money for the master); however, they are not allowed to reject to sleep with their master without any legitimate shirah excuse (i.e sick etc).

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Peace bro.

The conditions you have placed therefore on the status of the 'female slave' is the same as that of the wife. Which proves my point that slavery is a thing alien to Islam and sister Dushwari has done well to defend this position using her sense of ethical uprightness.

Das Reich bro. I don't know what point is it that he is trying to prove to assert the notion of concubinage in Islam? The fundamentals do not fit together there is so much in stark clarity to support the idea of protecting chastity and not transgressing the bounds. Then potentially with the loop hole of war captives - female to the men is a ticket to lustfulness???

Can we really assert that basis on Islam?

-) Employment - That is the term of use. In those days people were traders, they were not servicers and they did not have large corporate companies. However, the status of the then slave is what should be called the now employee. One does not engage with sex with their employees unless but to have a real relationship with one is allowed i.e. Islamically that means all the necessary courting and marrying needs to be observed. People used to do nikkah with their female employees and kept them at that status probably to prevent others trying to marrying them and also in case they should slip up. They would have to bestow on them rights equal to a wife if they did sleep with them.

-) It is true that wars led to possession - 'rights' over people and that can be construed as slavery, but Islam does not sanction bondsmanship of man to any other than Allah (SWT). Those rights were like a contract that an employee has that he will woprk and his earnings go to his employer. Then from that a portion is given to him. Slaves in those days were given money, they were given clothes, houses and all that ... They were really employees !!!

-) It is also true that today many people are rather more comfortable working as employees rather than becoming their own 'master' because that would mean no sick pay and paid holidays ... slaves in those days enjoyed homes they did not have to pay for and were cared for when sick.

Islam has never allowed the slavery where a persons choice is not their own. And if slavery was like it was then .... well look people here know the story of Umar (RA) and how he went to Jerusalem ... He would walk and swap at points with his servant (employee) to us and it was the turn of the employee to sit on the camel. So they entered Jerusalem in that state they were shocked when they later realised that the Caliph was the one walking.

That to todays standards is like Musharraf driving the car and his driver in the back when they entered the hotel in London.

Soooooo ... Those who say slavery is allowed need to understand that terminology is a dangerous thing and what was meant by a term in the past is not necessarily the same today.

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How will it solve the problem? You'll get a woman. And maybe calm down a bit.

Your second statement here is FILLED with hypocrisy. So the women of your family are free to do what they want with their lives, yet you're asking permission from Islam to enslave a woman???? How is THAT not backwards?

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:hehe: :biggthumb I was waiting for someone to spot that pearl of wisdom. Well done PCG. Our hero wants other families to give up their women for his pleasure but what if some other guy wants to do the same to his family. What hypocrisy.

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that wasnt unexpected ...u interpreted my statement the way u want it
women of my family are not controlled by me nor do I own them so how can i decide on their behalf what they want to do ?

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I'd like to see you take a woman in your family and offer her up as a slave.
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u r making the assumption that i have the authority to decide on their behalf

if they want to be slaves of someone or live a free life i am in no position to stop them.....

regarding first half , getting "a woman" is not the problem , but the kind that I want
would gladly prefer to be alone than be with just any woman

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bro psyah
I dont fundamentally agree or disagree with AllahkaBanda's post but i must say he is being honest and not trying to be politically correct
there are a lot of gray areas here which are not entirely clear , things are complicated as many scholars dont want to debate this openly given the hostile envoirment against islam today.
let me research a little more and Inshallah I will post later
May God save us from falling into deviations and distortions regarding islam

re: umar b khattab[ra] the wellknown incident that u mentioned was indeed not uncommon at all in those days ..infact once a nobleman lost a race with a slave during a competition in egypt he was so upset that he had the slave beaten up ...when umar [ra] heard about it he ordered the slave to beat up the nobleman in retaliation !
But we must also accept that within 30yrs of these times this kind of meritocracy was shattered by the emergence of a arab nationalistic dictatorship ....and its ruthless exploitation of non-quraishi arabs and nonarabs sowed the seeds for the eventual demise of the muslim empire. We muslims of today now rarely see this difference we always like to dream of this "golden age" of islam when everything was hunky dory and all of a sudden some western powers came and treacherously overthrew us.In reality moral decline of the caliphate started way before its political or military decline and what the later dynasties achieved in terms of worldly honors have little to do with the religion of islam.

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Now I have heard it all!

In what era did anybody have the freedom become a slave? Why would anyone choose to become a slave?

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I only said what Islamic text--Qur'an and Sahih Sunnah--tells us and correct scholarly understanding of the matter. I do not understand why there is a need to be "politically correct" regarding this issue because the rights that Islam gives to slaves, men and women, are far superior than the rights which ancient times or modern era give to slaves. Islam, from Adam (AS) till Prophet (Peace be upon him) never started slavery. Humans introduced wars and so the slavery came into existence. Why do people always end up blaming Islam for something which humans started. Islam rather helped humans by improving the conditions of slaves. Wars are inevitable and so is slavery.

My friend there is no gray area. The rights of a concubine in regard to sleeping with her master are the same as that of a wife, meaning she can't be rapped and neither she can refuse her master's request without a legitimate shriah excuse.

Note: when I say slaves, I mean prisoners of war. Here, people have mixed up the idea of slavery. In Islam slavery is not selling poor people or hearing servants etc. Slavery in Islam refers to **prisoners**** of war.
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Slavery is not inevitable anymore than believing that a religion that allows for slavery is the final message.

Prisoners of wars are not and should not ever be slaves. The very idea that a man expects to have sex with a prisoner of war or any other kind of prisoner is misogynic and barbaric.

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No, as long there are wars there will be slavery. Can you prove that there will no more wars? The answer is NO! So on what basis do you say that slavery (prisoners of wars) is not inevitable?


So you rather have them put in dungeons and torture them? So who is barbaric here--Islam, who gives freedom to prisoners of war to work, live outside and earn their freedom by paying money or someone else pays for you or modern/ancient, who through prisoners in dungeons, torture them, rape them etc?

btw aren't you a Christian?

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Slavery is NOT a necessary outcome of of war. It is only to bring economic and social benefits to the victorious side and its soldiers. Please read the Geneva Convention for the modern day intepretation of the proper treatment for prisoners. I'm not saying it is followed correctly all the time, but slavery is a concept for ancient times.