Can you really let go off someone you love?

queen_24 · July 23, 2012, 1:01am

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Bait Bazi Month of October 2008

BSB: In love people cannot see things/situation/circumstances of future. I totally understand your feelings for your guy but it looks to me that your guy doesnt want to take stand for you, which is pretty disturbing fact in your relationship. If he was truly in love with you, he would work on all the related concerns of his family and make it possible to proceed with you, but he is in reality not interested in you. As you mentioned that he was rejected by your family, and you cant blame him for that because he was already moved on and proceeding with another girl. You may weep/cry/sob, and that is understandable because you are not closing his chapter in your life. The best you can do is to share your true feeling to one of your close sibling and ask him to help you in moving on. You need to socialize with friends more frequently and involve yourself in healthy activities and participate in community work. Take the advantage of this bless month and ask Allah to make your heart peaceful. Read HQ’s response, Allah doesnt want you to be with your guy and He wants better one for you.** You are mashaAllah young, attractive, beautiful and educated **and I usually dont praise like that to anyone. I hope you will try to change your thoughts about him and take a break of few month and inshaAllah would find a good guy to whom you could say proudly that he is the guy who truly stand for me.

Kidher dekha ??

Midnight_express_91 · July 23, 2012, 2:22am

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The Random Thread

Since I have Phd in love …
BSB, its better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all. Its cliche I know, but holds wisdom.
Think about what is love and what is the purpose of it? I believe there is a higher purpose of this feeling than just to be in close proximity of someone. A sort of self revelation and a chance to be more than just a selfish human being. Love will initially burn you to ashes but if you truly understood love you will rise like a Phoenix with powers of humility, sympathy, care, and infectious tranquility to spread love. Eternal love is not the slave of this physical word. Physical Separation means nothing to the love that you hold in your heart and soul. It makes you a person who is able to share that tremendous feeling with the world. Your lover will remain your nirvana but many will receive the bliss through the fountain of love that he created in your being.
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Yes I am weird

NARE TAKBIR!!!

riday · July 23, 2012, 9:52am

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you keep on giving excuses to yourself that your relationship was affected by some other cause. Honestly the relationship depends on two people only. You and your better half. What I think and what 90% case is, he is bored with you now and he wont to anything to have you as his wife. Even if his whole family was ready to accept you he wouldnt, even then. If he still had feelings for you, or respected the promises he made, he would’ve done ANYTHING for you. His brothers, mother father wouldnt even matter. Trust me. So stop giving yourself excuses and stop denying the fact that he is gone and just let him go.
This point of his " you dont necessarily marry the one you love" , is utterly bull**** and pure selfishness. My dear one day after he is engaged he’ll forget you. So just ignore him and forget him. Better yet kick him out of your life. He is a typical example of a perfect loser..jo mohabbat toh apni marzi se ker sakta hai magar shaadi sirf apni maa jee ki marzi se he karey ga. I pity the mentality of such men. Dont hurt yourself anymore.

and the thing about you talking to HIS mother? Ya Allah ki hogaya hai? uss ne khudi apni maa jee ko kaha hoga k aap usko reject kerdien takay mere uper koi ilzaam na aye.

riday · July 23, 2012, 9:55am

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oh please, dont suggest that dua. Dua kero ussay hazar gunah acha tumhein mil jaye. AMEEEN

he is such a loser, he has given up. Now he wants to have fun with another girl. Where does that leave YOU? huh nowhere honey. just forget that sorry ass of his

_Passionate · July 23, 2012, 10:04am

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The Random Thread

Since I have Phd in love …
BSB, its better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all. Its cliche I know, but holds wisdom.
Think about what is love and what is the purpose of it? I believe there is a higher purpose of this feeling than just to be in close proximity of someone. A sort of self revelation and a chance to be more than just a selfish human being. Love will initially burn you to ashes but if you truly understood love you will rise like a Phoenix with powers of humility, sympathy, care, and infectious tranquility to spread love. Eternal love is not the slave of this physical word. Physical Separation means nothing to the love that you hold in your heart and soul. It makes you a person who is able to share that tremendous feeling with the world. Your lover will remain your nirvana but many will receive the bliss through the fountain of love that he created in your being.
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Yes I am weird

Rumi’s got nothin’ on you sista!

khattichic · July 23, 2012, 3:53pm

Re: Can you really let go off someone you love?

The Random Thread

Since I have Phd in love …
BSB, its better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all. Its cliche I know, but holds wisdom.
Think about what is love and what is the purpose of it? I believe there is a higher purpose of this feeling than just to be in close proximity of someone. A sort of self revelation and a chance to be more than just a selfish human being. Love will initially burn you to ashes but if you truly understood love you will rise like a Phoenix with powers of humility, sympathy, care, and infectious tranquility to spread love. Eternal love is not the slave of this physical word. Physical Separation means nothing to the love that you hold in your heart and soul. It makes you a person who is able to share that tremendous feeling with the world. Your lover will remain your nirvana but many will receive the bliss through the fountain of love that he created in your being.
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Yes I am weird

Decent_6Chora · July 23, 2012, 4:18pm

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technically wrong smiley for bebo but yeah, we got the message…

Bish · July 23, 2012, 5:44pm

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Bait Bazi Month of October 2008

BSB: In love people cannot see things/situation/circumstances of future. I totally understand your feelings for your guy but it looks to me that your guy doesnt want to take stand for you, which is pretty disturbing fact in your relationship. If he was truly in love with you, he would work on all the related concerns of his family and make it possible to proceed with you, but he is in reality not interested in you. As you mentioned that he was rejected by your family, and you cant blame him for that because he was already moved on and proceeding with another girl. You may weep/cry/sob, and that is understandable because you are not closing his chapter in your life. The best you can do is to share your true feeling to one of your close sibling and ask him to help you in moving on. You need to socialize with friends more frequently and involve yourself in healthy activities and participate in community work. Take the advantage of this bless month and ask Allah to make your heart peaceful. Read HQ’s response, Allah doesnt want you to be with your guy and He wants better one for you. You are mashaAllah young, attractive, beautiful and educated and I usually dont praise like that to anyone. I hope you will try to change your thoughts about him and take a break of few month and inshaAllah would find a good guy to whom you could say proudly that he is the guy who truly stand for me.

great words

Bish · July 23, 2012, 5:48pm

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Guys tell me , everyone knows ones family quite well, then why on earth the stupid guys get involve n on the mean time they say k "sorry, mere maa baap ne mere liye bohot kuch kiya hai, main apni mrzi kr k unko dukh nai dayskta.. " the stupid guys know k things wont gonna work for the particular lady/girl then WHY N WHY ON EARTH THEY GET INVOLVE N TAKE IT SOOOOO FAR FOR THE GIRL N MAKE IT TOO HARD TO GET BACK OR NORMAL…???

queen_24 · July 23, 2012, 6:16pm

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O bhai, shuru se mairee sari posts parho, phir comment karna

Apricot · July 23, 2012, 7:21pm

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larkian khud bewakoof hoti hain..they should just ask the guy straight up right in the beginning what his intentions are! pehle poochti nahin..phir baad main roti hain that hayeee larka mujhe chor ker gaya!

BombShellBabe · July 23, 2012, 9:17pm

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It’s hard but I will try my best to forget him…

Man_with_a_Plan · July 23, 2012, 9:51pm

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Why do you want to marry a chicken? There are quite good and decent guys that are single.

hareem01 · July 23, 2012, 10:31pm

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good and decent guys like Man with a Van.

Krypton · July 23, 2012, 10:36pm

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bebo…i must say as cheesy as that was. it’s well-written. and so what if it’s cheesy, i liked it

Man_with_a_Plan · July 23, 2012, 11:32pm

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Hahaha

STA · July 23, 2012, 11:33pm

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queen_24 · July 24, 2012, 1:40am

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tumharay pappa ko bataongi

PyariCgudia · July 24, 2012, 2:00am

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letting go is next to impossible; only heals with time

STA · July 24, 2012, 2:02am

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