Can you really let go off someone you love?

I am really hurt because I cant let go off someone I truly love… I believe he is going to get engaged/married soon… Can love hurt you this much or are we able to change perceptions? I have been in love with this guy for 7years. I NEED HELP… HELP ME!!!.. I have tried everything to forget him but he still holds a special place in my heart.

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what does he hold for you in his heart?

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He can't marry me because of family reasons... I probably hold something in his heart but not enough to stand up for me. Nothing works to get him to become a real murd... I AM VERY HURT... I HAVE BEEN HURTING IN THIS SEPARATION...

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whats the point of one sided love?if he loved you too..he'd make sure to end up with you as well..

you wont forget him..but the intensity of your feelings should decrease with time..hopefully!

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True Love is always more than enough to stand up for someone!! Seems he's running short of it. Famiy reasons?? Did he explain you the reasons?

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Yes, he did explain me... He said parents do a lot for us... I am being double standard by telling him how much I have loved him throughout my life.. I told him Allah has give us rights in marriage. The family is against it but he never stood up to back me up... He doesnt want to go through that process... Yes, family is a reason for him to not stand up for me... He acts like a stranger to me.

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He is my true love.... I still love him the same way. However, I do have lot more paitence from the time of breakup.

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He has clearly stated that he doesnt want to understand me. I find peace in my prayers and namaz.... I truly love him. Sometimes, I feel I might die if I have to see him sitting with someone else as his dhulan.

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BSB- Get yourself some break dear! He doesn't love you! Seriously! Dont cry for someone who doesnt even deserve you to cry on!!

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may Allah give u a better replacement than him in your life..ameen! i feel bad for u girl! :(

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Ok, have it and get some relief :@:

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He Just Trolled You!

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yawn

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Why would you wan’t to marry a person who is in your own words not ” a real murd”? He will be chickening out all his life in one thing or another.
How can you love him and still think so low of him?
Perplexing!!

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The problem is that he is chickening out on me due to family reasons. Have you heard of giving Qurbani? We have family issues from status, education, and involvement of other people. I think he does love me. He says it is not necessary to marry the one you love. Most people get married to someone else not their lovers.... I'm having hard time consuming the reality.

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:smack:

leave him. He is not worthy to spend whole life.

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I think you're just his booty call, girlfrand.

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What is your age BSB?? whateva, you sound 16 dear!! C`mon, his words "not necessary to marry the one you love" already says a lot. Get the points of out his statements and kick on his @$$!

I feel sorry for you, but there is no doubt, you have someone more great than him, ahead!! Just look forward!!

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Im not a gf... He is actually doing it for his family.

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What is he doing for YOU dear?? were you not his family?? (in his heart)