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^ ofcourse i am a girl. any problem? 
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nice u waist aot of time to pick this all ediot stuff…
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We tend to treat women as second class citizen..yeah i know go figure..If i were ya, i wouldnt want to be identified.
(read it with sarcasm:p)
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well this topic is already closeddddddddddd …bhubaiiiiiiii
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Yes this eediot, fullish, naansense stuff.
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be prepared? what a moron. tell him to be bloody well prepared.
and funguy is right- sounds like a real perverted arse. she should run.
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Prepared...who says that. Loser. Honestly I don't feel bad for the girl she needs to tell him how she feels, seriously COMMUNICATE people!
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In some guys once you've got the girl (as in marriage) the animal instinct tends to take over and you want to move onto sex. This guy obviously can't control the animal inside him. 'Be prepared'...LOL, what a nutcase he is. His wife should clearly tell him she would rather have sex on their wedding night as it is more romantic and would be more meaningful for her with the man she loves. This is the case with most women who dream of this stuff throughout their lives. If he cannot acknowledge and respect this desire of hers (which clearly profesess her love for him) then he's not worth it. Hes a despo and should be sent in the hooker's direction.
Do tell us what happens.
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I love it when folks bring the most private of the conversations to the net and to top it off without the knowledge of the parties involved. Why cannot you guys go ask some one "who knows" like an Islamic scholar in person.
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Who cares. It's their life. Why the hell are you guys giving advice about whether they should screw each other or not.
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hmmmmmmmmm
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sarah: its is their life, true, but then why post such things on a public forum in the first place? the thread was posted for people can comment on it.
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The girl asked her friend, not a bunch of strangers intent on dictating someone else's sex life. Seems disturbingly sick to me.
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I`ll have to agree with Sarah here, its their life, and such an issue really shouldnt be in public discussion.
The girl should do what she thinks is right. Islam has no concept of rukhsati anyways.
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What you mean there is no concept of rukhsati and it's none of our business. It damn is my business. If I am going to a rukhsati with a gift in my right hand I expect both bride and the grooms to have NOT consummated the marriage prior to my arrival. I mean that's utter nonsense. I am making an effort to attend the rukhsati and these idiots have already rukhsat each other ...not fair and ethically totally wrong and quite distrubing. I swear if I see the 'relieved smirk' on dulha's face before rukhsati, I am taking my gift back.
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^ 
itna ghussa?
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Yes I am angry. I have a record of never attending a wedding where the bride is not a virgin. I won't let these young idiots ruin my tradition.
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How were you so sure?
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FG, what about the groom? Why is he exempt from such a condition?