Re: Can I find a girl who hasnt had a pre marital
Huh?
Ive had chances to gave a gf i stayed away.
Re: Can I find a girl who hasnt had a pre marital
Re: Can I find a girl who hasnt had a pre marital
Ive had chances to gave a gf i stayed away.
Not to you, I was responding to the post right above yours
Re: Can I find a girl who hasnt had a pre marital
I really dont find anything unreasonable in the OP's demands. There are people out there that have never had a relationship prior to marriage (i'm not just talking about zina, even dating), so it is completely reasonable to want someone who values the same things.
OP: keep searching, Alhumdulillah there are plenty of girls out there who hold the same kind of values you hold.
As for divorcing a girl based on her past after marriage, well i think thats pushing it... but if the OP has made it clear that he doesn't want someone with a past prior to any baat-pakki, then the girls shouldn't be too surprised with the repercussion when their lies are uncovered... either fess up, or find another rishta who isn't as stringent in their demands.
Re: Can I find a girl who hasnt had a pre marital
mathematics, meet nadii86
nadii86, meet mathematics......
:D
Don't think that'd work as nadi has already talked to some guy online for 2 months. Mathematics is sure to lose sleep over that.
Plus their introduction would mean they are having 'premarital talks' which is also against his moral code.
Re: Can I find a girl who hasnt had a pre marital
Don't think that'd work as nadi has already talked to some guy online for 2 months. Mathematics is sure to lose sleep over that.
Plus their introduction would mean they are having 'premarital talks' which is also against his moral code.
*Against Islam
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*Against Islam
Yes, thank you.
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Islam main awaz ka parda hai? 
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You can talk with the wali present, but not online one to one.
Re: Can I find a girl who hasnt had a pre marital
You can talk with the wali present, but not online one to one.
so you don't know about the independent Muslim ladies running the trade and business? How was that possible? did they hire full time wali?
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What's hard hearted about that? There's nothing unreasonable about his requirement.
It is unreasonable to divorce someone because of a past that is long over and done with.
I don't understand this about people who are very religious or claim to be very religious. Islam is supposed to make you a better, kinder and more forgiving person. Your connection with Allah swt is supposed to give you more sabr and strength. When your faith fails to touch your heart and reflect in the treatment of those around you, I believe it stops being about your faith. It becomes acrobats on a rug. A beard could be a goatee. Saving yourself could be another way of saying no one you liked wanted you.
Saving yourself is sort of a part of Pakistani culture. The OP is just a very cultured guy but I don't believe this requirement of his has anything to do with Islam. Its just desi.
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In wonder if Zaroon will divorce Kashaf know that he found out Osama had proposed to her?
oh wait, wrong thread…whoops :sid:
Re: Can I find a girl who hasnt had a pre marital
It is unreasonable to divorce someone because of a past that is long over and done with.
I don't understand this about people who are very religious or claim to be very religious. Islam is supposed to make you a better, kinder and more forgiving person. Your connection with Allah swt is supposed to give you more sabr and strength. When your faith fails to touch your heart and reflect in the treatment of those around you, I believe it stops being about your faith. It becomes acrobats on a rug. A beard could be a goatee. Saving yourself could be another way of saying no one you liked wanted you.
Saving yourself is sort of a part of Pakistani culture. The OP is just a very cultured guy but I don't believe this requirement of his has anything to do with Islam. Its just desi.
I have saved myself for the sakenof Allah and ofc Islam is all forgiving, but I am weak Iwon't have ir in me to accept someone with a past. It is a weakness I have and it shouldn't be like that. But it is how it is. I am against a lot of cultural stuff aswell.
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I have saved myself for the sakenof Allah and ofc Islam is all forgiving, but I am weak Iwon't have ir in me to accept someone with a past. It is a weakness I have and it shouldn't be like that. But it is how it is. I am against a lot of cultural stuff aswell.
Allah swt is all forgiving.
But not you.
I still don't see the logic.
Re: Can I find a girl who hasnt had a pre marital
It is unreasonable to divorce someone because of a past that is long over and done with.
I don't understand this about people who are very religious or claim to be very religious. Islam is supposed to make you a better, kinder and more forgiving person. Your connection with Allah swt is supposed to give you more sabr and strength. When your faith fails to touch your heart and reflect in the treatment of those around you, I believe it stops being about your faith. It becomes acrobats on a rug. A beard could be a goatee. ** Saving yourself could be another way of saying no one you liked wanted you.
Saving yourself is sort of a part of Pakistani culture **. The OP is just a very cultured guy but I don't believe this requirement of his has anything to do with Islam. Its just desi.
wow, really?
so exactly how do we not-save-ourselves prior to marriage? please enlighten me with Islamic references.
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wow, really?
so exactly how do we not-save-ourselves prior to marriage? please enlighten me with Islamic references.
I don't think you understood my post. I'd re-read it.
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I don't think you understood my post. I'd re-read it.
It isn't an Islamic demand and it goes against Islam in the sense I can't someone their past, however I am not prefect and niether are the people who had bfs/gfs. But I saved myself for Islam.
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wow, really?
so exactly how do we not-save-ourselves prior to marriage? please enlighten me with Islamic references.
I think what she means is.....if you're so religious, you would be a better, kinder, more forgiving person....being religious should make you stronger and have more patience. When you fail to become those things, and instead are hard-hearted and harsh....all the things you do in the name of religion begin to mean nothing:
prayer = acrobats
Beard = goatee
saving yourself = an excuse.
Virginity, saving yourself etc, doesn't make you a better person if you treat others badly.
Re: Can I find a girl who hasnt had a pre marital
It is unreasonable to divorce someone because of a past that is long over and done with.
I don't understand this about people who are very religious or claim to be very religious. Islam is supposed to make you a better, kinder and more forgiving person. Your connection with Allah swt is supposed to give you more sabr and strength. When your faith fails to touch your heart and reflect in the treatment of those around you, I believe it stops being about your faith. It becomes acrobats on a rug. A beard could be a goatee. Saving yourself could be another way of saying no one you liked wanted you.
Saving yourself is sort of a part of Pakistani culture. The OP is just a very cultured guy but I don't believe this requirement of his has anything to do with Islam. Its just desi.
Doing it before marriage is part of Islam? I didn't know that.
Funny how most women who have had relationships before marriage are the ones saying there is nothing wrong with it.
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^ oh shabash.
Funny…are you God? you know all of us here? 