Hi guys Im looking to get married and Ive spoken two girls whom had pasts? It kills me inside to know Ivebsaved myself for my wife and have never had gfriend while Im finding it hard to get a girl who hasnt had a bfriend.
Can I find a girl who hasnt had a pre marital
Where do you live? Whats your definition if pre-marital relationship? i don't think that should be hard, I've lived in the west and never had a bf. just had friends at school and work. But also if someone has "a past" it doesn't mean they're not right for you. I don't think you should solely judge a girl if she's been in a relationship. Although I can understand you would also like someone at par with you. Usually tho these things don't matter after marriage.
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having a boyfriend doesn't necessarily mean she actually did it.... if you know what I mean!!!
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You should concentrate on stuff that matters like are you compatible? Do you care for her? Do you see you both having a future together? Do you have common interests? There are a whole lot more important things than whether she had a boyfriend.
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even if she didnt have a boyfriend, she's probably seen really hot and goodlooking men. she'll be thinking of them. its useless pal. just forget women.
what do you think of men?
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I am from the UK and have never had a relationship.
The shock on some males faces when I tell them that and they think I am lying (but then realise I am telling the truth), is quite sad.
Having relationships seems to be the norm within the muslim community now.
I am too wanting to find a male who hasn't had a relationship. I have met 3 my whole life. 3!!
I had a random girl who came upto me whilst I was at my University, who said, he male friend fancies me and would like my number...I said, no, I am not into relationships, sorry. She looked shocked and kind of looked at me like I was weird.
Its so sad that society become like this where not having a relationship must mean there is 'something wrong with you'
:(.
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iA you'll find someone who hasnt had premaritals. Keep looking. They might be hard to find but they do exist (trust me its easier to find grls with no previous boyfrnds than it is to find guys without previous relationships)
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Hi guys Im looking to get married and Ive spoken two girls whom had pasts? It kills me inside to know Ivebsaved myself for my wife and have never had gfriend while Im finding it hard to get a girl who hasnt had a bfriend.
At some extent, It's true...and same here... but still alot of nice people are there.. you have to find them.. so do some struggle to find them out..
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I am from the UK and have never had a relationship.
I am too wanting to find a male who hasn't had a relationship. I have met 3 my whole life. 3!!.
Well, since OP is in the UK too........if you have no interest in having a job ever (that's one of th other criteria's to be his wife).....you and OP might want to talk through PM. :)
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its not fair. The guy shares his inner most feeling.
And every one stars picking on him. Its his life. He is going to be in one house with one woman.
So let him want!
Better do his work now, rather later opening a million threads like "broken wife" etc..
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Never underestimate the power of social media....
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Hi guys Im looking to get married and Ive spoken two girls whom had pasts? It kills me inside to know Ivebsaved myself for my wife and have never had gfriend while Im finding it hard to get a girl who hasnt had a bfriend.
What's the problem exactly? You can't find girls without pasts or the girls without pasts that you find want something more than just a guy without a past?
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Hi guys Im looking to get married and Ive spoken two girls whom had pasts? It kills me inside to know Ivebsaved myself for my wife and have never had gfriend while Im finding it hard to get a girl who hasnt had a bfriend.
As someone said..why can't you look at other good qualities?. I do understand in this day and age it is apparent to find someone who has had past relationship..but at the end of the day you need to get pass this thinking. If she has moved on from her past relationship so should you. I am just saying.
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As someone said..why can't you look at other good qualities?. I do understand in this day and age it is apparent to find someone who has had past relationship..but at the end of the day you need to get pass this thinking. If she has moved on from her past relationship so should you. I am just saying.
It would bother me too much. Each day I would think about it and as a result the marriage would fail. Also how can so many people go against Allah's will? It makes me sad. I hope Allah forgives all of our sin.
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It would bother me too much. Each day I would think about it and as a result the marriage would fail. Also how can so many people go against Allah's will? It makes me sad. I hope Allah forgives all of our sin.
But it would be only fair if you make peace for things about her past, which you have also done.
Like asking people a question about finding a good girl.
Now you wont hold it against her , if she came to a community website and ask question like "Can I find a boy who did not have past"
stuff like that.
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Know that..we all make mistakes and sometimes stupid mistakes. Only reason this would bother you because of your "negative way of thinking". Khair..i think it would be better if you find someone who doesn't have any past. This will perhaps help you. I was just saying in the case..where she or I have had some past relationship and have moved on. And Allah has covered her or my past sins..who is she/ or me..who should be digging grave. Life is more than looking at your or someone's past.
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OP: I could be wrong but you sound like the kind of person who'll find out a flaw from a girl (or her past) any way. You know, the kind of guys who dig for flaws like there's a prize for it...
Be the bigger person and look for a caring, modest girl..Someone you get along with. Stop digging her past.
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OP: I could be wrong but you sound like the kind of person who'll find out a flaw from a girl (or her past) any way. You know, the kind of guys who dig for flaws like there's a prize for it...
Be the bigger person and look for a caring, modest girl..Someone you get along with. Stop digging her past.
Why should l marry someone who couldnt control them self until marriage, when I have and will do iA?