Re: but we have ruined our generations......
Dawa_i_Dil,
Point here is very simple...Men and Women are equal. But historically it was not followed and it is not being followed even today..I say that because majority of men in the world especially in Eastern society are like that. Even educated men behave like beasts.
Tuhmaari shaadi nahin hui isliye tumhe husband-wife relation ka pata nahin..ek ladki doondh lo aur shaadi kar lo..apne aap additional wisdom aa jaayegi...agar kahin aankh matakka ho rakha hai to thodi aur wisdom aa jaayegi. Because then you will learn how to handle uncertainty and tantrums.
Once in this lovely loop, you can easily see for yourself whether what is being argued about treatment to women is right or wrong.
I have seen even in my close relations..these uncles were like tigers on the prowl. There would be a pin drop silence when a head of family entered the home...In my opinion that kind of behaviour rarely leads to congenial atmosphere...well, discipline is needed, but not by coercion, it is only by setting good examples.
lmagine life to be like a bicycle..two equal sized wheels need to run at the same speed and co-exist i.e. remain fit and fine...if one is missing or stops running...there is no movement.
Women are better then men in many respects...e.g. they are very good at multitasking....a quality they have probably acquired from Kitchen management/and home maker's role. And these skills are very valuable in business situation as well. They are not corrupt, they believe in sharing and caring, and are very resourceful. You have always got a warm and sumptuous meal without fail even if shops are closed for days together or a particular spice was not available or gas, kerosene or electricity was not available. That's their quality of being resourceful.
Men on the other hand have a single track mind...many of them lakir ke fakir.