LOL…nooooo. What I mean by that is not trivial things like that. I mean his habits, how he acts around his parents, home, relatives, how much influence he has over his parents and vice versa, how he acts under pressure in his home, etc etc etc.
Its not something anyone can prepare you for…its just the way marriage works…hard to explain.
I believed much the same things you did at one point.
Im not trying to burst anyone’s bubble here, just trying to help you girls from making mistakes others wish they had been warned about.
Never assume you know everything about your partner before marriage, you dont.