Re: The Arranged Marriage Meet......
The first time we met, chai thingy, I didnt talk at all...He kept on insisting that is there anything I wanted to ask him. He kept on making jokes and laughing so hard at them himself...which was pretty weird as I had not heard any guy laugh in such a way b4. ...I didnt get his jokes BTW. I hated the fact that he was staring...and then some more....I almost felt like giving him a wack...
My husband still to this day says that I look Snobby big time....(which I have tried to change over the years)......
The next day we did talk , and I had made a list few days back...(From Readers digest:D )..my ami made fun of it the previous day in front of him, and he told me to go get it....it was funny, but I just was impressed that he wanted to hear that...I really dont know much about what sorta questions I wrote...But I was still impressed that he had cared enough to ask me to get them and that is why I said Yes to the proposal.....
I very much believe in long engagements...You get to know more about each other by talking to each other about your dreams and aspirations etc.