being friends with opposite gender

[cutefifa]

Re: being friends with opposite gender

I really want to know why friendship between opposite genders changes into more than friendship thing? Who is at fault in this scenario? Thats my observation or experience whatever you say

[hareem01]

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^I think it’s when you start to find your friend attractive, then it becomes more than friendship thing.

[Ashy2010]

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@cutefifa

I really want to know why friendship between opposite genders changes into more than friendship thing? Who is at fault in this scenario? Thats my observation or experience whatever you say

Its because when you get to know too much about someone, you start loving them. We do love our same gender friends. So this also happens when we become friends with opposite gender and get to know them much. If we get along with them well, we get attarcted to them which turns into love interest which can be one sided or two sided. Remember Jaanay tu ya jaanay na movie

[cutefifa]

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@hareem01

^I think it’s when you start to find your friend attractive, then it becomes more than friendship thing.

Can you describe here ATTRACTIVE term? Attractive in nature or attractive in looks or attractive in some other way?? I am really curious to know.

No matter how you differentiate your male and female friends by your behavior but still friendships with opposite gender end on something more than friendship thing. I am really confused???

[cutefifa]

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@Ashy2010

Its because when you get to know too much about someone, you start loving them. We do love our same gender friends. So this also happens when we become friends with opposite gender and get to know them much. If we get along with them well, we get attarcted to them which turns into love interest which can be one sided or two sided. Remember Jaanay tu ya jaanay na movie

Again Ashy you use ATTRACTIVE word?? Details: in my last post…

[Ashy2010]

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@cutefifa

Again Ashy you use ATTRACTIVE word?? Details: in my last post…

We can find anyone attractive because of their looks and/ or their nature, way of talking, behaviour towards us and/ or with others. We can like anyone because of any reason… or without any reason. Its just that we start liking them. Its ridicuolous though

[hareem01]

Re: being friends with opposite gender

Attraction means attraction.

Perhaps you two can carry on the conversation by yourself.

[cutefifa]

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@hareem01

Attraction means attraction.

Perhaps you two can carry on the conversation by yourself.

lolzzzz

OK i will figure it out by myself… :o

[Gina]

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@diwana

Sure,

After work.

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OK.

There is always a potential.

Those who pretend to have so called platonic relation or friendship either fool others or get surprised big time trying to fool themselves.

Unless off course something wrong with one person or other.

Sorry bhaiya but I believe otherwise.. those that think platonic relationships/friendships are impossible have issues themselves. I’ve got male friends at work, outside work.. and GS as well. I don’t have a crush on them..and they don’t either.. there’s no ‘pretending’ to it either. They aren’t gay too (before you go there.) Your post only means that any female you befriend you’ll end-up falling for…

p.s. yeh to you too!

[hareem01]

Re: being friends with opposite gender

I don’t think it’s about having some sort of weird issues with people who disagree with this, it’s just that everyone has opinions based on their own experiences.

[NomiCA]

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Hey girls… wanna fraanship?? :is:

[Jafri]

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@hareem01

Are they hot?

Most of them are cute. Some are hot. But I don’t think about them like that.

[hareem01]

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@Jafri

Most of them are cute. Some are hot. But I don’t think about them like that.

yeah okay… so I guess as long as you’re not attracted to them physically [even if they are very good looking etc] it’s possible to be just a friend with them.

I don’t know…may be some people find it very hard to be friend with a drop dead gorgeous and trying not to take it to the next level.

[Jafri]

Re: being friends with opposite gender

Yah, I am not close friends with the super hot girls that add anybody on Facebook.

[Decent_6Chora]

Re: being friends with opposite gender

NO. Its against nature…

[Shak]

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@sweet.i.f

I dunno if you’re joking but I was gonna say the same thing, and be serious hides away, embarrassed

I think it’s def. possible to be really good friends with guys and not want to get in each others’ pants. On most occasions, I’ve found my guy friends to be a lot more entertaining to be around

They can’t say the same about you

[sweefs]

Re: being friends with opposite gender

Waht would you know, my good lesbian friend?

[Shak]

Re: being friends with opposite gender

@sweet.i.f

Waht would you know, my good lesbian friend?

I know what would I know

Don’t me

[diwana]

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@Gina

Sorry bhaiya but I believe otherwise.. those that think platonic relationships/friendships are impossible have issues themselves. I’ve got male friends at work, outside work.. and GS as well. I don’t have a crush on them..and they don’t either.. there’s no ‘pretending’ to it either. They aren’t gay too (before you go there.) Your post only means that any female you befriend you’ll end-up falling for…

p.s. yeh to you too!

The difference is what constitute friendship. Being acquaintance is different than being close friend.

There is always a potential in latter.

[cutefifa]

Re: being friends with opposite gender

@diwana

The difference is what constitute friendship. Being acquaintance is different than being close friend.

There is always a potential in latter.

Agreed here. If you have close friendship with opposite gender, you will end up on love or crush type of things or at least one party will end up on love or crush.