Re: Been in Love with a boy for over 7 YEARS!
Women sometimes tend to read too much into things. If I wanted to string a girl along until someone better came along, all I would have to do is occasionally say the right things. Basically do a bit of acting and play with a few words and she will be like putty in my hands.
Re: Been in Love with a boy for over 7 YEARS!
Women sometimes tend to read too much into things. If I wanted to string a girl along until someone better came along, all I would have to do is occasionally say the right things. Basically do a bit of acting and play with a few words and she will be like putty in hands.
He can't get a better girl because I'm far way educated than him but other categories are possibilities. His family is looking for him so is mine. He is buzdil caz of my sister since there are problems in her marriAge.
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If he is a buzdil then he is not in love with you by definition.Education is not everything. He and his family may have a different criteria.
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I have gotten professional help but I still find him to be my true love.
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If he is a buzdil then he is not in love with you by definition.
Sacrificing for the family. Yes, my worth is more... We are happy together in person meetings. Long distance can be a problem in communication. As a man, you can better guide me.
Re: Been in Love with a boy for over 7 YEARS!
BombShellBabe meet Nadz…Nadz, meet BombShellBabe 
"…khoob guzray gi jo mil baithen diwane do…"
Re: Been in Love with a boy for over 7 YEARS!
well you have to find a second true love as your first true love does not seem to be going anywhere. And sometimes love comes after marriage and not before.
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He showed so much affection, appreciation, and love in this meeting. Is he trying to confuse me? He never uses sweet words. He treated me nicely. He was being a gentleman. We were laughing and very happy.
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How does he show you affection, appreciation and love? How does he treat you? and what do you mean by being a gentleman?
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My heart is so lost in him. Sometimes, it makes me feel like a loser that I couldn't save the beautiful relationship. I agree with you that it is not going anywhere.
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How does he show you affection, appreciation and love? How does he treat you? and what do you mean by being a gentleman?
He appreciated me front of others that I drove "Y" amazingly. He told me that I'm not less than an actress looking. We took someone 's parking spot so he fought back.He made me laugh a lot while we were eating. We walked together in downtown and it was an amazing time. I think he loves me a lot. He is not a verbal person, he shows it through action.
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I think that you are confused and are getting me confused as well. I think that you love him and are reading too much into his slightest actions and words. All he seems to do is use flattery and words, but you say he is not a verbal person and never uses sweet words. You are a lost cause.
You need to give him an ultimatum and if he does not marry you then move on. If he is not prepared to marry you and just wants to date you then you can't mean that much to him, can you? If his family is looking for other rishtas for him and he is happy to go along with his family then it does not look like he loves you. He just wants to have a good time with you when he is on a date with you.
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I think that you are confused and are getting me confused as well. I think that you love him and are reading too much into his slightest actions and words. All he seems to do is use flattery and words, but you say he is not a verbal person and never uses sweet words. You are a lost cause.
You need to give him an ultimatum and if he does not marry you then move on. If he is not prepared to marry you and just wants to date you then you can't mean that much to him, can you? If his family is looking for other rishtas for him and he is happy to go along with his family then it does not look like he loves you. He just wants to have a good time with you when he is on a date with you.
My family is also looking at the proposals. We are both in the same shoes. I want to be his wife, I don't believe in dating. I initiated this meeting. How can I change my heart? It's not been changing for 7years.
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My family is also looking at the proposals. We are both in the same shoes. I want to be his wife, I don't believe in dating. I initiated this meeting. How can I change my heart? It's not been changing for 7years.
When you find someone new...your heart will automatically change.
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When you find someone new...your heart will automatically change.
Plz pray for me. I have an obsession with him. Trust me, my heart doesn't change!
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you keep saying your heart hasnt changed for thr past 7 years. it isnt changing. what are you even doing for change? change doesnt come on its own, you have to take this step. this sounds a little juvenile, marriage and love dont always go hand in hand, and if your already having these problems now in trying to maintain this love of yours with him, it wont get any better after getting married. take peoples advice and move on and let yourself be happy.
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you keep saying your heart hasnt changed for thr past 7 years. it isnt changing. what are you even doing for change? change doesnt come on its own, you have to take this step. this sounds a little juvenile, marriage and love dont always go hand in hand, and if your already having these problems now in trying to maintain this love of yours with him, it wont get any better after getting married. take peoples advice and move on and let yourself be happy.
Deep down, I know that I belong with him but realistically speaking, I feel like getting his family involved on my own without his consent. But I have no izzat if I do that. Yeah, I might as well get married to someone else who wants my love. I feel incompelete without him.
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Our family status is different too. I have asked him many times to tell me about the criteria but he doesn't go into it in details. He has been a player and he wants a hijabi. I willingly agreed on wearing a hijab if that makes him happy. Anyway, getting out of love is hard.
If he is a buzdil then he is not in love with you by definition.Education is not everything. He and his family may have a different criteria.
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does no one see the big troll with pink hair?
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I'm in love with him because he got me involved in the beginning!