Been in Love with a boy for over 7 YEARS!

Should I be scared for myself? I have been in love with this boy for over seven years. I don’t think we can get married :frowning: … He is in the family! Do you think if I were to get married to someone else then they would be able to take his place in my heart?.. I have tried to erase him from my life but I can’t. He is my true love. Should I SUGAR COAT his family when I see them next time? I really want him to be my husband :(… My heart is not changing!!!

Family standard, status, education, and etc are the reasons that makes us not compatible. This boy won’t stand for me just like any other paki man.

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Have you said to him that you want no other? If so, how does he feel? But if not, then you should tell him, or tell someone who can tell him.

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and, exactly, how old is this “BOY”? :cb: :stuck_out_tongue:

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if he wont stand for you then darlin what kinda love is that :smack:

for crying out loud!!! as said many times… piar, ishq, mohabbat SIRF aik jazbati attack hota hai :chai:

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You should try to woo him with your singing talents :chai:

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Like this … :hehe:

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Is this noodle's multi? We had a talk last night about the decline in his trolling qualities...he is expected to post from a multi....please tell me this isn't his attempt. Kid is losing his touch.

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^ definitely not Noodle, fikar naat

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Is there a way to express interest in him? like get a friend to let him know you are interested, maybe he doesnt even know or realize. I don't know, keep it simple imo.

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I have told em many times that I love em... He has some of the qualities that you wouldn't want in a husband but I still love him and want him desperately.

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Some people were calling me your multi nick.

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He mistreated me in the past and he talks to me normally now. However, I love him so much. It's been over 7yrs. I know one of us will get engaged or married within a year. I can't see another girl with him. If I were to get engaged, I would want him to be that person while neglecting all the good marriage proposals I have.

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Please help me, I have tried to forget him but I can't. I am more attractive and fit from the time he fell in love with me. I'm family oriented and wife material. I can remove the complications but I need him by my side. How can he love me again so he is willing to take a stand for me?

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:khumar:

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As hard as it is, please do not do this to yourself. Don't reject other good proposals just b/c of him. Give other people a chance, if you cant make the decision for yourself, let your parents make it for you. You will look back at this and regret it a lot. If this person doesn't like you the way you like him, then you need to move on. Once you will find someone who will love you, trust me, you will forget about this guy. I am guaranteeing you this.

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Being loved is an extremely good feeling, far far better than one sided love.

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With a name like Bombshellbabe, you'd think you wouldn't have a problem phansofying a man...

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I know it's easy for us to tell you to move on, but it can't be easily done. However, this guy is not even willing to stand up for you and support you. If it was true love from his side he would stand up for you don't you think? Actually it's not true that Pakistani men don't stand up for their love. My fiance stood by me from the past 8 years even though at times we thought it was impossible. You have to consider if this guy really loves you as much as you love him? Has he talked to his family and try to send rishta? See, if the guy hasn't put any effort into convincing his parents than I don't know how much he really wants to be with you. If he loves you he wouldn't keep it a secret for all these years.

If you decide to wait for him, just make sure he is worth it.

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Can I share some with you? :smiley:

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Aight so that means ya have gone out on coffee with him. Yo..i would say..have ya eva open ya're heart front of him?. If ya didn't then..best of wishes.