Re: Been in Love with a boy for over 7 YEARS!
^ you forgot to call her sugarmuffin, honey pie, cinnabun, cookie dough, yo ;)
Re: Been in Love with a boy for over 7 YEARS!
Yes, he has sent a proposal when I was 19years old. I was young back then... My family said that they are not looking for me right now. This guy won't stand up for me. I am obsessed with him since he was my first love. My heart feels deceived if I try to give anyone else a chance. I'm so attached to him! I get hurt a lot when he is rude to me. I just can't move on, I have been trying for 3 years. I'm strong and happy but he still capture a place in my heart.
Re: Been in Love with a boy for over 7 YEARS!
One thing is obvious
either you are not BombShellBabe or he is blind
pick one…
I mean how hard it is for BombShellBabe to …
Re: Been in Love with a boy for over 7 YEARS!
This was two sided love . I feel it is one-sided love because I want him. Being a guy, he is silent.
Re: Been in Love with a boy for over 7 YEARS!
His family had concerns so did my family. He finds me very attractive.
Re: Been in Love with a boy for over 7 YEARS!
We are not compatible in many ways.
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He is in the family, it is a problem, belongs to my sister's in laws.
Re: Been in Love with a boy for over 7 YEARS!
okie i get it you are very pretty.Saying it once is jsut fine.
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Been in Love with a boy for over 7 YEARS!
If he can't stand up for u rite now, he never will in the future and u will end up fighting all ur battles alone for the rest of ur life. U already know deep within that's he not meant to be. Just look at the better ones that come along and move on. InshAllah, u will be much happier in life!
Re: Been in Love with a boy for over 7 YEARS!
Aha ... He's been turned down by you ... He's had his ego hurt, but now you want to get married to him, he is playing hard to get ... Your parents need to start things up again with his parents ... Then he needs to be buttered up, apologise to him ...
Re: Been in Love with a boy for over 7 YEARS!
Leave some for your psyah bhai … 
Re: Been in Love with a boy for over 7 YEARS!
This was two sided love . I feel it is one-sided love because I want him. Being a guy, he is silent.
Huh? How does that work? He's a guy so he's silent and you're the girl so you're the one whos gonna fight for it?
Seems legit.
Re: Been in Love with a boy for over 7 YEARS!
Huh? How does that work? He's a guy so he's silent and you're the girl so you're the one whos gonna fight for it?
Seems legit.
Yes, men pick their family. The family have decided that we were not compatible. I share everything with him. I have strong attachment with him even we have separated 3yrs ago and eliminated contact. I agree that he won't stand up for me ever in his life while I'm craving to be next to em.
Re: Been in Love with a boy for over 7 YEARS!
Yes, he has sent a proposal when I was 19years old. I was young back then... My family said that they are not looking for me right now. This guy won't stand up for me. I am obsessed with him since he was my first love. My heart feels deceived if I try to give anyone else a chance. I'm so attached to him! I get hurt a lot when he is rude to me. I just can't move on, I have been trying for 3 years. I'm strong and happy but he still capture a place in my heart.
Option 1
If he loves you he will need to stand up for you. Things can work out if he is willing to let go of his ego and send your rishta again. This time you can tell your parents in advance that he is the one you want to marry, so they don't say no. Even if they say no, stand your ground and they will say yes eventually.
Option 2
From my observation, you are so blinded by love right now that you can't even see if he is the right guy for you or not. As much difficult as it sounds, he is rude to you and won't stand up for you. Is that the kind of relationship you want in your future? Don't you want someone who will love you in return and be there for you always? Bombshell, if he is not even keeping you happy right now, how is he going to keep you happy in the future? Please open yourself up to other possibilities. There are guys out there that know how to treat a women. Please open yourself up and give others a chance and you will see how beautiful a relationship can be. I'm sorry I know its easier done than said, but please don't ruin your life over someone who might not be worth it at the end.
Option 3
There is no option 3. You can't live your life like this. You need to choose one of the above if you want to move on with your life.
Re: Been in Love with a boy for over 7 YEARS!
We have met recently and we had happy times together by doing different activities. I felt he still loves me. I have pushed him many times to stand up but he won't do it. The communication doors between us are not great when discussed about being together because he has distance himself, I did the meeting so he can come back to me and see how I possess model looks. Everything has failed. We had a blast and he enjoyed my company a lot. Men are scared of commitment. I love him so much and I have been trying to erase him from my heart. I'm not buzdil. He needs to be next to me. Should I do hungma in his family? I will be seeing em in couple of months. He has left me caz he is kamzoor.
Option 1 If he loves you he will need to stand up for you. Things can work out if he is willing to let go of his ego and send your rishta again. This time you can tell your parents in advance that he is the one you want to marry, so they don't say no. Even if they say no, stand your ground and they will say yes eventually.
Option 2 From my observation, you are so blinded by love right now that you can't even see if he is the right guy for you or not. As much difficult as it sounds, he is rude to you and won't stand up for you. Is that the kind of relationship you want in your future? Don't you want someone who will love you in return and be there for you always? Bombshell, if he is not even keeping you happy right now, how is he going to keep you happy in the future? Please open yourself up to other possibilities. There are guys out there that know how to treat a women. Please open yourself up and give others a chance and you will see how beautiful a relationship can be. I'm sorry I know its easier done than said, but please don't ruin your life over someone who might not be worth it at the end.
Option 3 There is no option 3. You can't live your life like this. You need to choose one of the above if you want to move on with your life.
Re: Been in Love with a boy for over 7 YEARS!
I wouldn't open a thread to hear that I'm blind. Think about 7years which is pretty long time. I can't move on. He doesn't have some of the marriage material qualities but I still want him. I have been hurt and put in miserable pain but no one can replace him . He is my happiness. It is a long distance problem else we would have been happy together. Ahista Ahista, he is opening communication doors but that speed won't help. The problem is my heart has hold up those feelings tight. I feel incompelete without him. I'm not a Bachi. He is the only guy who I have loved .
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Should I be scared for myself? I have been in love with this boy for over seven years. I don't think we can get married :( .... He is in the family! Do you think if I were to get married to someone else then they would be able to take his place in my heart?.... I have tried to erase him from my life but I can't. He is my true love. Should I SUGAR COAT his family when I see them next time? I really want him to be my husband :(... My heart is not changing!!!
Family standard, status, education, and etc are the reasons that makes us not compatible. This boy won't stand for me just like any other paki man.
Seems like one sided love....7 years is a long time. I think he is just using you until he gets married. Its time to move on.
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Seems like one sided love....7 years is a long time. I think he is just using you until he gets married. Its time to move on.
Sometimes, he shows lots of concern about me and my life. I don't know if he has been using me. I feel happy when he talks to me so Im the user. I see love in his eyes for me. Why would he still be concerned about me after 3yrs of separation?
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I know that I will get married or engaged within a year too.
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See my uncle was also buzdil but my foreigner aunt stood for herself by talking to the family. Now, they are happily married for 4years. Can you put me in the same shoes? You know those Paki men who deleted when talking to their parents because the kids don't wanna convince em....