Bad Weddings

[Sara516]

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@pinks

• come the wedding day… the jeheiz has ALREADY been sent to the dulha’s house. @ the Nikah ka time… the moulvi is stopped from proceeding and the groom makes a stupid demand; he wants a motorised scooter… and the bride’s poor brother was like “i dont have any more money”. Woh cheap dulha arh gaya and said that if i dont get a scooter then i won’t say “yes”… on top the groom’s father also backed his pathetic son up!

• the buzzurg come in and they decide to tie the broom and his father up for being such pricks! ppl start throwing things at 'em, old ladies take off their jooti’s and start hitting, cursing, u name it… the groom’s uncle runs to the police station to get help!

• the police came, found out what had happened, and decided to add a personal touch and gave the groom a stick or two. and told the rest of the ppl to knock themselves out bashing the groom up

that makes me happy (i mean that they beat the crap out of him and he got wat he deserved). i hope he never got married, kameenay ghataya laug.

[pinks]

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^ lol… i dont know what happened to him… but i guess this isn’t an entirely bad wedding… the girl did end up in a sensible susraal so it turned out ok

i tell u this jeheiz thing is such a disease! why cant we follow the sunnah and having girls wouldn’t be such a burden :no:

[Pareezay]

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omg pinks, you had me in splits with the police part.. oh man.. such people are such sad creatures, seriously. besharam log.

@pinks

• the buzzurg come in and they decide to tie the broom and his father up for being such pricks! ppl start throwing things at 'em, old ladies take off their jooti’s and start hitting, cursing, u name it… the groom’s uncle runs to the police station to get help!

• the police came, found out what had happened, and decided to add a personal touch and gave the groom a stick or two. and told the rest of the ppl to knock themselves out bashing the groom up

• they decided to call the wedding off (shukr) and some of the ppl went to retrieve the jeheiz, and got it back peacefully enuf.

[somegroovychick]

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@pinks

God! it must feel so surreal! just wondering… does it feel like time has slowed down or sped up?

sped up! all of a sudden theres a million little things left to do and no time to do them all! argh! its extremely surreal. i broke my toe the week before my wedding… that was NOT fun!
PF you better be careful lady!!

[somegroovychick]

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lol @ pinks!! it would make a great plot for an indian movie, but im so happy the bride found her groom in the end! :)

[teelobhain]

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@pakifairy

yes, only 16 days (FAINTS 100 times)

Oh MY GOD YOU ARE GETTING MARRIED ON MY BIRTHDAY!!!
AND SO IS ONE OF MY COUSIN...woah

[_MuNiYa]

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@pinks

Alhumdulillah I’ve never been to one… but heard one from my Mum (it happened before my Mum was married, the ppl lived in her street)… i’ll shorten it to dot points:

• family was financially a bit unsettled, parents passed away, brother decides to save up for his sister’s wedding… did the best he could and got together jeheiz for her and what not

• come the wedding day… the jeheiz has ALREADY been sent to the dulha’s house. @ the Nikah ka time… the moulvi is stopped from proceeding and the groom makes a stupid demand; he wants a motorised scooter… and the bride’s poor brother was like “i dont have any more money”. Woh cheap dulha arh gaya and said that if i dont get a scooter then i won’t say “yes”… on top the groom’s father also backed his pathetic son up!

• the buzzurg come in and they decide to tie the broom and his father up for being such pricks! ppl start throwing things at 'em, old ladies take off their jooti’s and start hitting, cursing, u name it… the groom’s uncle runs to the police station to get help!

• the police came, found out what had happened, and decided to add a personal touch and gave the groom a stick or two. and told the rest of the ppl to knock themselves out bashing the groom up

• they decided to call the wedding off (shukr) and some of the ppl went to retrieve the jeheiz, and got it back peacefully enuf.

• an old uncle from the mohalla said “yeh bachi dulhan ban ke beithi hai, aur yeh aaj apney susraal hi mein lotey gi”… so he went home, woke up his jawan son and said “son, you’re getting married”… brought his son to the hall… the nikah was carried out and I am praying that they lived happily ever after,

[Maham]

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@pinks

• an old uncle from the mohalla said “yeh bachi dulhan ban ke beithi hai, aur yeh aaj apney susraal hi mein lotey gi”… so he went home, woke up his jawan son and said “son, you’re getting married”… brought his son to the hall… the nikah was carried out and I am praying that they lived happily ever after,

Awwwwwwwww i hope they r living happily ever after…Inshallah!

[teelobhain]

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^ I hope so too - i hope that poor girl gets all the happiness she deserves or probably more then she deserves after what happened to her on her big day.

[tweety_pie]

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@Sara516

Oh…

SMILE! Like… TRY to look happy…lol. it sucks when the bride (or groom etc) has a pissed off look the entire time throughout the wedding. i was watching one video, where the groom looked so disinterested to the point of bored and annoyed…til the valima video where he had an ear-to-ear grin.

wonder why ???

[Choozy]

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@pakifairy

yes, only 16 days (FAINTS 100 times)

aahaahha...good luck, eh!

[Choozy]

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@pinks

Alhumdulillah I’ve never been to one… but heard one from my Mum (it happened before my Mum was married, the ppl lived in her street)… i’ll shorten it to dot points:

• family was financially a bit unsettled, parents passed away, brother decides to save up for his sister’s wedding… did the best he could and got together jeheiz for her and what not

• come the wedding day… the jeheiz has ALREADY been sent to the dulha’s house. @ the Nikah ka time… the moulvi is stopped from proceeding and the groom makes a stupid demand; he wants a motorised scooter… and the bride’s poor brother was like “i dont have any more money”. Woh cheap dulha arh gaya and said that if i dont get a scooter then i won’t say “yes”… on top the groom’s father also backed his pathetic son up!

• the buzzurg come in and they decide to tie the broom and his father up for being such pricks! ppl start throwing things at 'em, old ladies take off their jooti’s and start hitting, cursing, u name it… the groom’s uncle runs to the police station to get help!

• the police came, found out what had happened, and decided to add a personal touch and gave the groom a stick or two. and told the rest of the ppl to knock themselves out bashing the groom up

• they decided to call the wedding off (shukr) and some of the ppl went to retrieve the jeheiz, and got it back peacefully enuf.

• an old uncle from the mohalla said “yeh bachi dulhan ban ke beithi hai, aur yeh aaj apney susraal hi mein lotey gi”… so he went home, woke up his jawan son and said “son, you’re getting married”… brought his son to the hall… the nikah was carried out and I am praying that they lived happily ever after,

WOW!! How interesting!

[Michelle_Ali]

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This happened in 2000. An uncle and auntie (widow), both with grown-up kids, fell in love and wanted to get married. Their family (uncles first wife) and kids didn’t accept. But they didn’t care and planned the whole thing…like sent out invitations, organized shadi function, decoration, ordered food, etc. Uncle paid for everything. Come the day, and right before nikkha ceremony auntie’s daughter went on stage and begged her mother not to do it. She did it infornt of 300 guests. I wasn’t there, but I’ve been told (by herself ) that she reminded her mother of their dead father. She said she manipulated her mother. People were shocked. I guess, poor auntie felt embarrassed. She left the stage crying. And called of the whole thing. Everybody felt sorry for auntie and uncle.

Now, uncle is married with another auntie (he divorced his first wife). And this auntie is living with her kids. Poor thing, never attends shadi functions.

[SaadiaB]

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A real story and I attended the wedding: (will keep it short)

A young girl in europe fells in love with a guy, I think over the internet (though they made up a story of how the ristha was arranged by her aunty in the states). The mom all happy and tells everyone 'he' is a doctor and bit older than the girl. We get the invitation with Dr. before his name, the wedding takes place in a fine hotel, the groom arrives a day before the mehdi with his mom only!!
Next day is Nikkah and rukshati, they stay in the hotel where the venue of the shadi was and 3 days later all 3 leave the country... The end would everyone think but no .....
We found out a month later, the girl is with her aunty in the states and that the groom has died (another story that was made of the girls family) in reality he was already married with 4 kidss!!!! He told her on the flight the reality and said, he needs a maid and a nanny for his kids (!!) so he marrried her and is taking her to his place. She left him after the truth came out. Infact the person is a taxi driver or some worker and no doctor as he prentended.
After 2 months the girl came back to her parents and a divorce was performed.

Well this is the worst wedding story that I have myself seen. We feel sorry for the girl and feel that the parents didnt do enough background information about the guy they didnt knew at all.
This tells us to be careful about other ppls intentions, not eveyone is an angel and how our society runs after doctor risthas and believes their words without being suspicous (where is the sixth sense I ask myself).

[Michelle_Ali]

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^ something similar happened to someone I know :(

I agree parents should have checked his backgroud, but they should have questioned this auntie as well. Also, this girl hasted into marrige by telling a lie. And you know what they say "jis rishte ki bunyad hi jhooth se ki gey ho, woh rishta hi...aho!"

[somegroovychick]

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@Michelle_Ali

This happened in 2000. An uncle and auntie (widow), both with grown-up kids, fell in love and wanted to get married. Their family (uncles first wife) and kids didn’t accept. But they didn’t care and planned the whole thing…like sent out invitations, organized shadi function, decoration, ordered food, etc. Uncle paid for everything. Come the day, and right before nikkha ceremony auntie’s daughter went on stage and begged her mother not to do it. She did it infornt of 300 guests. I wasn’t there, but I’ve been told (by herself ) that she reminded her mother of their dead father. She said she manipulated her mother. People were shocked. I guess, poor auntie felt embarrassed. She left the stage crying. And called of the whole thing. Everybody felt sorry for auntie and uncle.

Now, uncle is married with another auntie (he divorced his first wife). And this auntie is living with her kids. Poor thing, never attends shadi functions.

that girl sounds like a completely immature, selfish, self-centered, thoughtless, uncaring biatch. to be so concerned with your own happiness that you couldn’t even see how much the marriage would make your mom happy, and then to go out of your way to sabotage it this way!!! wow. i would have disowned her entirely.
every woman has a right to happiness - remarrying is not disrespectful to him or his memory because he’s dead. you mourn somebody and love them even, for the rest of your days, but that doesn’t mean you can’t love again. remarrying would have given her another shot at happiness and peace and security in her life. poor woman!

[Sara516]

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Is there a possibility maybe the uncle was kind of uhm.. sketchy? thats why the kids dint like em? how old were her kids? and how long ago had the father passed away? Man thats sad. :(

[SaadiaB]

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@Michelle_Ali

^ something similar happened to someone I know :(

I agree parents should have checked his backgroud, but they should have questioned this auntie as well. Also, this girl hasted into marrige by telling a lie. And you know what they say "jis rishte ki bunyad hi jhooth se ki gey ho, woh rishta hi...aho!"

I don't think that the aunty in the states brought the ristha, it was a story made up, infact she meet him in some chat room.

I agree, there should have been a background check on the guy, at least check the place where he works or is suppose to work as a doctor.

I heard that the girls father was in the states before the wedding took place on some business matter, I still dont understand how they never found out about him.

I havent seen the girl for ages, she used to be our neighbor (lived in the same block) maybe someday I can get a clear story from her, however unfortunate it is.

[hin33]

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@somegroovychick

^ agreed! this is a topic that could lead to a lot of cattiness and *****ing and be really unpleasant… lets not go there.

did u find this in the dictionary..

[Pareezay]

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interesting choice of words SGC.