baby weight!!people hate!!!

[diwana]

Re: baby weight!!people hate!!!

@Sahar02

diwana, did you even read what she wrote before you gave such valuable advice?

@nadz123

Getting fed up with (all pakistani women) saying haii weight kam karo na..to me, i had my baby 4 months back, and weight loss for me is hard…nothing dropped off me, i was still huge, and my MIL is expecting me back in my shaadi walen kapre..and keeps saying weight lose karo yeh mat khao woh mat khao…

now problem is, I AM TRYING, but its hard…ive lost a little, not alot like i wouldve before baby…ive gone gym, ate good, but still its not working magic like it used to…ive lost barely half stone…and my body naturally retains weightanyway

now whats the smart answer to say to these people…without sounding rude…esp to MIL…im tired of being pressured to lose weight, even my husband is like r u mad, why u wanting to lose it soo quickly, aram say ho jayga…but its women who are another womans enemy…

now im not senstive either, but theres a limit to how much a new mother can take, ive got enough stresses, i dont need people telling me to lose weight fast, especially when i know i want to lose it too BUT its just not dropping off as i expected.

so what to do?
im sure other women may understand the annoyance of it all…

@nadz123

lol, cant say this…

no havent moved to pak yet, its over the phone they were asking my measurements for clothes they are making me for…and are wondering why i cant fit into my shadi clothes…

and …i do want to be that size again, but it takes time…this is what bugs me; why dont they let me take time.rather than pressurising me..

@nadz123

shes not worrying as such, she only mentioned it once when we were talking about my clothes, that they are making me for, and i told her my shaadi wale dont fit now, so she said it then, same as my mum says it. same as my aunts say it..its a paki women thing…but its bloody annoying.

Yes I did. Very carefully.

Unless there is a medical reason or if they eat whatever, women do get back to pre-pregnancy weight in 6 to 8 weeks after delivery.

Pregnancy weight is because of water retention and extra weight from baby or product of conception/enlarged uterus.

Women who eat sensibly during or after pregnancy do get back to looking same as before pregnancy, regardless how many times they get pregnanat.