arranged marriage...how often do u talk to ure fiance???

Lifestyle Relationships
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Ditto.

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Re: arranged marriage...how often do u talk to ure fiance???

talk to him as often lol most guys do like it.. such as my fiance who if i am not online for one day calls me n ask me if im ok or not! lol

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lol realli thas so cute...

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ameen!!!!

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Re: arranged marriage...how often do u talk to ure fiance???

*ShiningStar...stop derailing the thread. Either discuss this topic in a civilized manner or feel free to find another thread that interests you. *

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awwww..that's sooo cute!!

But yea I would agree, give a little break like a couple days before the wedding, so that there is more excitement.

btw, congrats and goodluck!

The Non-Troll Thread
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yeh lol i thoght so my burtdays on the 16th of aug i thought that now i wont talk to him till my birthday :P take you ppls advice and giv him a chance to miss me :P

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Re: arranged marriage…how often do u talk to ure fiance???

Ladies, what if your fiance thinks you guys talk too much - does that mean he doesn’t like you :confused:

Edit: let’s say you talk to him everyday for 7 hours and then he’s gone for 4 days. Or something like that.

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I've always read u're posts and u mentioned him as u're "hubby"

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Re: arranged marriage...how often do u talk to ure fiance???

Nope.... But maybe he needs some space???

How often do you talk? Everyday? How many times a day?

That should indicate if it's too much. It's good to get some breathing space. I think once/twice a day or every other day is fine but make it quality over quantity...

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Yeah, I editted it to add that info.

Do you think it's normal for him to "go away" for 4 days in a row? :(

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^ Yes, men tend to vanish when they're going thru a tough time.. and if they need a little space.

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Re: arranged marriage...how often do u talk to ure fiance???

Shouldn't men turn to their partners during tough times?

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Re: arranged marriage…how often do u talk to ure fiance???

No one is helping :cryb:

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hey SU,

did u recenlty get engaged? waisay Congrats!!

i think it's normal tat he's out of the pic for 4 days. if it happens to me i just ask casually (not to start breathing down his neck or interrogating him) "hey where were u i called u yest" or sth along those lines n then it's upto him how much of information he wants to give me. n i dont ask nything more than tat. ta'ts bout it for my interrogation.

but i should also add something that i've realized from expereince. I've realized the way u r with ur hubby/fiance initially, that's the way they start to expect u'd be, when it comes to giving them space/freedom (lol). if you start acting more possessive or start asking more questions or start to worry more bout things than how u were initially, then they get annoyed. so my adivse is if it's sth tat bothers u, u may wana ask him so he knows tat its sth tat bothers u. cuz if u dont ask him this time and it happens again he may expect the same tat u wont ask him n if u ask him at tat time, then he might get annoyed.

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Re: arranged marriage…how often do u talk to ure fiance???

carpool :hugz: Thanks for your help woman. I appreciate it.

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SU, men should turn to their partners during such times.. but they just don't (for some odd reason) they recede deeper into their shell and close-up completely. The best thing to do is give it time (yes, it's next to impossible)..

If a guy is having issues at work.. he'll go missing for a bit..till the issue is sorted-out. Just give him time to settle things.

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:)anytime.

Best wishes for the future.

Designer Replicas
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This thread is from last year. Now angel21 is married to him..hence, refers to him as her hubby :)

Timepass-Jan 2013
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Ooh an old thread.. never saw much of angel21 before.