Re: arranged marriage...how often do u talk to ure fiance???
thankew farishta!!!
Re: arranged marriage…how often do u talk to ure fiance???
Straight Up- Congratulations:hugz:
With regards to your concern, people can speculate as much as they can as to why fiances behave in such a manner, but when it boils down to it the only way you can truly find out is by asking him if something is bothering him. Only then will you have the right answer and only then will you stop stressing about it. I hope everything works out for you inshallah:hugz:
Re: arranged marriage...how often do u talk to ure fiance???
Women, cut the men some slack will you? Everybody needs their personal time, as do you.
Re: arranged marriage...how often do u talk to ure fiance???
to be honest, SU, i found it odd..
I used to talk to the hubz before getting married all the time. I always talk heaps. If I dont, theres somethign wrong.. lol
strange of him to go away.. talk to him and ask him whats up..
Hun, if you want my advice, don't play games. If you feel like talking to him, do it. It seems to have worked so far. My opinion is that things like "wait for him to call you first" etc are stupid. My own mother told me not to call my husband so much because it always looked like I was chasing him and people might make a big deal out of that if things didn't work out, like dekho how she ran after him besharam and now look.
But I still called him and messaged him whenever I felt like it. For a long time I was living in a flat with no internet and too broke to get any, so I wrote him letters nearly every day. It was kinda romantic :) he still has a stack of them. Without it getting obsessive, I feel there is great honesty in a lover who reaches out to their loved one whenever their heart desires.
Follow your heart, anyone will tell you communication is the key to a great relationship. Since it's working, why not. In the last few days to the marriage you're likely to be too busy to chat all the time and that'll just make the meeting on your wedding day even sweeter.
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Hun, if you want my advice, don't play games. If you feel like talking to him, do it. It seems to have worked so far. My opinion is that things like "wait for him to call you first" etc are stupid. My own mother told me not to call my husband so much because it always looked like I was chasing him and people might make a big deal out of that if things didn't work out, like dekho how she ran after him besharam and now look.
But I still called him and messaged him whenever I felt like it. For a long time I was living in a flat with no internet and too broke to get any, so I wrote him letters nearly every day. It was kinda romantic :) he still has a stack of them. Without it getting obsessive, I feel there is great honesty in a lover who reaches out to their loved one whenever their heart desires.
Follow your heart, anyone will tell you communication is the key to a great relationship. Since it's working, why not. In the last few days to the marriage you're likely to be too busy to chat all the time and that'll just make the meeting on your wedding day even sweeter.
Sorry to say you are giving very bad advice.
Yes ppl do call that type of girl baysharam. Who couldn't stop herself to contact a still namahram aka fiance. Somtimes engagement doesn't work out and break.
I know a story when a girl got engaged after larka fall in love with the girl. The girl was a real cutie. So after engagement at that time no emails and cell phone was invented or may be I don't know but the phone was very new in Pakistan only very few lucky ppl had at that time.
So she use to write letters at that time after marriage I forgot how many years or months her marriage work out as I was young at time so didn't understand much what I remember that his husband had letters of her in his hand in our mohalla and showing and telling everyone that she is a chichori and she use to right me letters after engagement and blah blah.
Moms know better what to do so you guys have to listen to her. As you are in her custody and her reponsibility to tell you right things so you guys should listen to her. As an obidient child.
Don't get too frustated to talk to a fiance aka na mahram. You would get enough time to talk to him after marriage.
Well if my husband was that sort of jerk (I'd use a stronger word, but won't) who goes around showing people private letters, I would never have married him in the first place! We chose each other, and without our high levels of communication we would not have survived 3 years apart.
Well if my husband was that sort of jerk (I'd use a stronger word, but won't) who goes around showing people private letters, I would never have married him in the first place! We chose each other, and without our high levels of communication we would not have survived 3 years apart.
She didn't knew that after marriage he would do that as he was fallen madly in love with her and forced his and her own family to marry her.
He did that after marriage. In the end they got divorced.
No one knows what's gonna happen after some times and or marriage. So better to use safety precaution.
If the person is like you so there is no problem but no one knows how other person can turn after sometimes.
Ladies and Jaanwar - thanks for all your advice. 
athens_bride, please ignore negativity around here 
sadzzz, it is odd, I feel unwanted - but you’re right, have to talk to him about this when he does re-appear. 
Re: arranged marriage…how often do u talk to ure fiance???
or i will !!! and im nawt even joking 
can you not call him SU?
Re: arranged marriage…how often do u talk to ure fiance???
THAS WHAT I SAID!!! 