Re: Approaching Desi Girls
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yep. i knew of a woman who constantly suspected her husband who was a professor of having an affair with his co workers, students, blah blah blah. and this was regardless of the fact that she had known him for years before they got married and the guy had such a good reputation in our community. it's sad that some women just need reasons to act all stupid. their marriage ended in divorce and guess what? her parents got her remarried to some other guy in their family (someone she had grown up and claimed to be best friends with) and she divorced him a year later too cuz she thought he was cheating on her too since he worked long hours (he was doing his residency for lord's sake). this is an example of how some women are not really capable of maintaining relationships.
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True, but can you blame such women, all they think bout is their wedding day and their lengha and makeup and hair n jewellery. They concentrate so hard on just the wedding day that they dont realize what they are getting into. When the show is over and the reality hits, its too hard for them to cope with it.
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True, but can you blame such women, all they think bout is their wedding day and their lengha and makeup and hair n jewellery. They concentrate so hard on just the wedding day that they dont realize what they are getting into. When the show is over and the reality hits, its too hard for them to cope with it.
OK there's more to a failed relationship than being wedding obsessed--that doesn't even make sense to bring that here.
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^true.. some women do get nikkahfied quite simply and yet have issues with hubbies. like you said before sara, it depends on their personality.
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besharmoun ki tarah dekhtay rahain?
aik dafa kafi hai na!
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desi girls have no class …cheapos…just give me 1 gori..please.
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go get your own..
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omg i luv xtra cologne on guys :pagli: adds to the sex appeal
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yep. i knew of a woman who constantly suspected her husband who was a professor of having an affair with his co workers, students, blah blah blah. and this was regardless of the fact that she had known him for years before they got married and the guy had such a good reputation in our community. it's sad that some women just need reasons to act all stupid. their marriage ended in divorce and guess what? her parents got her remarried to some other guy in their family (someone she had grown up and claimed to be best friends with) and she divorced him a year later too cuz she thought he was cheating on her too since he worked long hours (he was doing his residency for lord's sake). this is an example of how some women are not really capable of maintaining relationships.
Let's not blame women alone for being unable to maintain relationships, many men are also guilty of this
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lol ur shoutin as there r some kinda market out there for goris…
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Let's have a conversation on how a desi guy should approach a desi girl.
You can have your input in any way you want.
Tell us what is appropiate and what is not. How do we know that there is a green signal?
ab farmaye
:D
Ignore them or approach them as you would any other girl
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you were asking for one as if ppl here had some gorion ki dukaan..
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Mere khiyal sey desi girls ko patana should be easier than other girls. First, keep staring at her straight for 5-10 mins with oocasional biting of lips, and dont u dare move ur eyes away from her, desi girls like that. Then go talk to her, best part here is that u dont have to drop the accent, so u can easily go up with your head bobbling and ask "Halo baby, how u doing?". Then take her on your taxi cab and and dine her at your nearest dhabba.
Spoil her. Shower her with gifts, stuff that not only shows your affectiion but also she needs: moustache comber, mach3 etc. That's how its done, son. Don't playa hate now.
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bhai ...ziada idher udher kee bateen karney ka nahee hai ....sedhaa sedhaa poch dalney ka hai k "eeey kia boltee tu? ....atee kia khandala?"
Disclaimer:
I m giving this mukhlisana mashwara with no wrong intentions. "atee kia khandala" bolney k baad "hayee maar dala" kehtey howey wapus aeey tu I'll not be responsible :D
Thankuu Thankuu Thankuu
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it's not rocket science, never has been, never will be.
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well, i don't know about desi girls, but according to yahoo this is how to approach women in general :D
10 Tips for Approaching Women
Most guys get caught up in guessing what to say; here's what they really should do
By David Wygant Special to Yahoo! Personals Updated: Dec 20, 2007
David Wygant
What do you do when you see a woman you are attracted to? Do you run and hide? Do you use some canned line that you read on the Internet? Do you stand there in fear trying to think of the right thing to say? What is the right thing to do?
When approaching a woman, most guys make the mistake of thinking too much about what to say. They believe there's one magic line that will work in all situations. They rehearse this magic line, and when they deliver it, they hope the woman will become instantly attracted to them.
Unfortunately, rarely does this approach work -- because most of what you say is irrelevant. To catch a woman's attention, it is all about the confidence you display when approaching her.
Here are 10 surefire ways to intrigue her every time:
1. Observe something. Make a comment about something you observe in the environment. This is especially effective at the grocery store. For example, if she is ordering a turkey sandwich, ask her if the turkey is good here.
“Make your comment immediate to the situation”
Make your comment immediate to the situation and it will seem perfectly natural. No matter where you are, there is always something interesting to comment on.
2. Smile. This shows her that you are friendly and confident. A genuine smile not only feels good to you, but will put her at ease while creating openness in the interaction -- a requirement for building rapport.
3. Do not hesitate. If you hesitate in your approach, this tells her that you are not feeling confident -- an immediate turn-off. When you see her, walk over to her within a short period of time (the three-second rule). Show her you are a man who knows what he wants and goes after it.
4. Positive body language. If you approach hunched over with your head down, you are sending negative information about yourself, which makes you dead in the water before you begin. Stand up straight, with shoulders back and chest out, and use a firm yet relaxed walk.
5. Not too fast. If you walk over too fast, you could likely trigger her internal alarm. A calm, casual approach is usually the best way to make her feel at ease with you.
6. Keep eye contact. Never be the first to break eye contact when you approach. If you do, this sends the message that you are not feeling good about approaching. When you use strong eye contact, she will feel more drawn to you. With practice, you can master this.
7. Listen up. Make sure you pay careful attention to what she says. Do not have your response pre-thought out. Women love a man who pays attention to the details of what she says. If you start throwing out random words, she will lose interest fast.
8. Do not fidget. Fidgeting after you approach is distracting and shows you are uncomfortable. If you communicate that you are uncomfortable, she will feel uncomfortable, too, and will close up. Practice being aware of your movements. Pay attention to those movements, or lack of movements, that communicate comfort and confidence.
9. Lighten your tone of voice. The tone of your voice is a very powerful tool. Approaching her in a light and playful tone is one of the best ways to start. You could also begin in a serious tone, accusing her of something like "I hope you saved some turkey for me," followed by a quick smile to let her know you are joking. Practice playing with your vocal tone with your friends -- notice the different reactions you get when you say the exact same thing using varied tones and fluctuations.
10. Lean away from her. A man who leans in too far when he talks often makes a woman feel crowded. A better approach is to lean away from her slightly. This lets her know that you respect her space, boundaries, and are comfortable with yourself.
The key to making these tips work for you is putting them into practice! Practice these tips and see the reaction you get. When you put them all together, you will be surprised at their power.
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714: appne article to post kar diya now what are we, the desi guys, supposed to do with this?
If we start practicing than we are nothing but bunch of flirts and players. 
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haha man yaar...i just saw it while on yahoo news and thought of you :D
i'm a girl and all i can say on how to approach girls is be respectful however you chose to do whatever you do, i think thats the most important thing...show a girl you respect her as a human being, as a female, and as an equal person...also respect her boundaries...don't play games, don't mess with her head...don't forget that every girl is not the same person...