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han han mujhai bhi batao… 
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Gladiator?? :pagli:
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she knows my past very well. :)
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Bhabhi kee azmat ko salaam :)
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you mean approach them as a Gladiator! 
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smile at them.. they'll get back to you.... atleast this is the case with me...
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so far it is;
no greasy hair and tight jeans.
smile
have something orginal to talk.
and no stairing.
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who's the bhabi here- i mean who's x2's wife?
it's nice to know that you have such an understanding wife. most of the desi women have really big egos and can't really get over their husband's past so easily. but then also, cheers to you for being so upfront and honest. my fiance had one crush in high school before we met and he didn't hear the end of it for a while. haha.
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regarding the topic, i agree with adrasteia! i usually have to deal with corporate clients and some of them are desis- most of them are actually quite decent mainly because they are old and know that they really cant approach a 22 year old even though they do stare. but the young ones, there have been a couple of 'characters'. like one time, a co worker and i were walking to my office and while i was unlocking the door, there was a gentleman pouring coffee right by there and i briefly glanced up at him and saw him staring but i didn't really pay attention. a few seconds later, my coworker had to rush to the guy cuz he had spilled coffee over his hands since he wanted to pay more attention to me than what he was doing. when we came inside, my coworker who was holding his laughter told me how he was watching the guy stare at me non stop the entire time we were out there and he did a hilarious imitation of him standing there with his mouth open, just staring. it's kind of embarassing if you ask me because mostly all my coworkers have noticed the people from my 'race' just blatantly staring and now they ask me if it's a common thing in my country.
bottom line: please do not stare or give out cheap glances. be confident when you smile. and please pay attention if you're pouring coffee while checking out a girl cuz chances are, you will burn yourself :)
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shay she posts here off and on as babez.
when I met her, all this was in the past, and had been a few years since I had sorted myself out, and eve had one semi serious and one fairly serious relationship in that time which did not work out for diff reasons. But I felt she should know because if i hid it and then it come up, it would be a question of trust, it would seem more than it was because it was hid, I would have to lie about my life and thats just not the right foundation.
as far as staring goes..I hate to tell you this but its a two way street, women stare, they stare differently, and they behave very differently when alone or when in a group. the staring khi khi, turning around and staring, turnign bak and khusar phusar of desi ladies is annoying. they dont tend to stare as openly and non stop as desi men but they do stare.
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^lol yeah they do. but i think the ones that hate being stared at are usually careful compared to those who don't really care. also, some are sort of egoistic and they have that devil may care attitude even though they might be enjoying the staring attention that they get.
i do agree with laying the foundation in proper ways. i recently spoke with a friend who has decided to marry some cousin of his in pak but he was involved with a few girls in the past few years. he was always very upfront and outspoken about his 'intimate' life so when i asked him if he's gonna share his past with his fiance to be, he said no, it's none of her business. that to me was really shocking but i guess to each his own. thats why it's commendable when people are open and honest to their spouses and not deceptive or hiding things.
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most of the desi women have really big egos and can't really get over their husband's past so easily..
You got it all wrong, women are the most forgiving and patient creatures on earth.
Its not the past we have problems with, its the scandelous lifestyle some males and females lead even after they have tied the knot and settled down.
I mean if you cant keep yourself in check then dont get married in the first place.
And if you are married then respect it.
If you cannot respect it then get out of it before you go bout having affairs.
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I have these cousins and a friend of them. Im amazed how they have mastered the skill. I would’nt have believed it if I hadnt seen this with my own eyes. 
. One time all of our family was out for lunch and this other friend of theirs has all the numbers of any possible desi female in the city. He looks like bhula badsha:cb:. Anyway this other girl came with her family. After they left and we did too…something kusar phusar was going on between those three and one our way one of them had successfully pataaing the girl..By day 3-4 she was ready to go out with them, asked him to take her shopping etc. Im just amazed that the girls know that they are here for a short while why the heck would they go out with any of them.
One other time, I saw one of them meet up with another girl, and considering that they were here just for a few weeks, the girl showed up at the events etc. The younger cousin uses a lot of humor, I dont know but I have seen that they make the girl feel really comfortable in talking about herself, her family etc.
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one of them had successfully pataaing the girl...
pataaing is such a strange word.
we are merely talking about approaching and talking. not about "picking up" girls or fooling them or talking them into something.
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Nope, not true. Alot of the women are patient and forgiving, etc etc, but not ALL of them. I speak of this from experience as I know many who just couldn't or can't get over the past or ex gfs of their husbands and suspected/doubted them constantly. And it's not just men who gave their wives a reason to do so, even the shareef ones have spouses who can be suspecting, possessive, jealous and weird. I believe that is one of the main reasons why there are so many broken marriages. It doesn't always have to be for a man to give his wife reasons to doubt him, there are females who are not that secure to begin with.
You got it all wrong, women are the most forgiving and patient creatures on earth.
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. It doesn't always have to be for a man to give his wife reasons to doubt him, there are females who are not that secure to begin with.
Taali do hatoon say bajti hay, if she is insecure than he's given her a reason to be insecure.
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Taali do hatoon say bajti hay, if she is insecure than he's given her a reason to be insecure.
That's not always true, yes sometimes that's the case, but there's also cases in which women who already have problems of their own (they were cheated on, abused, whatever) and then got married and that baggage transferred over to their married life.. it's sad to see, but it happens