Anyone Else unable to entertain the notion of a desi wedding?

[yoda121]

Re: Anyone Else unable to entertain the notion of a desi wedding?

@EDAL

You are not alone buddy, not alone at all. I can’t put into words how much I utterly despise and loathe the whole “desi” wedding thing, a sense of utter despair, sorrow, misery (mixture of all I guess) grows in me just at the thought.

Don’t do it, just say it’s against the religion (which it is, the rasams are all pretty much Hindu), and you may find many families here in America who agree.

I’m married, I just got around it by marrying a non desi, but all cultures have their weird little things.

@ShahreyarKhan

i disagree with OP

it is a happy occasion, let everyone you love be happy.

@STA

I am against to all extravaganza kharcha of desi wedding like photography, video, sherwani, bridal dress.

OP: I would recommend you to bhaag kay shadi karlo. No kharcha, no rasams, etc.

@STA

post # 9 + unglee pakri, joota chupai, rasta rukwai, doodh pilaiye etc. :hinna:

@ShahreyarKhan

we are talking about $value …??

what in the world is unglaee pakri?

i mean instead of inviting 300 ppl you only want to invite 50 ppl , thats not fazool kay kharchay, its kanjoozi imo

How is that kanjoozi? I barely know 50 people, where am I supposed to magic up a remaining 250 people to stop me being a kanjooz?

This is why I hate desi weddings. I can’t be seen to be a kanjoos so I need to find 250 people to stop people thinking I’m a kanjoos. What a farce.