Anyone Else unable to entertain the notion of a desi wedding?

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Re: Anyone Else unable to entertain the notion of a desi wedding?

@EDAL

You are not alone buddy, not alone at all. I can’t put into words how much I utterly despise and loathe the whole “desi” wedding thing, a sense of utter despair, sorrow, misery (mixture of all I guess) grows in me just at the thought.

Don’t do it, just say it’s against the religion (which it is, the rasams are all pretty much Hindu), and you may find many families here in America who agree.

I’m married, I just got around it by marrying a non desi, but all cultures have their weird little things.

TBH I’m not fussed about the whole religious aspect, I’m not going into someone elses grave after all (I doubt I would be responsible for having men and women dancing together at a mendhi, which is what I’ve seen alot of these days). I don’t mind marrying a non desi as such, but I do love my punjabi jokes

@ShahreyarKhan

i disagree with OP

it is a happy occasion, let everyone you love be happy.

Yeah I guess you have a point, if it makes others happy then what’s the big deal, although there are less than twenty people I know that fall into that category, never heard of a desi wedding with less than 150 people in it.

@STA

I am against to all extravaganza kharcha of desi wedding like photography, video, sherwani, bridal dress.

OP: I would recommend you to bhaag kay shadi karlo. No kharcha, no rasams, etc.

Whats a bhaag ke shadi?

@STA

post # 9 + unglee pakri, joota chupai, rasta rukwai, doodh pilaiye etc. :hinna:

Yes, these are severe timewasters and I hate these. I don’t think I will have these at all, can’t stand this BS, maybe I’m too angrez for this sort of thing. I was pretty much forced into it last time and I hated it, what a joke.