Thanks so much. Wish I could like this post but mobile site doesnt allow it. :s. You understood me well. Yeh im glad I loved and cared for him like he cared for me. Yeh first I need to find rishta lol.
Thanks for all ur help. :)
He never asked me for money.
But anyhow, glad uve moved on and are helping ur family.
I hope im not distracting this thread. There is also the zaroorat e rishta link.
Thing is we can't expect that a new rishta will be same as the past. I wouldn't want you feeling sad about it. It seemed like that guy had a lot of great qualities. That past rishta might never be replaced and the same degree of love may never be found. However, it could and things could be better. Just hope and pray for the best.
Attention all the GS loosers who’ve been hitting on Guppans for last few years without any avail, here is yr last chance… Except this time PCG is the mentor so ofcourse it’s double trouble
Agreed lekin mere dost ke liye expectations thoda high karo. Lot of GS guys of quality and who are diamonds in the rough. I’d hope someone with all those qualities comes forward. The person should be Canadian though and have all the good qualities outofdisworld expects. Also hopefully someone pursuing a serious marriage like rishta rather than just hitting on. fingers crossed for outofdisworld.
Thanks yeh I posted in that thread too. I know, it will never be. He did have a lot of great qualities. Made me feel like a princess. Sigh. In Sha Allah hope so too.
Lol thanks.
Aww ur too kind. finding someone for me… May God gives u all the happiness ever.
Thanks yeh I posted in that thread too. I know, it will never be. He did have a lot of great qualities. Made me feel like a princess. Sigh. In Sha Allah hope so too.
Lol thanks.
Aww ur too kind. :( finding someone for me... May God gives u all the happiness ever.
Maybe all those qualities can be found again with a new rishta right? Maybe difficult but not impossible
Thanks for the kind words. I will keep an eye out as well for any suitable Canadian grooms. Agar yahan koi mil jaye I will export for u. Jk even if u don't find someone of that quality don't settle with anyone because you deserve more than tht and you are worth more than that. There are still lot of good people out there.
Is the problem that your parents aren't looking or they're saying no to everyone. I know how you feel. Not that I'm particularly old, but I feel like I want companionship that you get from a spouse/bf. My parents, too, aren't social but because I'm a social butterfuly, the aunties in the community know me and I've gotten calls for rishtas for a while now. BUT, my parents have said no to every single one. Granted, some of them were garbage but there were a few that could've turned into something real. My father gave it no chance, by declining as soon as they called and expressed interest.
So I got lucky and found someone in school that I'm absolutely in love with. Perfect guy, aH. But...guess what? Dad's still not happy and still saying no. Still doesn't want me to get married. I went out and FOUND THE DAMN GUY and it still isn't good enough--even though he has everything that's listed on my dad's stupid checklist.
Point of the story is:
1) you're not alone
2) don't beat yourself up because your parents aren't finding anyone/saying no to everyone
3) BE SOCIAL. Don't do it for the intention of finding a husband necessarily. I realized that I've met some awesome guys when I haven't gone in with the mentality of finding a marriage prospect. it's funny how things work out and iA you'll find someone that will truly make you/your parents happy.
:)
Maybe all those qualities can be found again with a new rishta right? Maybe difficult but not impossible
Thanks for the kind words. I will keep an eye out as well for any suitable Canadian grooms. Agar yahan koi mil jaye I will export for u. Jk even if u don't find someone of that quality don't settle with anyone because you deserve more than tht and you are worth more than that. There are still lot of good people out there.
I hope so because he really is one of a kind.
Thanks. :)
Yeh. Then I may never marry.
I know that if someone like me exists, then God has created someone else just like me too.
Is the problem that your parents aren't looking or they're saying no to everyone. I know how you feel. Not that I'm particularly old, but I feel like I want companionship that you get from a spouse/bf. My parents, too, aren't social but because I'm a social butterfuly, the aunties in the community know me and I've gotten calls for rishtas for a while now. BUT, my parents have said no to every single one. Granted, some of them were garbage but there were a few that could've turned into something real. My father gave it no chance, by declining as soon as they called and expressed interest.
So I got lucky and found someone in school that I'm absolutely in love with. Perfect guy, aH. But...guess what? Dad's still not happy and still saying no. Still doesn't want me to get married. I went out and FOUND THE DAMN GUY and it still isn't good enough--even though he has everything that's listed on my dad's stupid checklist.
Point of the story is:
1) you're not alone
2) don't beat yourself up because your parents aren't finding anyone/saying no to everyone
3) BE SOCIAL. Don't do it for the intention of finding a husband necessarily. I realized that I've met some awesome guys when I haven't gone in with the mentality of finding a marriage prospect. it's funny how things work out and iA you'll find someone that will truly make you/your parents happy.
:)
A bit of both. Yeh, our parents dont understand that we cant stay single from birth till we're like 30. All the people I know my age, have had someone or some are married. Not in a hurry for marriage, but id like someone to share my sorrows with, the pain that my parents will never understand.
My parents arent social and they won't let me be social. And now I just feel awkward around a huge crowd. Aww so what u gonna do? Will u go ahead and marry him still? Like in the future?
I hope so too and thanks. In Sha Allah. :)
And wish u all the best too.
I hope so because he really is one of a kind.
Thanks. :)
Yeh. Then I may never marry.
I know that if someone like me exists, then God has created someone else just like me too.
A bit of both. Yeh, our parents dont understand that we cant stay single from birth till we're like 30. All the people I know my age, have had someone or some are married. Not in a hurry for marriage, but id like someone to share my sorrows with, the pain that my parents will never understand.
My parents arent social and they won't let me be social. And now I just feel awkward around a huge crowd. Aww so what u gonna do? Will u go ahead and marry him still? Like in the future?
I hope so too and thanks. In Sha Allah. :)
And wish u all the best too.
Don't give up hope. Like soconfused said parents can be hard to please. Sometimes I feel they want us around for longer. I pray that you do find the one you're looking for. Surely if the masjid near you has some singles mingling events or if the local pakistani society has some events they will let you attend? Even with friends. If they don't let u go out and they're not actively looking how will you come across the person? I mean there's online but eventually u have to meet the person.
God has created someone for you..and if we are given problems in life we are given the solution also dw
I hope so because he really is one of a kind.
Thanks. :)
Yeh. Then I may never marry.
I know that if someone like me exists, then God has created someone else just like me too.
A bit of both. Yeh, our parents dont understand that we cant stay single from birth** till we're like 30.** All the people I know my age, have had someone or some are married. Not in a hurry for marriage, but id like someone to share my sorrows with, the pain that my parents will never understand.
My parents arent social and they won't let me be social. And now I just feel awkward around a huge crowd. Aww so what u gonna do? Will u go ahead and marry him still? Like in the future?
I hope so too and thanks. In Sha Allah. :)
And wish u all the best too.
being single is not that bad. At times I must say it sucks and there are so many nice/compatible people you meet in school/work but with different background/religion etc. But since I am kinda old fashioned guy and would want someone of Paki descent/muslim etc. I would wait. You are 26 .. pretty young if you ask me, **you have 3-4 yrs easily to find someone. **And I reckon there are so many desis in canada like Toronto, Vancouver etc. unlike where i live so it won't be that hard finding someone. You just need to get involved in community, ask aunties around, build some connection, networking
uff i meant Ladka I know Phir se spelling issue? Ya indian issue? Mujhe doosri dost bhi mili
I googled larka and it’s also the wood for a type of wolf. Mera woh matlab Nahi tha lol
Lot of GS guys of quality and who are diamonds in the rough. I’d hope someone with all those qualities comes forward. The person should be Canadian though and have all the good qualities outofdisworld expects. Also hopefully someone pursuing a serious marriage like rishta rather than just hitting on.
finding someone for me… May God gives u all the happiness ever.
