I disagree completely. According to the numbers Ive seen, its not the US born and raised that are "loose"...............
I second this from my experience my cousins in pakistan were the ones that were dating and had relationships (and these are no liberal city girls these are girls from the villages in Punjab), sadly if it were one of us in America they would have blamed the culture, yahan ki larkian hoti aisee hain, insay yeh hi umeed thee, inka mahol to dekho!
We were raised more conservatively abroad to keep our culture intact I felt we had a more comprehensive view of Pakistani values than girls in Pakistan.
You should see how they come from Pakistan these days, they come here and get shocked at the values we hold because they themselves have abandoned them.
Just my experience (no stereotyping depends on the person)
honey most of you are jump from place to place...
jab koi ghaas naheen dalta to to pakistani men chaheen
jab paki man mil jata hy then you start going all gori on him.....
honey most of you are jump from place to place...
jab koi ghaas naheen dalta to to pakistani men chaheen
jab paki man mil jata hy then you start going all gori on him.....
boi, I'd be curious to hear your definition of "loose". You are the stereotypical type I mentioned previously....you meet a woman who is comfortable in the presence of either gender and is able to earn a great income in a professional environment...and your reaction is to call her "loose" or worse. A "nice" girl is one who averts her eyes in the presence of any male not closely related, who cooks and serves food, raises the kids and keeps her conversation to those things only...right?
Just FYI, us "loose" gals do not sleep around, we do not have to lie or sneak around to acheive the most basic of priveleges, donot have to beg our men for an allowance of spending money...which just gives the shivers to the type of guy who needs a dependent puppy for a wife.
I am not going to judge anyone but I am so scared of paki metro girls of nowadays that I would prefer a desi girl raised in USA than a desi girl from Urban Pakistan.
People have wrong concept of desi girls and families living in USA. These families are far more conservative and traditional than burger families of Pakistan (well even conservative than many bun kabab families of Pakistan for that matter).
Those who doubt the values of desi USA families, I think that they are hanging out with the wrong crowd to begin with.
i recall reading a similar thread a year ago...my cousins here in US are definitely more conservative than girls in Lahore (I just understood what "burger families" meant)..
we were raised here, taught Quran by our parents, no naukar dependency, got unbiased education, no roaming around on the streets until 2am, curfew even during college...no parties..or "field trips" etc...and all girls went through consensual arranged marriages..including me..
I think a person who has strong values cannot abandon them just because one moves to a different country. Hypocrites have reduced values to an illusion, where they make you believe they are all that.....i have seen girls sneaking around meeting up with boys..yet pretending to be all paak saaf. Just because you are out of the house doesnt mean you left your values at home too. So basically you are what you believe...and a person takes his/her values with them wherever they go...even if it means moving from Lahore to Amsterdam...its all about making the right choices..
boi, I'd be curious to hear your definition of "loose". You are the stereotypical type I mentioned previously....you meet a woman who is comfortable in the presence of either gender and is able to earn a great income in a professional environment...and your reaction is to call her "loose" or worse. A "nice" girl is one who averts her eyes in the presence of any male not closely related, who cooks and serves food, raises the kids and keeps her conversation to those things only...right?
Just FYI, us "loose" gals do not sleep around, we do not have to lie or sneak around to acheive the most basic of priveleges, donot have to beg our men for an allowance of spending money...which just gives the shivers to the type of guy who needs a dependent puppy for a wife.
ok, got that off my chest!
let me separate real from imitation.
(you are real GORI.. they are not!!!!!!!!)
tell me mama...
1-if you had a BF would you be still talking to other men?? men who have business to be with you??
2-would you keep your relation under cover?? would you cal your BF a friend??
3-after having one friend(bf) would still be considering other friends.. keep them in a loop.. like shopping around??
4-would you call your BF a (country-boy) if he confronted you for having those ties/phone calls with other men/boys??
Cuz paki sistas born and raised in west DO all THAT...
before you lead them at-least know your herd :)
you might want to sit back down. She also thinks black women are ugly. Whites smarter and equates that entirely due to the temperature that may/maynot have radiated across sub saharan africa many - a- year ago.
And yet hates it when the stereotype points in the opposite direction.
