American Pakistanis

diwana · April 9, 2011, 3:18pm

Re: American Pakistanis

Being a desi girl living in the Middle East, I have been receiving a lot of proposals of guys in the USA and Canada who wanted me to be house wife and care for the kids and extended family. One guy’s mom even asked my mom whether I would be able to make 20 rotian each time after shadi as they had a large family

When my mom asked for advice from my uncles, they were like :no: and asked my mom to reply to them k agar larka $20,000 pm earn kerta hai tau 20 rotian paka le gi larki . Anyways, mom did not say this to them but the rishta did not proceed for other reasons.

So the reasons for men marrying girls from eastern side of the world is definitley that they do not know the freedom and rights of wives in the US and the husbands can be typical pakistani husbands and expect their wives to be obedient and caring for the whole of the in-laws which I wonder how many of the Western brought up girls can be. The guys in the West also think that girls in this part of the world do not have that bad past which many of the girls brought up in the West might have. They want a pure ‘pak daman’ girl as their wife.

But these guys are sadly mistaken. I have heared many seedhi saadhi desi girls from pakistan ruining the lives of their husbands in US after they got their citizenship. Many girls from pak just cannot control themselves in the open and modern environment of the US and end up being more liberal than many of the US bred girls. I heard divorces of such couples which prove that bringing wives from back home does not guarantee a happy successful marriage all the time.

So you could have made 20 rotiaan if he had been earning $20,000 per month.