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You guys can keep on fighting later liken mujhey tu bata doo should I close my furniture shop and go home or not? aasrey per dukan khool ker baitha howa hoon.
PS: I am amused that you even asked the question "am i wrong?"
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A bit unrealistic much?
Cut the man some slack.
New marriage, sudden financial pressures to fulfill needs of wife and home. Poor guy.
no matter what - your husband shouldnt have said what he said -
a husband should NEVER EVER say these things to her wife NO MATTER how big the fight is
and yes apologizes dont fix things
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If it is a real issue then i have all the sympathy with your husband. Instead of him, you should say sorry to him because you are making his life difficult by demanding unnecessary things. Yes tables and curtain are unnecessary if you are having financial issues. I have seen many families who don't have furniture in their house because they can't afford and they are happy because furniture kisi ki happy life ki guarantee nahin hota agar aisa hota tu rich families main kabhi divorces nah hotin.
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We tend to say things we dnt really mean when we r angry so u shud ignore it but only as long as you are sure he didnt mean it and if he never repeats it or shows it in his behavior that he is not happy with you! You also have to consider that a guy has a very hard duty which is to provide for the home no matter what the economical conditions are and that is what perhaps got to him too. I think you should support him in whatever way possible, maybe take up a job if expenditures are getting hard to handle?
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nahi slack cut kernay ka mood nahi hai
still husband shouldnt treat her wife like this in any circumstances
A bit unrealistic much?
Cut the man some slack.
New marriage, sudden financial pressures to fulfill needs of wife and home. Poor guy.
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You shouldn't have said what you said.
He works hard and after all that...he still sees your disappointment. It probably hurt him a lot.
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No,he does not send money home yet coz we are not left with enough money in the end...and people its not about curtains and tables only,its that how he reacted and over reacted..he sed u go back to pakistan since u r not happy with me...should he sound like that?..anyways last night he came to me and said if u wanna go out for dinner or to any mall..i sed no..then he went down in car and called me that come and lets do grocery..then we went and things got better between us..now its all the very same but i feel that this time it was too much :( and still i cant forget what he sed..
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So you don't think, you had anything to do with pushing him in the corner to give that type of a reaction?
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Zan Mureed 
You mean she should marry Zoordari 
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It seems both of you are haal Masat Maal Masat :cobra: cut your expenses and try to prepare meal at home rather then gets angry and hope to have a dinner in a restaurant 
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No,he does not send money home yet coz we are not left with enough money in the end...and people its not about curtains and tables only,its that how he reacted and over reacted..he sed u go back to pakistan since u r not happy with me...should he sound like that?..anyways last night he came to me and said if u wanna go out for dinner or to any mall..i sed no..then he went down in car and called me that come and lets do grocery..then we went and things got better between us..now its all the very same but i feel that this time it was too much :( and still i cant forget what he sed..
read my post again :(
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No,he does not send money home yet coz we are not left with enough money in the end...and people its not about curtains and tables only,its that how he reacted and over reacted..he sed u go back to pakistan since u r not happy with me...should he sound like that?..anyways last night he came to me and said if u wanna go out for dinner or to any mall..i sed no..then he went down in car and called me that come and lets do grocery..then we went and things got better between us..now its all the very same but i feel that this time it was too much :( and still i cant forget what he sed..
You need to get over it. You were wrong, he reacted harshly. Now he's trying hard to make it up to you so you need to get over yourself and forgive him too.
Seriously... getting like this over material things... it's ridiculous. If my mum had kept asking my dad for money in the early days and then using it non-essentials, when they had very little, it would have destroyed their marriage and I doubt my dad would have been as successful as he is now.
If you wanted all this immediately, you should have married a guy that already has it all.
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Palley nahin dhela tey kardi mela mela
or should it be
Palley nahin dhela tey kardi table, curtains
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you need to get your life together. eharmony.com will do that for you :D
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**Seriously... getting like this over material things... it's ridiculous. If my mum had kept asking my dad for money in the early days and then using it non-essentials, when they had very little, it would have destroyed their marriage and I doubt my dad would have been as successful as he is now. .
^^ this exactly!!!!! when we were getting engaged, my husband could not even afford to buy me a diamond, my engagement ring had a CZ in it!!! and guess what....for our **13th anniversary a couple of months back, he just put a 3 carat total weight flawless diamond ring on my finger!!! when we were newlyweds, we both drove our beat up, banged up cars from college/high school (his had no AC/no rearview mirror/no working seatbelt) we were poor, but deeply, madly in love!!! yes, we have now reached financial security, but honestly, i would not trade those early days when we had nothing for anything!! we learned soo much about eachother..how to communicate, how to be patient and respectful of eachother... we worked TOGETHER and were grateful for what we DID have, not sullen over what we DID NOT have!
men are biologicaly wired to be "providers"....imagine how hard of a blow it is to his manhood when he hears you complain about never having enough money. his knee jerk reaction is to say something hurtful back to you...but from your own admission, he's trying to make it up to you, right?
ainee, the point is that the beauty of marriage is building a home & life together, these things take time. you need to be his support. let go of your hurt over his harsh words.
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how you gonna get new pateela or daigchi??? its hight time to ask for advices on how to go about that ..........
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ainee - your husbands hard work is to earn the money. if you want to have more, you either need to work as well, or realise that your hard work is to make sacrifices and spend the money wisely.
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yaar kis chawal aadmi se shaadi kar li tum ne???
divorce him and marry someone who cares for your needs................ h e doesn't deserve you at all............ if he cared for you enough.........he would've got the curtains before you asked........or even he should've given you enough money to buy curtains and rest of the stuff.......
this is just pathetic and shameful behavior of your husband.............
why are u helping her lol
he said sorry got her breakfast end of story...get over it
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no wonder child brides r frowned upon
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Very wise. :k:
Quite obvious , their priorities are not straight.