Am i over reacting?

[Monk]

Re: Am i over reacting?

You need lot of learning to do. Enroll your self.

PM, CM he is starting classes in life1.

[stoppit]

Re: Am i over reacting?

i think you girls grow up in cotton wool or on clouds.

[Monk]

@stoppit

i think you girls grow up in cotton wool or on clouds.

I did not see that coming.

Ok We take you as honorary member of guys’ club.

Now come lets talk about hot girls

[stoppit]

Re: Am i over reacting?

PM is actually right for once in his last few post.

[Monk]

Re: Am i over reacting?

PM is always right. Its other ppl who grow up slowly

[Sehrysh]

Re: Am i over reacting?

There was another thread by a poster a week or so ago:

http://www.paklinks.com/gs/life-and-relationships/430657-guys-are-like-this.html

You’ll notice, the guys do not condone discussing intimate details about their wives - there are certain taboo subjects.

I don’t know whether they describe perverted fantasies about other women, i.e. celebrities, and better yet, I don’t want to know. I’d like to believe that they recognize what is appropriate and what isn’t and how far to take an off-colour joke.

But if you think men are the only ones to have these conversations - you’re sadly mistaken. There are some women who discuss the intimate details of their married lives as well - so it goes both ways.

[Monk]

@Sehrysh

But if you think men are the only ones to have these conversations - you're sadly mistaken. There are some women who discuss the intimate details of their married lives as well - so it goes both ways.

Make it "all women".

[BarbieCue]

Monk sounds like JimmyKimble… and he’s missing these days…

[Sehrysh]

@Monk

Make it "all women".

Jimmy, er, Monk, don't go there. :ASA: Ab jaa kay thori si samajhdari ki batain ki theen. With a remark like that, you're losing any goodwill you accumulated for your sensibility.

[Monk]

@Sehrysh

Jimmy, er, Monk, don't go there. :ASA: Ab jaa kay thori si samajhdari ki batain ki theen. With a remark like that, you're losing any goodwill you accumulated for your sensibility.

Now you are giving me bad name :ASA:

[stoppit]

@Monk

I did not see that coming.

Ok We take you as honorary member of guys’ club.

Now come lets talk about hot girls

Dude, I am already one. I work with ONLY guys. I’ve only been studying/working with solely with guys since my first year of uni, many years ago. Nothing can gross me out or phase me coz I’ve seen and heard it all before. Yes, even from the ‘nicest’, 'most polite, ‘shy’ guys. Gf’s, fiances, wives, are off limits but everything else is good to go when in the company of long-time friends.

[distinctiveflair]

Re: Am i over reacting?

Eddie Cibrian drewls

[PyariCgudia]

@Jaanwar

I don’t disagree with that at all Sehrysh. That is the whole point, when its a gathering of guy friends, all sorts of stuff is discussed. Nobody is nasty 24x7, but sometimes someone just starts a dirty topic and it picks up. Some participate, some joke, and some just laugh. Its just how guys are. That doesn’t mean everybody is horny and frustrated and is sharing intimate fantasies. Jeez. And yeah when some lady, an elder, or even an outsider (like a friend of a friend) is in the company, pretty much everybody knows how to behave appropriately.

What I disagree with are the stupid goody two shoes conclusions based on god knows what. To give you 2 examples:

I am inclined to agree with distinctiveflair here. I’ve been in the company of non-Pakistani guys (as a friends’ gathering) and there are definitely guys out there who don’t like talking so disrespectfully about a woman.

It’s one thing if you tell your buddy a girl you think is hot, its another if you get into gritty details of how you’d do her with another friend or gritty details of how you HAVE done her.

That just shows you don’t have class.

I think Pakistani guys, often, are not taught at home that this is the wrong way to speak about women. I know at masjids I’ve been to and Islamic classes I’ve been to, this kind of talk has been outright labelled as haraam, and I’d like to believe there are some good muslims out there who adhere to keeping their dirty thoughts to themselves.

Your sexual fantasies and thoughts should be shared with your partner. Not with your 20 friends at some barbeque.

[Monk]

Re: Am i over reacting?

BBQ I am so glad you are not working as forensic yet.

[stoppit]

@Monk

PM is always right. Its other ppl who grow up slowly

Don’t make me take it back. You are only right this time because you are a guy and therefore know what they do.

[Monk]

@PyariCgudia

I am inclined to agree with distinctiveflair here. I’ve been in the company of non-Pakistani guys (as a friends’ gathering) and there are definitely guys out there who don’t like talking so disrespectfully about a woman.

It’s one thing if you tell your buddy a girl you think is hot, its another if you get into gritty details of how you’d do her with another friend or gritty details of how you HAVE done her.

That just shows you don’t have class.

I think Pakistani guys, often, are not taught at home that this is the wrong way to speak about women. I know at masjids I’ve been to and Islamic classes I’ve been to, this kind of talk has been outright labelled as haraam, and I’d like to believe there are some good muslims out there who adhere to keeping their dirty thoughts to themselves.

Your sexual fantasies and thoughts should be shared with your partner. Not with your 20 friends at some barbeque.

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If I was your brother I would be worrying sick.

[BarbieCue]

@Monk

BBQ I am so glad you are not working as forensic yet.

Ok let me write down my very serious thoughts (coming from an expert ) :

Monk is not Jimmy because Jimmy would never bother colouring his every post red…

Monk is Jimmy because Jimmy’s blog has all sorts of gay colours, including red.

Conclusion: Monk is related to Jimmy.

eh eh

[PyariCgudia]

Re: Am i over reacting?

Monk, if I were you, I'd be worried how your sick thoughts about women register with God. Now that's something worrying.

[Monk]

@PyariCgudia

Monk, if I were you, I'd be worried how your sick thoughts about women register with God. Now that's something worrying.

Why some ppl having sick thought effect your life style and choices?

Would you keep your emotional/rational composure if were exposed to even more twisted ideology/trends/ppl ?

PlayStation: BBQ you are fired.

[stoppit]

Re: Am i over reacting?

Non-Pakistani guys are the same. I've never had a Pakistani guy as a friend or co-worker. The non-Pakistani guys just know when let it out and when not to. If you haven't heard anything, you don't know them well enough for them to be that free with you.

And by the sound of it, ladies like this won't be able to handle knowing their husband's sexual fantasies. In that respect, guy friends know each other better than their wives do.