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^ You are rat........ I mean Right :D
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I prefer to watch from the sideline 
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^ haha, everybody wants to stay away from Bee Hives. You are wise man.... :D
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The only way to protect your assets is to hide them!!!!! F'in A! Get a P.O BOX, open an account in the bahamas and start stashing cash in those accounts. Ask a divorce attorney for tips or even a loan shark.
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First off, all you whiny brats would do a favor to most women and to each other by just marrying each other.
Second, if you are that concerned about her taking everything, why not marry a girl who makes more than you? I would love to see how you would react to her keeping hidden bank accounts to protect her assets. Most of you would have a cow and jump up and down screaming like little children going she's supposed to trust me, i'm her husband.
Third, when you demand a woman stay home and have your children, cook your meals, raise your children, then, God forbid, in the event of divorce, she does deserve half of whatever you made during that marriage. You know why? Because you would never be able to have all that ( a family, kids, etc), it it weren't for her. If you want to be that cutthroat that you want to deny her this and claim that this money is solely yours, then by all means, pay her. Pay her for ironing your clothes, pay her for cooking your meals, pay her for cleaning your house and pay her half for raising the children.
Funny how the sacrifices women make are completely forgotten.
The amount of trust and love and maturity that a healthy marriage requires, I don't see that here. Many of you have a lot of growing up to do before you should envision marriage. It is a beautiful thing, if done right. Sadly, most of you are already convinced that women are out to get you. . .was your mom out to get your dad? is your sister out to get her husband? ? ?
My husband was fresh out of college when I married him. Everything was up in the air. Do you think i sat there and looked at how much he made? or how much was in his bank account? ? ?
This thread is just pathetic.
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man haters, gold diggers, sarial attitude, lacking originality... welcome to gupshup.
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yeah, any woman who dares gets pissed off at moronic and immature attitudes is a man-hater and sarial.. welcome to life1
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Dont bother getting married, i wouldnt be surprised if the woman did leave and take all of ur money. Living with u is prob gonna be torture
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Life …1:halo:
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don't worry about my profession, if I disclose it, it will blow you off...
Once again, you are really showing your low level mentality. we are talking about women here in West who use divorce in this manner. You are again projecting it to Pakistan.
Aside from this, why do these guys go and marry Pakistani women from a pind? Are these girls here in west infertile? Once again, the answer will backfire on you, kiddo.......
maybe same reason a girl like me is marrying a guy from Pakistan.....are the guys here infertile?
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very well said :k:
so the “men” in this thread…answer the questions she has asked.
if its so much of a problem marrying a woman…they you guys marry each other…that way you can both keep your money.
or stay single and take that money with u to ur grave after living a lonely and miserable life.
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exactly....who would wanna live with men who always have the fear at the back of their mind that shes gonna rob their money. its just so stupid.
its very stupid that ur already thinking of divorce.....no wonder divorce rates are going high....if people are already preparing for them before even getting married.
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lol...y worry about sumthing ur not dealing with now and will probably not in the future anyway if ur not to blame, ur wife wont try to put u on the streets.
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take some words of wisdom from young Mr Afridi :)
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i hope so anyway i m gonna marry a poor,illetrate girl from a pind not cuz i wanna save my asset which i do not have but cuz those girls r seedhi saadhi / shareef and they treat heir husbands with respect which quite frankly i do not see in western pakistani girls:) .....
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Pitty the poor man. Girl like you is gonna show him her money and status and how much more she makes and how it compares to Pakistan just as you said in this thread. You are not gonna tell him whats the truth… tsk tsk toooooooooooo bad. I feel for the guy…
PLUS: Men in Pakistan are tooo bad, they abuse their women do all sorts of sexual crimes, Pakistani society is a crime ridden society. why a girl like you is marrying a Pakistani boy. Marry an american boy lady who is clean, pious and superior than pakistani beggers…
Amazing to see girl like you have double standards. Here on this forum you say all sorts of bad things about Pakistani society and then you yourself go there to get a prince charming… Tooooooooooooooooooooooooo bad, a clear evidence of your hypocricy 
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for him I can leave my degree/job/money anything. I would never try and show him im in anyway better than him.
I dont want your advise on who to marry…I know what guys in Pakistan are like…i know what guys here are like. I know which one I prefer.
I have NEVER said anything bad about Pakistan ever since the time I have been on Gupshup…I just made fun of you cuz u were getting abit too full of yourself and I thought id say something to hurt that big ego of yours.
I always stick up for Pakistan and Pakistanis when anyone else is insulting them. all my siblings have married guys/girls from Pakistan and all of them are very happy. so you please keep your advice to yourself.
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I have NEVER said anything bad about Pakistan ever since the time I have been on Gupshup....I just made fun of you cuz u were getting abit too full of yourself and I thought id say something to hurt that big ego of yours.
I always stick up for Pakistan and Pakistanis when anyone else is insulting them. all my siblings have married guys/girls from Pakistan and all of them are very happy. so you please keep your advice to yourself.
Whatever you said, I salute you for that.
My apology, I was also trying the same on you. If you respect this guy and if you respect and take a stand for Pakistan, I respect you.
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im sorry too…maybe I said some wrong things. ignore me…sometimes I speak too soon without thinking 
yeah I respect him…and like i said I can do anything for him.
I can understand where the guys in this thread are coming from…but I think most girls are sincere and they wont just divorce a guy or even marry him for money. money isnt worth anything if a person isnt happy.
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I can understand where the guys in this thread are coming from....but I think most girls are sincere and they wont just divorce a guy or even marry him for money. money isnt worth anything if a person isnt happy.
I myself hate the bad guys impulse. They create a bad name for all of us. However, I do believe that a woman is not like this. Most women are alot sacrifising than men. A woman's heart is different then a man. I admit there are men around who play with the sincerity of women byt they are very few. similarly, men also get inflicted by women but at the same time, these are few too. I agree with you.....