A very good friend of mine sent me this posting from Craigslist. I was always a anxious about relationships/marriage but after reading this I am certainly apprehensive.
AMEN BROTHER!!!
The laws currently legitimise Goldiggery!!! regardless of the woman’s conduct and premeditated marital fraud for money!! I even spent time in BIgHouse and lost by job!!!
Do you know that your home in NJ ( and possibly NY ) is marital property AS SOON AS YOU HAVE SEXUAL RELATIONS WITH ANY WOMAN in your home…even a prostitute can show up and within minutes have you arrested and you are restrained from going home… And if she knows how to pospone court appearances, you can be out of your home for months!!!
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BEFORE YOU SAY YES TO MARRIAGE READ THIS! - 48
Men before getting married read this ASAP!Posted on this site to warn Men of the dangers of marriage in the tri state area. I am not gay therefore no gay respones. Just warning men of the following:
Wife will take you to the cleaners
You will lose your house, 401K, etc…
Pay attorneys big fees
Go sit in divorce court for 3 days before you say I do, you will then say I will not!!
Pay alimony and child support
Lose your job and cannot make payments, your ex can put you in jail
Your ex cheats on you, and you still lose
Its all an illusion, as time goes by the ex will continue to bring you to court for more money, if you have kids you will never get rid of this person
The judges favor the wife
Prenups do not hold up in court as the judge can throw them out
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you are chewing more then you can swallow.
I agree 100-% with you on everything you say but
but it applies to women of the west. or one deprived of …
1 - Loving home
2 - Loving parents
3 - Both were married
4 - Both lived together
5 - Parental supervision
6 - Islamic teaching by parents
7 - Dad was not having side affairs.
8 - Proper social n educational upbringing
9 - Children lived at all times with parents guidance
10 - The women grew up seeing good examples around them
11 - Not totally Ultra modern decietful wanabe thinking Madonna style.
12 - Brothers n Sisters did not run away or got divorced setting bad example
13 - The girl does not grow up to be a model or actress or dancer / singer
Sadly most paki girls got all of above thus dont fit the profile U portrayed ..
So may be you should plan to marry a paki girl with values as listed above..
Then Senior pedro gonzalez you wont have to worry about being booted out
of you own freakin home unless ofcourse you must have an ultra modern B**
^^ I disagree with you completely because I have experienced Pakistani women brought up under the same circumstances you described make life hell for their husbands. You think a nice decent Pakistani women will not drag her husband through the court house mud during a divorce? They will do exactly what a western women would do in this situation: take full advantage and give her ex the shaft.
I'd much rather live with/marry an ultra modern yet honest and loving white jew woman then those hijabis who are vindictive! I am not really picking on hijabis but rather making a rebuttal point to what singerz_delight wrote.
Sorry if I sound bitter but I've seen many of my friends who married hijabis totally get bent over and stuck with gavels during divorce proceedings.
LuxuryItem, please don't tell us that one lousy email from an unnamed scared-$hitless coward has put you off the lovely concept of love and marriage that you had spent hours inculcating in yourself during your formative years by reading Mills and Boon hiding in your bathroom. Come on, dude. Be brave. Even if your wife wants to take away your one-bedroom rental apartment, let her. Big deal!
Concept of love is not under attach here. Love is all good, I am all up for love. Its the idea of marriage that is being met with hostility. That E-mail doesn’t remind men to be careful of love but only marriage.
Doesnt matter if it is one bedroom apartment at least it is YOUR one bed apartment what you’ve kept up with your HARD EARNED money! It is not for some btc to take just because she feels she has every right to it.
^ First of all, if someone else wants to take over your lease payments, I say, let her. On a more serious note, I agree you should not let "some b*tc*" take over your hard-earned assets, therefore, as men have done since day one, try not to marry a "b*tc*". Instead, marry a wonderful, beautiful, honest, caring yada yada yada woman of your dreams (errrr.. am not talking about **those *dreams, ok, but *nice* *dreams).
B*t*hes don't come with a sign that state the obvious. How do you know that a particular woman who is all wonderful, beautiful, honest, caring yada yada yada will not turn out to be a b*t*h? Do you think that women that take the house, car, or a boat contibuted towards lease payments? My friend's ex-wife took his car and apartment for which she never contributed a single cent after only one year of marriage. These days there is no guarantee that the woman who was honest and nice before marriage will not leave her ex high and dry after a divorce.
LI, why are you so defensive, dude. All you are doing is getting offended. This thread is so not about you. This is a general discussion. Feel free to participate and share your views, however cowardly they may be. Its a free world. Cheers!
fallenpieta... you have my sympathies. It much be a terrible life, being afraid of so many unknowns.
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