Wow, what manners! I take it I am speaking to a “real man” here.
Fallen is afraid of marrying a woman, who he kindly refers to as a “bth*”, who will rob him of his pride, ego and assets if and when he ever gets divorced. He is obviously terrified. If he’s that scared of having the unfair laws of the country pitted against him if and when he gets divorced, then why not protect his assets? If he’s still going to continue living in fear, then why get married?
Common sense is to know the person you are marrying. Obviously, that is not always possible especially if a person is getting an arranged marriage. What other options do you suggest so that he may protect himself against future harm?
Lahore, do you actually have anything to say on the topic or is making personal attacks a habit of yours? Please contribute your thoughts on what I have asked you, assuming you have some.
Whereas I seem to personally attack "As a habit" you seem to make lots of judgments and assumptions too. Just aid if you have courage to accept you make assumptions in many of your posts......
Yeah, this is true when you are on your own. when you live with your husband, you are under no obligation to earn anything except if you want to.
when a woman is divorced, why would she live with her husband? use your brain before you speak plz. im talking about after a divorce.....BEFORE a divorce obviously the husband would support her cuz thats his role.
say that in English.....I dont know what you are talking about.
explain what you were talking about otherwise dont say anything..you have no manners at all....
mehnaz didnt even say anything to you and you go around saying horrible things...
as far as me earning myself to support myself....that would be AFTER i get divorced....before that I will only earn for the fun of it (you can call it pocket money)....cuz my fiance doesnt want any of my earnings to contribute to the household expenses etc.....
you're very quick to jump to conclusions and make stupid comments without even reading someones post properly.
You know Mehnaz and PCG are living in a fantasy world of their own where everything works out just right at the end. I hate to burst your bubble but things do not exactly work out the way you want them to.
Do women come with a manufacturer guarantee that they will not transform into b*t*hes? YOu claim that a man should get to know a woman before a marraige. Tell that to millions of AMERICAN CHRISTIAN couple, lets not even talk about Pakistanis, who knew their spouce at every level for many years prior to a marraige before getting divorced with in the first year.
Now can you blame me and millions of men out there who are APPREHENSIVE, NOT AFRAID, of tying the knot? During a divorce everything is fair game: prenups, protected assets, stuff owned prior to marraige, everything is up for grabs. Obviously most of the people here, including you, have never really been near someone who went through this ordeal. Or Allah tum sab to bacha ker rakhey.
The only way to protect your assets is to hide them!!!!! F'in A! Get a P.O BOX, open an account in the bahamas and start stashing cash in those accounts. Ask a divorce attorney for tips or even a loan shark.
Personally, I make very good money. VERY GOOD MONEY! Yet I keep a very slow profile, average car, average clothes, average watch, blah blah blah, all this to make sure some gold digger b*t*h doesn't scope me out.
I’m not blaming you Fallen, , but you need to get over your fear if you ever plan on getting married and actually being able to enjoy your marriage without being terrified of the ‘what if she wipes me clean’ (which of course, means your assets). If you can’t trust your spouse, then there is really no point in getting married. It’s pretty simple. Like you said, keep a live in girlfriend. Then again, nowadays even if you live in common law for many years, they can also get a share of your assets, at least here in Canada.
I make money 20 times more then these little crazy girls making. I do the same, keep low profile and secondly, I am not afraid of any woman taking away anything from me. I don’t plan to marry these spoiled creatures. An average, pious and kind girl from a “Pind” of Pakistan is worth spending my life with…
Wow, I don’t see why you boys are getting so upset. What did I say to make you react like this?
I first suggested you don’t marry since you are too scared. You made it clear that was not a good option. I then asked why you don’t sign a prenup. I went on to ask ask what you can do to protect your assets since my previous suggestion was apparently no good. Aur phir, I asked again what you boys can do to protect yourselves from future harm. Again, I suggested you learn to trust your future spouse so you can enjoy your marriage and not have to be afraid, or “apprehensive”.
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Well you said it yourself Fallen. Put all of your assets, or a large chunk of it into a foreign bank account, probably a Swiss bank account would be better, and that way you will be safe and not feel the need to be apprehensive of being robbed by a greedy woman. Get lots of tips from divorce lawyers and do everything you can from now to protect yourself. Good luck. :k:
Edit: Just to add that you might want to do a credit check as well on your potential spouse, be it here or in Pakistan. You don’t want to be with someone who has a substantial loan because their loan will become YOUR loan to deal with after marriage.
Whew...........................look at this women bashing, hi there. u got some guts, guys, cotemplating decietful ways out in the public. i respect ur disclosures, w o w .
excuse me, but thanks for forgetting about many from within ur own kind, who beat up their wives or girls friends,
who wont stop short of mischiveously and delibrately hurting the women in their lives, for forcing them to serve his whole family, for making her pregnant when she does not want that to happen, for robbing her of her self esteem, for putting her down incessantly and not letting her work for her own name and money, & evenutally killing her personality.
May such men never evere find peace in their lives.
