EGO is a relationship killer. Yes YOU because it was you who got upset and poured it out on him even though not having your name on the card was not HIS fault anyway. How can you be angry with/mad at someone for someone else' doing. And you because you were harsher in your reaction as your post can tell. Come on Nadz he is your huband, you are already not there to be with him and from a married person' view, the merriment and grief both look incomplete when your partner is not there. So it must already be a heavy toll on him emotionally to be managing his sister's wedding without HIS family. I know you are going to miss him even more when you will have your baby in your arms. That will be the moment you will want him ever more.
I repeat, call him your self. be casual. Dont let him or even yourself feel that its petty to make a first move. Its not not not.
okay all cousins names are on it but not yours! thats messed up just for the cousin part
but then yur her bhabhi also , thats double rishta and no name? that is double messed up!
ur hubby sounds like a lil mamas boy who doesnt care about his wife
okay all cousins names are on it but not yours! thats messed up just for the cousin part
but then yur her bhabhi also , thats double rishta and no name? that is double messed up!
ur hubby sounds like a lil mamas boy who doesnt care about his wife
step up and take sme action!!!
no not their names, as in it just said ALL COUSINS not individual names...also said my daughters name and nands own mother , as in my mil.
anywy like i said thats not even the point now, husband is the point.
This may sound like a edit thing to say, Nadz..........but right now I'm wondering.........that if you had complained LESS to your husband in the past.......would he maybe have been more sensitive about this card issue? People can become immune to a frequent behavior.
This may sound like a edit thing to say, Nadz..........but right now I'm wondering.........that if you had complained LESS to your husband in the past.......would he maybe have been more sensitive about this card issue? People can become immune to a frequent behavior.
You have major comprehension issues SK. The point I've made is not an unreasonable one. Why don't you go read my previous posts....I never said that I supported her in-laws' behaivor......in fact I don't agree with what they did and I am quite put off by her husband as well. But at the same time....Nadz does need to pick and choose her battles....or at least approach an issue in a more effective way. But when a person turns everything into a battle....when one complains too much (for intstance)....it CAN make the person on the receiving end more immune and even apathetic. But you totally missed this point....just like how you often to fail to comprehend posts in general. Sometimes I think you just post your bongiyan for the sake of posting.
hmmmmm, i dono, but what im complainingabout now, is something most people woudlve been upset by too, and its not like i swore at him or his family or whatever that hes sulking for 3 days.
Fine, you are offended that your name is not on the card. But why are you yelling at your husband over skype about it? That's the perfect way to push him even more away from you.
hmmmmm, i dono, but what im complainingabout now, is something most people woudlve been upset by too, and its not like i swore at him or his family or whatever that hes sulking for 3 days.
Yeah but Nadz sometimes the intensity of the cold shoulder could also have to do with previous turn-offs if that makes sense. You're arguing that what you said to him was not that bad that it warranted a 3-day cold shoulder from him......but maybe he TOO feels exhausted of having to hear complaints about in-laws. He's in a stickier spot than you.....if he supports you it's at the risk of offending his parents.....if he back them up it's at the risk of hurting you. It's gotta be tiring for him which is why people advise picking and choosing your battles.
hmmmm, well ok, so i text him. and theres no reply. im 38 weeks pregnant. not him.
You also made that "I'm pregnant" point when you and him got into a physical argument a few months back....where you were partly to blame as well. You can't put ALL the responsibility of "being mindful of my pregnant state" on him. It is YOU who understands your health/physical condition better than him....and therefore you TOO have the responsibility of caring for yourself by choosing to let some matters go as opposed to letting your blood pressure skyrocket. It's wrong to put it all on him....you also need to be practical.
you should be mad at your husband who cares more about his sisters wedding then his wifes pregnancy...
wife is about to pop out at a baby and hes over there attending weddings...
very insensitive!
