Absolutly fuming....!!!!1

khattichic · January 11, 2012, 3:39am

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“Khattichic lady”

Mabrook · January 11, 2012, 4:58am

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asooli tour per they should have put ur name even though u r not attending as u r the bahoo of the family. but since they didn't better try not to boil urself over it. it will only hurt u and ur relationship with ur hubby and his family further.

hanibal · January 11, 2012, 6:33am

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and was he wrong... you have given him reasons to think about you like this, now even if you right then he will consider it your habit to be negative on everything

tranquil · January 11, 2012, 8:25am

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If my SIL didn't put my name on her mehendi card i honestly wouldn't care; I just want her to get married already.

ninja_hattori · January 11, 2012, 8:28am

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^does ur SIL print her own mehendi cards?

m so sorry for her....

Sweetmoi · January 11, 2012, 9:16am

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i dont think Nadz reads the posts

skmch · January 11, 2012, 10:46am

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nadz please go through all the threads you created after your shadi about your ILs/husband , imagine your bahu behaving ditto like you, and be thankful to your husband and ILs for still accepting you as their bahu/wife ! (knowing they are from pakistan,‘typical’ desi mentality, and never married you for your passport.kon bardasht karta hai itni har waqt ki bakwaas ajkal? ) You are not ready to invest ANYTHING to your relation after your consent to get married and pregnant and you still expect them to bithao sir ankhoan pe ? :halo:

skmch · January 11, 2012, 10:47am

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true ! she would have learnt something atleast if she read even half of the replies she gets for her problems since moneths !

Jaanwar · January 11, 2012, 10:55am

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Aha! 7 pages of Nadz's deep fried awesomeness. If Nadz promises to post more often, I am cancelling the damn cable.

DaffyDuck · January 11, 2012, 11:06am

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Hehe Janwar!

Demilitarize · January 11, 2012, 12:07pm

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Were you by any chance at any point educated in a missionary school (convent etc)? hehe I was and this was literally our daily prayer!

mirage · January 11, 2012, 12:49pm

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Mohammad Asif Arrested in Dubai! - Charges Dropped - Returns to Pakistan on June 19th

i didnt yell, we werent talking over skype, we were typing,because the audio facility wasnt working properly, so im typing …not yelling. and yes he did tell me to relax roughly 3 times before he said im talking bakwas and he said HE was gna log off…all i was saying was how im upset and how ppl will think something wrong, how im not condisded part of his family, etc the while thing went on for 15mins before he said hes gna go i said im off too i then text him to say how wud he like if his sis was treated this way, and dnt text me because i know watul say.

fine i told him not to text me, but i didnt say never text me again, and even if i have, so wat, im right, arent i.im the wronged one he should be destressing me whatever i say …if i wasnt preg, fair enough, because i am, he should ignore anything i say anyway…shouldnt he…

That really doesnt sound pleasant and nice at all. :hinna: Pleasant is something else, but I believe life partners should pay heed to remain nice to each other at least. Your BP might have been on the rise or something, but I am sure your husband would have written a fuming thread too, if he could, after all this convo. Esp when you kinda gave him the tana of his sister. Not nice I tell you

mirage · January 11, 2012, 12:51pm

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Now when you say such things, you shouldnt be expecting flowers from him in return sista. Do call him or text yourself now, and if possible, show him the nicer side of yours and be good.

khattichic · January 11, 2012, 1:06pm

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Nahin..I’m an Alumni of The School of Hard Knocks…

I’ve always loved the Serenity Prayer, it brings me immense inner peace and calm

nadz123 · January 11, 2012, 1:25pm

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so what to do....its now day 3 and no contact.

Puchi_Kuchi · January 11, 2012, 1:29pm

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nadz, you need to write to him him rather than call.....
it will help you gather your feelings and say what you want without showing your anger etc, request that he also contact you in writing as speaking to each other clearly results in emotional negative outbursts, and neither party is communicating well at present...
hope this helps..

nadz123 · January 11, 2012, 2:02pm

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no point. i am well known to him for writing lenghty mails or texts whenevr we fight and i feel im wronged. so dont want to this time. prfer a small text although not sure what to say. and not sure if i even want to make the effort. i know it sonds silly and childish but thats how am feeling.

prototype · January 11, 2012, 2:34pm

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if you are naraz, why would you text him first ? (teeli laga-ing! :D)

mirage · January 11, 2012, 4:01pm

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make an effort anyway. It wouldnt cost you anything. Call him simply, ask his khairyat and give yours. You are life partners, deserve this much from each other.

nadz123 · January 11, 2012, 6:02pm

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[quote="mirage, post:35, topic:252865"]

make an effort anyway. It wouldnt cost you anything. Call him simply, ask his khairyat and give yours. You are life partners, deserve this much from each other./QUOTE

we are life partners. im sure HE knows that too. so why me.

im in 2minds if i should. i know it sounds petty. but why wouldnt have have made the effort first. why me all the time. yes, i know hes a great husband otherwise, fine, but doesnt mean he gets away with everything else he does that i may find wrong of him.