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RV- please b serious. as u normally r. and yes i kn ow whatl u say, that i shouldnt care.
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i did not have my bhabhi's name on my mehndi invite.
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i did not have my bhabhi's name on my mehndi invite.
why not? did u have her kids on it......and was she the only one not on it.
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Just because I am not close to her. She is my brother's wife, I respect her and I am nice to her but I don't need her name on my wedding/mehndi card. Nor do I expect my IL's to add my name on their wedding cards.
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They don’t like you 
so may be before next wedding make sure they do , so you won’t have to ask for it and they’ll add you like this :k:
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Never let the opposition see you sweat
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yes, thats the reason mum said too, maybe cos im not there, and usually mendi invite is personal from someone who is actualy there, fine,.thats fine, so whys my daughters name on it...she aint there either, and seriously its the thought that counts, it wouldnt have killed them to put my name on, just to include me.
and yes i do care thatmy husband doesnt understand, i dont care that they dont.
You expect your husband to be just as involved in these things as you? Do you really think he will sit there and pore over the invite and get upset? No. There is a wedding happening and usually that means things like this get brushed under the rug.
I suggest making your life easier...not harder.
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Try to ignore... You can't force anyone to do anything for you... Your name isn't on the card... What does it matter.. It's their choice to write the names ofpeople they like.
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@ Nadz: please bare urself the misery over this! yess people allways miss the kids! so what... its a lil weird what they did, but it doesnt mean they excluded you. come on..
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Kujh unj vi raahwaN okhiaN san, Kujh gal vich gham da tauq vi si
Kujh shehr de lok vi zaalim san, Kujh sanu maran da shauq vi si...
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^ sounds so good - translation?
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were they upset with u or anything?
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Aaaw c’mon Nadzy 
. I know you’re not gonna get em back with no gifts or crappy ones. As crazy you can be sometimes, you know better than that. I’m just trying to lighten the tension.
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yes, thats the reason mum said too, maybe cos im not there, and usually mendi invite is personal from someone who is actualy there, fine,.thats fine, so whys my daughters name on it...she aint there either, and seriously its the thought that counts, it wouldnt have killed them to put my name on, just to include me.
and yes i do care thatmy husband doesnt understand, i dont care that they dont.
But you said they were expecting your daughter to be there on the wedding, right? So may be that's the reason for adding her name.
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lol you almost died from a pulmonary embolism last week. still no change in perspective of whats a real issue whats not. <3 nadz <3
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my husband just showed me via skype, the mehndi invite card for hhis sisters wedding. now oin mendi invites its the female relos that invite , so what do i see, i see his mums name, even my daughters name, and all cousins.....wheres my name....
he says his dad wrote it, his dad did it all, and he doesnt see the problem anyway, cos im not there, i said even if im not there, most ppl do write it dont they, and my daughters not there, so whys her name on it......he says `oh cos dad misses her alot ( we all know that they want her at the wedding), so i said oh so no one misses me....and he said i was being all negative as usual and im wrong to feel this way cos it wasnt meant in that way blah blach....
am i wrong or right, i feel my name shudve been there, even if my daughters wasnt, but since hers is and mine isnt, the reason they out hers is silly, cos they miss her? wtf, wat about me im her bhabi as well as her cousin.......but in the wedding invites she obviously doesnt have one...
im so sick of it sick of being told im wrong to feel upset. im more pisssed at him for not understanding, for not realisiing why im upset, he thinks im just over exagerting.....
Get a freakin life , there are people starving and dying in the world
and you're getting upset over something as trvial as this?
I feel sorry for your husband you sound like a bratty drama queen
making something outta nothing
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but they wrote her name...cos shes their blood or they miss her or love her or whatever, fine, but im not that imporant as bhabi?
You already know they don't miss or love you. What's the point of getting all worked up about it? Sooner you make peace with it, better for you.
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^ Hear, hear.
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Nadz should try asking for advice on 4chan or something. That will have her appreciating her family in no time.
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ufff you don't know how to handle anything.
Fine, you are offended that your name is not on the card. But why are you yelling at your husband over skype about it? That's the perfect way to push him even more away from you.
CHOOSE YOUR BATTLES WISELY!!!