Mr Islamabad,
Indeed it is very hard to leave the faith of your forefathers.. I agree 101 %. :) Thats why you are not able to call yourself an Ahmadi Muslim..
Now lets come to the point of discussion, which is Death of Jesus.
The Verse you have quoted, has been a matter of great discussion, not only between Ahmadis and mainstream muslims, but muslims themselves.
*Nay Allah raised him up unto Himself; and Allah is Exalted in Power Wise. 4: 158 * Yousuf Ali.
Commentary number 664 by Yusuf Ali to the above verse, as it appears in the original NON REVISED 1977 edition:
"There is difference of opinion as to the exact interpretation of this verse. The words are: The Jews did not kill Jesus, but God raised him up (rafa'u) to Himself. One school holds that Jesus did not die the usual human death, but still lives in the body in heaven; *another holds that he did die (v. 120) but not when he was supposed to have to be crucified, and that his being "raised up" unto God means that instead of being disgraced as a malefactor, as the Jews intended, he was on the contrary honoured by God as His Apostle; see also next verse. The same word rafa'a is used in association with honour in connection with Mustafa in xciv. 4. " *
Translation by M. Asad:
*Nay, God exalted him unto Himself - and God is indeed almighty, wise. 4: 158 *
Commentary Number 172 by M. Asad to the above verse reads:
Cf. 3:55, where God says to Jesus, "Verily, I shall cause thee to die, and shall exalt thee to Me." The verb rafa'ahu (lit., "he raised him" or "elevated him") has always,*whenever the act of raf' ("elevating") of human being is attributed to God, the meaning of "honouring" or "exalting". Nowhere in the Qur’an is there any warrant for the popular belief that God has "taken up" Jesus bodily, in his lifetime, into heaven. The expression "God exalted him unto Himself" in the above verse denotes the elevation of Jesus to the realm of God's special grace * - a blessing in which all prophets partake, as it is evident from 19:57, where the verbrafa'nahu ("We exalted him") is used with regard to the Prophet Idris, (See also Muhammad Abduh in Manar III, 316 f., and VI, 20f.) The "nay" (bal) at the beginning of the sentence is meant to stress the contrast between belief of the Jesus that they had put Jesus to a shameful death on the cross and the fact of God's having "exalted him unto Himself."
Here is the text of verse 19: 57 for comparison:
And We raised him to a lofty station.
The above view is further supported by a Hadith:
Hazrat Fatima, God be pleased with her, relates from the Holy Prophet:
** "Jesus, son of Mary, lived to the age of 120 years." **
(Kanz-ul-Ummal, vol. vi, p. 120)
Similarly, many modern muslim scholars consider the popular translation of this verse to be a very weak basis of the belief that Jesus was raised up.
The late ** Maulana Ubaidullah Sindhi wrote** :
"Mutawaffi-ka means mumitu-ka * and what generally prevails amongst the public about Jesus’ life is a Jewish and Sabean fable … It is not a concealed matter that the source of Islam is the Quran, and in it there is not even one verse proving explicitly that Jesus did not die, and that he is alive and shall come down. These are only the deductions and explanations of some people, and are not free from doubt and uncertainty. How, then, can it be taken to be a fundamental Islamic belief ?"
(Ilham al-Rahman fi-tafsir al-Quran, vol. ii, p. 49)
** Maulana Sayyid Sulaiman Nadawi wrote:**
i. "Looking at the birth of Jesus, his death and the doctrine of Trinity, some American critics and rationalists now believe that Jesus was just a mythical figure."
(Khutbat Madras, p. 42, Sermon No. 2, published by the Lahore Academy, 205 Circular Road, Lahore)
ii. "It appears from this that even before Sir Syed [Ahmad Khan] some Ulama held the same viewpoint as his on this question [of Jesus’ death]. People today who make this issue a standard for determining belief or disbelief in Islam are indulging in extremism."
(Mu‘araf, March 1930, p. 171)
** Khwaja Hasan Nizami of Delhi wrote:**
i. "Westerners believe that Jesus ascended to heaven. The Quran contradicts this Christian belief, for it contains the verse: inni mutawaffi-ka wa rafi‘u-ka ilayya, i.e., ‘O Jesus, I am about to cause you to die, and grant you exaltation and elevation unto Myself ’. This verse proves the death of Jesus. However, there is another verse saying: wa ma qatalu-hu wa ma salabu-hu wa lakin shubbiha la-hum, i.e., the Jews neither killed nor crucified Jesus, but they fell into doubt. This verse proves that Jesus was not put upon the cross, but died his own death. Rising to heaven does not mean that he went up to heaven but that his status in the estimation of God was raised."
(Roznamcha, 16 November 1931, p. 15)
** Maulana Zafar Ali Khan, editor of newspaper Zamindar, wrote:**
i. "If the moral and spiritual teaching left behind with the Israelites by Jesus after his death (wasal) is examined, it appears that only such people could benefit from this inheritance as live in cloisters and monasteries, leading the lives of hermits."
(Punjab Review, compiled by Maulana Zafar Ali Khan, vol. i, no. 1, 8 August 1901)
** Sayyid Abul ‘Ala Maudoodi** has written the following upon this topic:
The Quran does not explicitly state that God raised up Jesus, body and soul, from earth to heaven. Nor does it clearly say that he died a natural death on earth, and that only his soul was raised up. Thus, on the basis of the Quran, neither of these views can be definitely negated or confirmed."
(Tahfim al-Quran by Maulana Maudoodi, p. 240)
** As far as the Ahadith on Descent of Jesus are concerned**
The word "nuzool" does not necessarily mean physical descent. Like Quran says,
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YUSUFALI: We sent down Iron, in which is (material for) mighty war, as well as many benefits for mankind, that Allah may test who it is that will help, Unseen, Him and His messengers: For Allah is Full of Strength, Exalted in Might (and able to enforce His Will).
The word Nuzul is also used for Iron, and the book, and God's blessings.. I thank Allah that it is not the literal Nuzool of iron, otherwise things could have been pretty tough for human survival..*