A question for my Shia-Muslim brothers and sisters.

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No no please excuse me, I'm not too bright you see...
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Okay, thanks for pointing that out, we will all try to keep it in mind...

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so can you please put up the exact hadith, word for word, as to what Hazrat Umar said. I'm really not interested in your interpretation of it.
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I've given the references in an earlier post... here is the wording:

Salim ibn 'Abdullah relates from his father that: 'Umar ascended the pulpit, praised and gloried Allah, and then said: "It does not behove men to partake of mutah marriage for Allah's Messenger (s) prohibited it and if i come across anyone marrying in such a way i will stone him." (al-Bayhaqi, Sunan al-Kubra 7:206)

A similar report, which also mentions 'Umar's confirmation that Allah's Messenger (s) had already prohibited mutah is in Sunan ibn Majah (#1963), Sunan Sa'id ibn Mansur (as per Kanz al-'Amal #45714) and in al-Daraqutni's Sunan (2:257).

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How does Jabir's saying the above lead you to conclude that "a few people were not aware of the prohibition of mutah"?
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Because it differs from the Prophet's (s) confirmed prohibition.

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How can you suppose from that quotation that he was not aware of its "nullification"?
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If he knew of the prohibition he would have acted accordingly. The lack of knowledge on the part of one or more individuals doesn't cancel out the positive knowledge of others.

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Are you in effect denying the authenticity of Hadeeth?
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No, i'm questioning your understanding of it.

Any news on the Khaybar hadith?

Iqbal

once again.. how is today's Muslim to take these "Jabir" kind of guys seriously when they themself didn't know the 'complete' Islam in their days??

I have one question for the people who are advocating mutah..Doesn't it just FEEL wrong??There are so many guidances on how muslims should behave with regard to male and female relationships-how can anyone with any understanding of Islam not see mutah as a direct contradiction of muslim code of conduct.
what astounds me even more is Rhia as a woman advocates it, just apply common sense...its totally against everything Islam preaches!! I just cant belive that people are trying to say its Islamic!

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*Originally posted by Serendipiti: *
I have one question for the people who are advocating mutah..Doesn't it just FEEL wrong??There are so many guidances on how muslims should behave with regard to male and female relationships-how can anyone with any understanding of Islam not see mutah as a direct contradiction of muslim code of conduct.
what astounds me even more is Rhia as a woman advocates it, just apply common sense...its totally against everything Islam preaches!! I just cant belive that people are trying to say its Islamic!
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according to the shia books mutah was never banned by Prophet pbuh...but it does not astound me that umar disobeyed Prophet pbuh then and his followers are doing it now..doesnt matter, y'all can believe your contradicting ghalat bukharis/muslims

dear all assalam o laikum
calm down all.....this thing will never end.....until we identify that which sect is on the wrong side as a whole not just one aqeedah.......we sunnis believe that shahbah were the true interpreters of rasul allah (s.a.w) true words....we can not just read the quran an interpret it until we read some related thing from sunnah .how rasul allah s.a.w acted on it.......rasul allah s.a.w was the teacher of shaba ra.....if we dont believe in shabah interpretations then where will our iman will lye.
any how here is some shia believe which i have just read.....
khomainee in his book (itehad-o-yakjehte)khana farhang pkistan on page 15 writes tahat (naooz-o-billah)rasul allah s.a.w failed i the duties bestowed upoun him

well as far as the current topic is concerned.....tafseer minhaj us sadiqain book 2 page 493 has "one who commits mutah 4 times is equal instatus to rasul s.a.w"

shias also belive in that quran we now have is not real their 12 imam will bring the real one ..
assalam oalkim

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shias also belive in that quran we now have is not real their 12 imam will bring the real one
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hmm not that I've read it .. maybe the Shia brothers/sisters on the board can clear this out but I think they believe the Imam in hiding has Hazrat Ali's copy or his 'notes' to the Qur'an..

As for not being able to understand the Qur'an without Sahaba's is a big hooey.. Allah gave the Qur'an to the Muslims through his channel the messenger who was to DELIVER the message. He wasn't a guardian over whoever received the message. Therefore the Sahaba will have to answer for their deeds and we will have to answer for our own. We do not live in their times and they woulnd't know nothing about how to solve the problems that face us today.

When all arguments die down one can pick up the verse taken in support of Mutah and try and understand it in the context of marriages as explained elsewhere in the Qur'an.. I'm sure without the extra Qur'anic texts that came much later and tried to distort the real teachings one would arrive at the conclusion that the verse is still talking about marriage and not some new entity called 'mutah'.

what astounds me even more is Rhia as a woman advocates it

That surprised me as well.. but then, when I as a Sunni can accept men marrying 4 wives, I guess she as a Shi'ite can accept mutah just as easily. It is what we have been taught to accept... blindly. And we will do anything to justify that our side is always right, even to the extent of manipulating words.

Imam in hiding has Hazrat Ali's copy or his 'notes' to the Qur'an

That's what I was told as well.. and also that some verses of the Qur'an relating to Ali's prophethood were eliminated from the Qur'an we have... we seriously ought to have a separate thread on this because the posts in this thread have been very informative, for me atleast. They are helping me reconcile a lot of things in my mind, and I would hope this thread will help others clear their misconceptions and dogma in a positive manner.

My reply to brother Iqbal:

Reference: Sahih Muslim Volume 2, Book of Marriage, Chapter 3, page 346.

“Muhammad b Ali narrated on the authority of his father Ali that Allah’s Apostle (saw) on the Day of Khyber prohibited for ever the contracting of temporary marriage and eating of the flesh of domestic asses.”

Subsequently two more Hadith follow on the same page, both supposedly narrated by Ali to Ibn Abbas saying the same thing, both containing the word PROHIBITED FOREVER.

Take note: according to Sunni scholars, Sahih Muslim is more authoritative and is on of the two earliest collections of Hadith than any of the Sunan Books that you have referred to. Although it is very interesting to note that Sahih Bokhari, an even earlier version, only has one quote about Mutah being forbidden on Khayber and NOTHING about it being prohibited on the conquest of Mecca. So please tell me how can Mutah be forbidden on the Day of Kyber FOREVER and then allowed during conquest of Mecca two years later? That’s your theory about the “timeline” of Ahadith going out of the window.

Now I reproduce SAHIH Ahadith (most of which have been given in earlier posts by Brother Gandalf) which attribute the prohibition of Mutah to Umar. The Prohibition, NOT the “reminder of prohibition”:

    • Sahih Muslim Book 007, Number 2801: ...... When 'Umar was Installed as Caliph, he said: Verily Allah made permissible for His Messenger (may peace be upon him) whatever He liked and as he liked. And (every command) of the Holy Qur'an has been revealed for every occasion. So accomplish Hajj and Umra for Allah as Allah has commanded you; and confirm by (proper conditions) the marriage of those women (with whom you have performed Mut'a). And any person would come to me with a marriage of appointed duration (Mut'a), I would stone him (to death). Qatada narrated this hadith with the same chain of transmitters saying: (That 'Umar also said): Separate your Hajj from 'Umra, for that is the most complete Hajj, and complete your Umra.
  1. Sahih al-Tirmidhi, v1, p157, Tafsir al-Qurtubi, v2, p365, reported from al-Darqunti:
    "some one asked Abdullah Ibn Umar about Mut'a (of Hajj), he said: It is permitted (Halaal). So he was asked: your father forbade it. He said: Do you think that my father can forbid what the Prophet did? Should I follow what my father said, or should I follow what the Prophet ordered? The man said: Of course the orders of the Prophet (PBUH&HF).

  2. Tafsir al-Kabir, by Fakhr al-Razi, v3, commentary of verse 4:24
    Musnad Ahmad Ibn Hanbal, v1, p52:
    Two Mut'a were practiced during the time of the Prophet: Mut'a of women and Mut'a of Hajj, but I forbid both of them and will punish anyone who practices either."

Now the first Hadith states clearly that not only did the Holy Prophet think it permissible but it was also ordained in the Quran. The second part of the first Hadith Hazrat Umar attributed the prohibition to himself.

Second Hadith, Hazrat Umar’s own son clearly stating not only was it NEVER forbidden by the Prophet but only by his father, Hazrat Umar. Are you going to tell me this Sahih Hadith too is not acceptable because Abdullah “wasn’t aware of its supposed prohibition”? Never mind the fact that in the third Hadeeth Hazrat Umar himself attributes the prohibition of Mutah to himself AFTER stating clearly that it was allowed by the Prophet? There is no mention of “I remind”.

I look forward to your answers but I am not interested in your or any other commentators convoluted interpretation of Hadith, I want you to explain to me as it is word for word and how from these three very authentic Hadith you come to the conclusion of it was a reminder when it was clearly anything but one.

As for you not accepting Jabir ibn Abdullah’s Hadith, and impossible as it is to believe that he didn’t know what he was going on about, in this light, it does as someone stated, bring to question the whole veracity of the literature you so wilfully quote. So I will not even go there.

Faisal, for your interest Shias believe that wine was never permissible during “earlier” Islam despite whatever dubious narrations you might have come across. Incidentally Shias also believe that neither the Prophet nor his staunch companions ever had a drop of wine and therefore you can’t compare this argument with Mutah, where the Prophet himself and his close companions contracted Mutah. So there goes that argument.

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*Originally posted by Serendipiti: *
I have one question for the people who are advocating mutah..Doesn't it just FEEL wrong??There are so many guidances on how muslims should behave with regard to male and female relationships-how can anyone with any understanding of Islam not see mutah as a direct contradiction of muslim code of conduct.
what astounds me even more is Rhia as a woman advocates it, just apply common sense...its totally against everything Islam preaches!! I just cant belive that people are trying to say its Islamic!
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It’s a matter of strong principle. It would do you good to understand that instead of flitting from one unconnected thought to another. I don’t care for your feelings and opinions. Your feelings account for zilch when it comes to belief and your principles. Otherwise anyone could so candidly ask how do you FEEL about starving yourself during Ramadan?! Is it “Islamic” to torture yourself like that??! The obvious answer it has nothing to do with how one feels, it has everything to do with the fact that you carry this out because God ordained it through His Prophet. The principle here is that the Prophet and his companions practised Mutah, therefore it could NEVER have been un-Islamic practise and ALL scholars Shia, Sunni, whatever, agree on this. The ONLY point of contention is whether or not this practise was abrogated and to this effect you can bring your evidence and arguments and we will give our views. So this is all about facts, facts about the practise of the Prophet’s Sunnah, not about worthless personal opinions thank you.

As to the questions raised about Shia Ithna’Asheria Ideology, I will be more than happy to start a new topic, instead of derailing this topic, to help clear the misunderstanding many have of our beliefs. I believe that local Shias at grassroots levels have perhaps been less than desirable ambassadors of their beliefs, especially in Pakistan, which has not particularly helped our cause. Ana, it is in this regard I will post some of your views about Shia beliefs, as I believe they represent to a very large extent the average Sunni perspective about Shias. I think it might be best to discuss on the board.

great discussion all and congratulations to you all for not descending this (for the most part) into a shia vs. sunni argument.

i have one point and one questions.

POINT: it seems to be that this discussion winds down to how one feels about Umar (r); if you feel that he was a rightly-guided caliph, then you will agree with his decision to curb the temporary marriage. If however you believe him to be deviant then you will never accept his decision. At its core, it goes all the way back to the basic differences between shias and sunnis.

QUESTION: One of the earlier posts mentioned the following hadith:

Jabir Ibn Abdullah reported: "We contracted temporary marriage >>giving a handful of the dates or flour as a dower during the life time >>of Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) and during the time >>of Abu Bakr until Umar forbade it because of Amr Ibn Huraith."

does anyone know the incident of Amr Ibn Huraith that is alluded in this hadith?

best wishes.

Holy Quran is complete!

Hallelujah... we have a winner.. so let's limit our discussions and arguments to the magnificent Book and use our collective intellect to understand it's verses using it's own verses ONLY for reference... not some outside texts on which we all agree to disagree.

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*Originally posted by Rhia: *

**My reply to brother Iqbal:

Reference: Sahih Muslim Volume 2, Book of Marriage, Chapter 3, page 346.

“Muhammad b Ali narrated on the authority of his father Ali that Allah’s Apostle (saw) on the Day of Khyber prohibited for ever the contracting of temporary marriage and eating of the flesh of domestic asses.”

Subsequently two more Hadith follow on the same page, both supposedly narrated by Ali to Ibn Abbas saying the same thing, both containing the word PROHIBITED FOREVER.**
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Thank you for the references. Okay, so you are quoting from Sahih Muslim that at Khaybar mutah was prohibited "forever".

I'm sorry to say it but it seems you have never actually read Sahih Muslim or the other works that you pretend to quote from other than perhaps translations of some of these books. (Gandalf also quoted the same hadith you've just posted. He obviously hasn't read Sahih Muslim either). Fortunately, anyone who has direct access to referenced works can quickly see through the games played by cut-and-paste specialists. It might surprise you to learn that nowhere in Sahih Muslim does it say that mutah was prohibited "forever" at Khaybar or that the reports contain "the word PROHIBITED FOREVER" (your emphasis) or, equally, that it was prohibited at that time "till Judgement Day" as you incorrectly suggested in a previous post.

If you or your colleagues are interested in a serious discussion, you might first want to take the time to actually check your sources instead of pinning your hopes on other people's translations or Internet articles.

If you think the words "prohibited forever" or even "till Judgement Day" are in Sahih Muslim's reporting of the prohibition at Khaybar then all you have to do is prove it. Post the Arabic text and show me and anyone else reading this thread where this occurs. Forcing an incorrect translation or interpolation can hardly stand as credible evidence. If you insist the translation you've posted is correct, simply post a comparison between it and the freely available Arabic text.

If you'll permit me, i'll come back to the remainder of your reply once you've got your facts right on this one.

Iqbal

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*Originally posted by TUMS: *
great discussion all and congratulations to you all for not descending this (for the most part) into a shia vs. sunni argument.

i have one point and one questions.

POINT: it seems to be that this discussion winds down to how one feels about Umar (r); if you feel that he was a rightly-guided caliph, then you will agree with his decision to curb the temporary marriage. If however you believe him to be deviant then you will never accept his decision. At its core, it goes all the way back to the basic differences between shias and sunnis.

QUESTION: One of the earlier posts mentioned the following hadith:

Jabir Ibn Abdullah reported: "We contracted temporary marriage >>giving a handful of the dates or flour as a dower during the life time >>of Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) and during the time >>of Abu Bakr until Umar forbade it because of Amr Ibn Huraith."

does anyone know the incident of Amr Ibn Huraith that is alluded in this hadith?

best wishes.
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It is all quite elementary and yet you are a little wrong. It is not about how one feels about the Hazrat Umar, far from it (I believe that is not a very strong case to make if that is all one has to rely on). It is about sticking to the basic principles which form the common denominator of Islamic thought. Yes, what you say has some truth in it, it comes back to our original statement that we believe Hazrat Umar’s ruling of prohibition has no merit when the Prophet had not forbidden Mutah. I believe had Hazrat Ali prohibited Mutah when the Prophet had not, we would not accept his ruling either, for it is a Quranic injunction that whatever the Prophet says or does is from God, so his (pbuh) authority is final. That’s what I talk about when I say it’s about upholding the very basic principles and values. And as a matter of those very fundamental beliefs, I have no doubt that coming down to it, our Sunni brothers and sisters ALSO believe that between Hazrat Umar’s words and those of the Prophet, no one would deny the authority of the Prophet, and to this effect no one has. Albeit what it boils down to is they believe Prophet himself had prohibited Mutah, which we have repeatedly shown, from Sahih Sunni sources, that in fact this was not the case - the Prophet hadn’t prohibited Mutah.

I have tried to independently find out about the incidence of Amr ibn Huraith but have had little success. I hope someone more knowledgeable may be able to shed some light on this.

Also my sincere thanks to all who contributed to the discussion.

Yes, it is an essential part of the Shia belief that the Blessed Quran in its present form is totally complete.

Iqbal unlike yourself I alhamdulillah rely on my own resources. The references are from our own personal library containing 8 volumes of Sahih Muslim and all of the other books. I do not rely on cut and paste.

If you can't provide refutations of the arguments presented, that is fine by me too. I've said what I wanted to say. Those who utilise their God-given thinking capabilities will know and understand.

Allah hafiz.

Rhia: your argument overlooks one important aspect of islamic law: ijtihad. Islamic law is flexible. Questions of creed aside, much of Islamic law is open to argumentation and discussion among learned people. Of course I dare say no one on this board qualifies with that distinction. Absent that, we must understand that the Islamic ruler, and make no mistake about, Hazrat Umar (R) was the legitimate ruler of his time, is allowed to make rulings that, at face value, may seem to be going against the rulings of the Prophet (s). Keep in mind that we sunnis believe in the prophetic hadith that if there were a prophet after Muhammad (saw), it would have been Umar (r). You cannot take certain aspects of the book but reject others. If you believe that the aforementioned hadith regarding Muttah is in Sahih Muslim, so is this one regarding the status of Umar; thus, with a comprehensive understanding of the rights of the khalifa, the circumstances during which muttah was permitted, the encouragement of the prophetic sunnah of nikaah and the status and esteem in which Umar was held by the Prophet (s), it only makes sense that we follow the ruling which forbade Muttah.

In reality, these are matters of faith and culture and will never be resolved; however it does raise eyebrows given that the practice of Nikaah is readily promoted in Islam and the extent to which Muttah has been abused, as well as the disadvantageous and manipulative position it places the girl in. It does seem to permit the male to make merry with the woman with few if any regards for ramifications.

All the best.

obviously you havnt read your sahi books because there is a hadith by Prophet pbuh “O Ali! You hold in relation to me the same position as Harun held in relation to Musa except that there will be no prophet after me”

read the sahi books and you will find this hadith in it..where did umar come into the picture :confused:

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*Iqbal unlike yourself I alhamdulillah rely on my own resources. The references are from our own personal library containing 8 volumes of Sahih Muslim and all of the other books. I do not rely on cut and paste.
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So if you have Sahih Muslim (the Arabic i premuse) then you should have realised, assuming that you bothered to check, that the words "prohibited forever" or "till Judgement Day" are not there. Yet you still had no hesitation in posting an incorrect rendition just to prove your point. What a shame. Perhaps you may have been excused had you relied on someone else's errenous translation, but what excuse do you have now that you've admitted that you actually have the text right in front of you?

Iqbal

I gave you the word for word translation Iqbal. If that is wrong, then I hope you understand that is not of my own doing. Unfortunately I am not an expert in Arabic linguistics. But that should not stop you from answering my main criticism: that of Hazrat Umar prohibiting Mutah.

TUMMS:
If you read my posts, I have not stated much against what u have said. In fact I repeatedly stated you have to rely on your own judgement and intellect which in essence is ijtihad to reach a conclusion about the veracity of Hadeeth and not accept the "Sahih" label at face value. Since majority of Sunni's accept every Hadeeth in the Sahih books to be 100% authentic, they should not be selective in the Hadeeth they relate and accept. If they do, it would only undermine their own beliefs.

Thank you.

Sheraz: since you have read your Sahi books, how about the name of the book, chapter and verse por favor?

Rhia: sorry but there are too many posts to sift through, you may well have said the same thing as i but i just didn't read everything.

best regards.