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I don't even like tea..Pslims. :( How bout you bake me some cookies?
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during my rishta process, my brother used to serve the tea while me just sitting comfortably and talking to the guy or his family…
… i would tease my brother in the kitchen about how to serve the tea and etc. … 
and about samosas… i wouldnt care about the mess … the only thing i hate to hear was 'yeh samosay (or something whatever) aapnay banaye hain?’ mayra dil chahta tha jawab main yeh kahon *‘jee nahi, saath wali aunty kay ghar say milaad per chaay (6) din pahlay aaye thay, mainay sirf garam kiye hain’ *
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Does that chai trolley thing exist where the girl actually brings out the trolley or chai?
I have done many many chai trolley rishta meetings but none for myself always for when my phoophos or khalas or mamos were in the rishta process.
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Also, wouldn't it be better if you just argue about the point being made here instead of picking on me speculating or not?
you also judge too much
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The usual routine in our home was that the sister who was not being introduced served the tea, just to avoid the awkwardness. But in a few recent rishta meetings, I did serve the tea. Disclaimer: I had met the guy before and was on pretty comfortable terms with the guy, but was meeting his parents for the first time. For me, it was less a "rishta meeting" and more two families having a meal together and I actually didn't feel self conscious.
I think that is more common hese days. The one being introduced is usually brought out later and not made to serve.
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I don't even like tea..Pslims. :( How bout you bake me some cookies?
I'd probably end up burning them, and then you'd judge me forever and ever and ever and ever :(
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Most girls hate having to serve tea during rishta meetings because it creates an awkward situation, but guys what is your take on meeting a girl over a cup of tea served in the presence of family members? Good, not good? Please explain.
Aight..i am not old fashioned fella. So i don't believe she has to serve tea in order to meet the fella's khandan there. And reason i can think is that..she won't be nervous then. In anotha words..if i went " total arrange" marriage route then if she comes out for lets say 5 mins..that should be enough. Btw..i won't be going for total arrange so most probably i would have talked or met with her before!.
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I'd probably end up burning them, and then you'd judge me forever and ever and ever and ever :(
I'll take pity on you and marry you anyway. I'm benevolent like that.
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Cookies will be out of the oven in fifteen.
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Cookies will be out of the oven in fifteen.
Take em out in 10 or they will burn...unless you want RV to marry you in pity?
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Take em out in 10 or they will burn...unless you want RV to marry you in pity?
I was originally gonna write twenty minutes :-/ (I wanted to make sure they burned)
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I was originally gonna write twenty minutes :-/ (I wanted to make sure they burned)
hmm, now I'm thinking 15 mins is a good idea. Go for it Slims!
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Cookies will be out in 25 minutes!
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No no not 25 mins Slims, they have to look like cookies at least.
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I think I need to go out and buy some more cookie dough :-/
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Yeah, I want to know too 
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If I'd never met the girl before it would be awkward. To be honest the whole rishta process seems foreign to me and I definitely wouldn't want a girl to be trotted out and shown off.
I think if it's more relaxed (as in guy and girl have met before) then it's not that big a deal, but I could be wrong as apparently this is something girls get judged on?
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I don’t think thats a good idea
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