I've never liked Tea Trolley setup & Same was the view of hubby which i came to know later. So i didn't have to do anything. My bhabis served everything and I sat to chit chat, it was a pretty casual meeting nothing awkward.
We don't serve tea.... mostly we serve coke and nothing else.......... My mother believes k logoon ko tu adat ho jati hai her larki k ghar ja ker khaya piya aur khisky.......... so when they come back again we serve them very well with food and lunch dinner whatever......... but in first meeting we only serve coke and that too is served by my mom. I just sit there for a while, have some chit chat and go back to my room. I am agreed with my mom 100%.