Yeah they do, but I’d like to think that’s the older generation who make a bigger fuss of it.
I know a lot of girls who are 30ish who get married later because they’re not in a hurry - in this day and age, our priorities are slightly different. Yes it’s better Islamically to get married earlier, but I dislike the whole palaver and expiry-date attitude that comes with a girl’s age.
There is a reason and to put it explicitly, it has to do with your eggs and the ability to be energetic to have and raise kids.
Btw, it is a sunnat, nawt farz, in islam to marry. Desi and perhaps muslims at large seem to forget that. If someone doesn't want to marry then all hell doesn't and shouldn't break loose.
Why can't the 30 something women do what the 30 something men are doing? Snag some 20 old guy who has no frickin clue where his life is going and pamper him with all your money and success. See if that works. Isn't that what the older men do to make their young brides want them?
If possible and in their control, women should not wait for too long to get married. If some women out there are saying no to proposals because they think that they should focus on career or education at this time then they are making a mistake. They can build their career or get another degree even after the marriage
Now if the delay is because no proper match was available then it's a different issue
actually...you dont need to be married to have kids...and you're a woman...all you need is a sperm donor...i really think it should become an acceptable part of desi/islamic culture. it will solve the dilemma for a lot of 30+ women. these women have a career so its not like they cant support the kids.
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