If a girl says to her parents can you sign a piece of paper because I want to get married to my boyfriend, do you think that the average UK parent will say NO? Besides they can live as a couple even without getting married.
but i can only point out the UK side of things because ive not been in pakistan long enough to notice these things
than u sure have missed a lot ..........
well teenagers years r the tough phase of life , they start facing the world as an adult and wanna live a life as adults do, so if these 15+, 16+ see adults/ older people around them ( i don't mean family members @ home) experiencing stuff like sex , drugs , alcohol , nudity which was strictly forbidden to them as kids , they being vulnerable could easily fall pray to such things either just for fun while following a friend or out of curiosity that drove them crazy and hence wheneve they get the chance to have such fun , or fulfill their lusts & desires they just go for that .......so pagal same is the case of girls u've mentioned and they should be blamed but not as equally as those older men who're mature n strong enough to control their vulnerability & desire and could deciede what's right for them and what's not
the point of the thread isn't who flirts with who, sleeps around with who for waht reason or whatever you guys are making out the thread to be. i think the thread starter is referring to single men only. that is their sexual frustration to such a peak that they tend to forget the age of teh girl in front of them (or guys if that's the way they swing)?. and then they pretend that they are just messing around with their friends by being flirty? flirting is the norm these days so like totally forget about that issue, but it's just the plain ol' grossness. and say it is between "friends" and say the age difference between the two people isn't that huge, but is like 20 vs 30, and if the girl is clearly uncomfortable, why does the guy insist on flirting then? and if she does finally say stop, they tend to get all huffy and go what i can't have any fun anymore??
the point of the thread isn't who flirts with who, sleeps around with who for waht reason or whatever you guys are making out the thread to be. i think the thread starter is referring to single men only. that is their sexual frustration to such a peak that they tend to forget the age of teh girl in front of them (or guys if that's the way they swing)?. and then they pretend that they are just messing around with their friends by being flirty? flirting is the norm these days so like totally forget about that issue, but it's just the plain ol' grossness. and say it is between "friends" and say the age difference between the two people isn't that huge, but is like 20 vs 30, and if the girl is clearly uncomfortable, why does the guy insist on flirting then? and if she does finally say stop, they tend to get all huffy and go what i can't have any fun anymore??
so isn't it true for married uncles as well? I think it is much more worst and sick when a guy is married for obvious reasons.
Well, I guess thread opener has empahsized on the point of the thread already :D
the point of the thread isn't who flirts with who, sleeps around with who for waht reason or whatever you guys are making out the thread to be. i think the thread starter is referring to single men only. that is their sexual frustration to such a peak that they tend to forget the age of teh girl in front of them (or guys if that's the way they swing)?. and then they pretend that they are just messing around with their friends by being flirty? flirting is the norm these days so like totally forget about that issue, but it's just the plain ol' grossness. and say it is between "friends" and say the age difference between the two people isn't that huge, but is like 20 vs 30, and if the girl is clearly uncomfortable, why does the guy insist on flirting then? and if she does finally say stop, they tend to get all huffy and go what i can't have any fun anymore??
we can all assume that married guys don’t have that sexual frustration that i have mentioned in my post, and it is ok with their wives as to what they are doing, and that whatever “flirtation” that is going on is between friends only. but that is not what this thread is about, and i’m sure this discussion can take place in the other thread about the topic you keep insisting and bringing in this thread.
we can certainly bring it up to light can’t we? instead of being bashed about even starting the topic?
and if killing was the option i’m sure that would be used too
we can all assume that married guys don't have that sexual frustration that i have mentioned in my post, and it is ok with their wives as to what they are doing, and that whatever "flirtation" that is going on is between friends only. but that is not what this thread is about, and i'm sure this discussion can take place in the other thread about the topic you keep insisting and bringing in this thread.
It seems like this is your thread :D
I am just comparing the two...
I condemn both ... both refers to the sick minds of the society..
some men do sadly go ahead and become self-disrespectful at the drop of a hat.
the best thing is for them to remember their own ethics and what impression they leave, on the minds of young women.
that argument that such men should remember their own younger sisters being treated that way, is an argument but a weaker one.
debasing their sisters, in guilt tripping thought, is not a direct way to hurt such men where it should hurt them the most i.e., a severe hit on their own stand alone, individual conscience.
Mama ki dua are you referring to the same 2 people that I think you are referring to? I strongly believe that as Islam recommends, if one has a job and support a wife, they should get married as soon as possible. When a 30+ years old single guy is flirting and brainwashing teenage girls, I seriously think that they need to get a life and think about getting married to someone of legal age ASAP. At that stage, getting married is even more critical
AQ chalain aap mujhe khumar bula lain, niksik bula lain, sajal bula lain. laikin baat aap murgi say kar rahay hain.
and fine you don't. that's your words. maybe someone disagrees with you. i'm not to say who does and doesn't. but are you going to say that you have never flirted with someone? regardless of the their age? and so you are so pure that you can point fingers at anyone?
they can bcos even though they are 16 years old but they are still HIGH GRADE stupid or idiot [yuour choice]. where as 30 years old single males are expected to be at least as smart as bush if not einstein or newton.