AQ chalain aap mujhe khumar bula lain, niksik bula lain, sajal bula lain. laikin baat aap murgi say kar rahay hain.
and fine you don't. that's your words. maybe someone disagrees with you. i'm not to say who does and doesn't. but are you going to say that you have never flirted with someone? regardless of the their age? and so you are so pure that you can point fingers at anyone?
Yes.. I have never flirted with anyone...
If you wanna make this thread as a personal attack on me, be my guest... I do not have to prove you anything....
We are simply commenting on the questions in general... I do not think it is a wise idea to attack on members.... Even in my uncle bashing thread, I specifically said that it was a general observation and not pointing fingers to anyone because no one is wali Allah to know others' life...
Firstly, guys are experts at trapping girls. I have seen numerous cases.
Can’t a gilr say NO?: NO because some tharki uncles are way too desperate and posess the right skills to trap young girls.
My cousin lives in Pak. and her 50 year old step phupha was hitting on a 15 year old I couldn’t believe my ears when I heard this. Seriously, there’s no harm in admiting that yes most uncles not all are tharkis. They are desperate
however i do agree that to put a an age limit on perverts is simply wrong. or maybe pagli is in her late teens are is contemplating to marry someone who is not in his 30s so she doesn’t want to badmouth anyone who is below 30 as he/she/it can become a potential rishta and in the end a harmless husband. how chalako massi is this pagli massi..? :halo:
no…not even most…only those who either get caught or are reported by the smart 16+ years old girl. dumb 16+ years old get along with the play as part of it and don’t do anything to ward off the advancements of the uncles. they are to be blamed aswell for not bring it out in the open.
I just want to add one more thing that I forgot to mention before:
I think some people don't know what exactly flirting/hitting-on is. There was this counselor in university and I saw him talking to a girl once. He was tapping her on the shoulders and winking while talking. Then my turn came and he was tapping on my shoulders and winking while talking to me as well. Either he was bi or just his nature/style :D But I do think that sometimes one may not be actually flirting or may be just his personality but the other party thinks that they are being hit on.
What I meant was (if you were refering to me) he went over to my cousin and said something stupid. Arggggghhhhhhhh when she told me I felt like killing that idiot Insaan apni beti se dus saal choti larki ko aisa nahin kehtaa
mamaki dua.
u r right about the girls being scared 2 bring this in the open especially when bechari larkians ki isaat waise hi hamare soicety me itni nasuk hoti heh.