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I have already got Mr Yum some cuff links–how much is an armani watch anyway, in london that is? 
This time next month, all should be clear–and of course i will let you guys know!
Im defently going to use it for v-day, I thought I would send a cake and flowers maybe with a box of chocs if my budget will increase which Ill doubt it..but I was like OMG this is great I could stop looking through it..I mean you can send KFC meals thats wooowzaa...OMG when he gets it hes going to be like whaaat? I would love to see his face haha... Omg your sooo busy how are you going to find to do all ur packing n shopping for pk??? Ive got to buy pressies for family in pk still and I need a new bag, refresh on make up and everything from my mascara to my lipstick is finishing...:( ahhhh good you have to find time for ur piyari n GS bcoz i would be soo bored without you meri jaan....
Lol i was exactly the same when i saw the site! they have practically everything on there, u can even send chooriyan as eidi n stuff (not that id be sending him chooriyan or anything but still :P ) im sure whatever you send he will LOVE it!! :D I havent even started packing yet :( and i haaatte packing, literally cannot even remember where i put stuff etc when i get there! grrr need to start piyari, motivate me yaar! lol :D hmm hun you have time still, so just do it bit by bit..plus u'll be much free-er when ur exams over henna..so inshallah ull get it all done. dont forget to try that tinted moisturiser! buy ur new makeup before u leave and just use it when you go there.. i bought this really nice hair serum when i went last n hubby to be nicked it as he'd left his gel at home..aww..lol ok ill snap out of it!!! im here to share my stupid crazy stories with youuu :) so fikr not :D xx
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I have already got Mr Yum some cuff links–how much is an armani watch anyway, in london that is?
i think the prices vary but when i went shopping last i saw one for around £250 which was really nice..lol @ Mr Yum!! 
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hey duffy--cheer me up with ur crazy stories--am getting cold feet :(
Aww hubnubs! lol theres too many, in fact i think i have even posted some previously but listen 
trust me hun, you’ll be fiiiiine inshallah! if this works out how you want it, then its going to be the most amazing time of ur life! you’re going to be getting to know him right..and inshallah u’ll share so many wonderful moments and create lovely memories together..plus his mum loves you!! major bonus point! what are you thinking and what is it thats making you nervous and having doubts…?
pata nahi yaar, its a big decision, maybe i m feeling insecure as he is YUM (god, how many times have i said that) 
and well i m not ms perfect.
I dont know exactly, but i get mixed feelings, one day i m over the moon the next i feel so low.
Tickets have been booked, have resigned from work—>maybe thats whats making it so dramatic
i dont know!
or maybe i m mad at him, as he is taking so flipping long to be in the god damn country when i am
AGGHHH!!
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ook heres one...the first time i ever went to his house (bearing in mind i had not ever been before) it was raininggg like crazzy and i mean the proper pakistani rain!!! Lol i walked into his house completely drenched, thankfully the clothes were not see-through! lol and i was like 'errr what do i do now' and guess who opened the door..you u guess it right! lol i'll never forget that..he later told me once we were together that i look beautiful in the pouring rain.. :) lol..is it working? or am i just randomly sharing details lol
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LoL.
Thats funny, pity you guys were not in the field or around trees-true filmi estyle!
the other concern i have is that i am a perfectionist and he is so b*****Y laid back---i dont want to appear pushy/dominating....kya karoon for the first meeting?
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hmm to be honest hun, i have had down days like that..its a risk at the best of times but all you need to do is put ur Faith in Allah swt and let thing happen as and when He thinks best..i know it can be crazy and difficult, esp as hes not even in the country and yeh the fact that you've left work does add to it!! but..inshallah its going to be allll worth it..n yes u have said he's yum..like a gazillion times :P but u need to be proud of who you are! ur a beautiful person and if you dont realise that then he isnt going to! belive in ur self and walk into this experience feeling happy and hopeful..the rest will work out inshallah :) Allah khair kare x
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Hm my guy is also v laid back..first meeting me just be urself but at the same time use that time to assess and observe him..that way you can judge the way he reacts to stuff and etc..and also be prepared that you wont necessarily get ur own way and what you think of a certain situation doesnt necessarily mean that is what he will think..basically be prepared to compromise :) u dont want to be fake but at the same time u dont wanna scare him either!
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i think he is already scared-his mother (and family) gives him a daily bashing about me....
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daily bashing matlab.. 
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duffy woman, pm your email address--i should be careful what i write on the internet---yeh ha ho key YUM par rahe ho yeh sub!!!
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hahaha ok jii, check ur PM :D
i think he is already scared-his mother (and family) gives him a daily bashing about me....
dear wat u mean by this....wats wrong with them???
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girls....dont worry, koi physical maar nahi parahi, the guy is basically lazy, tau his ami tells him off, ke larki pasand hai tau tum kyon nahi milte usey, email karo, call karo use...baat tau start karo
and he says, acha karta hoon, karta hoon....
girls....dont worry, koi physical maar nahi parahi, the guy is basically lazy, tau his ami tells him off, ke larki pasand hai tau tum kyon nahi milte usey, email karo, call karo use...baat tau start karo
and he says, acha karta hoon, karta hoon....
dear im not pakistani ...lol
plz can u translate for me ...as i didnt get how his mom is...& as u guy said some words in urdu so i didnt get full that mom in law talks wat abt u...
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oh my bad!
its not as bad as it sounds--maybe i made it too dramatic
he is a laid back guy, and his mother wants us to meet as she says that it is difficult to find a honest and decent match
but since he is a guy....he always say, ok mum, i will get in touch with her...but he doesnt....ok i will arrange to meet her.....but he doesnt!
basically this is an arranged marriage, we have seen each others pics and family have done their checks
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ahan...
so he doesnt contact u for coming to know u...but why he doesnt realy???
u r engaged or nikah or just proposal came???
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his family expressed an interest--we have both to meet and then shaadi date! no engagement, straight shaadi