Ok this is the 3rd time that Im trying to reply to you lool something always comes up..and I have to leave the reply half way through... Anyway Yess I do think that it is important element to get to know them before you get married and Im soo Allah blessed me woth this opputunity!!!! Yeh bohat jaldi thi mangni...but I dont think I would change it bcoz me and my fiance laugh about it now...how we both didnt know everyone was planning the mangni and we was the only ones who didnt know!!!! Well Im hoping the shaadi goes well..the rishta was in the family so everyone knows me and my fiance so well bcoz we both are so friendly..talk to anyone joking about with everyone u know..so everyone is expecting a really good enjoyable wedding!! My family n friends have such high expectations for the shaadi I just hope it turns out well and no1 gets bored u kno.. Yes defently go for something different for the Walima my friend shes getting married this year to and she is considering wear pishwas for Walima..
Im quite petite too..well sort of lol im 5"3 and size 8 and everyone says to me the same thing and im expecting even worse when I go to PK..bcoz im wrists are soo thin everyone is like ong app kitni khamzor ho...eat something...lol..I think we both have a fast metobalism..if your happy with your body then I would just leave it just make sure you eat healthy..
I live in the UK I will be moving to Lahore after shaadi InshaAllah, my In-laws live in Defence...and the rest of my family in Kent..Model Town..etc.. Of course you can ask..I have no idea at the moment I havent been there for years but when I do come back from there Ill defently keep a note of where Ive been and suits and prices and let you know!!!!
I think maybe to buy the jora first...then jewelery..but I made one necklace saath lara with rubys in there gold parts (I always knew I was going to wear red so we just got that made) and Ive just ordered my churiya there plain gold with design on them no stones or anything..and then another set when I go to PK.
OMG thats what Im thinking my magni happened so fast I hope that doesnt happened for my shaadi..No1 can deceide on a date yet well first my fiances elder bro is getting married in april then mine will be decieded eeekk imjust like hurry up i need to get planning...Im like you a planner and like to be organised..well both me and my fiance are like that but our families different story looool InshaAllah I hope we find out our shaadi dates soon.
Ahhhh so that is what was happening! I have been wondering where my reply from Piyari was!!! U know... meri mangni bi jaldi hoye thi but I would not change anything about it either. My fiance is really happy that I was taken by such surprise and to me it is a wonderful feeling knowing that he was ready to take this step...without parental initiative! So jaldi hogaye... but koi baat naheen :D
InshAllah your shaadi will be wonderfulllll and live upto everyone's expectations. And I'm sure it will because the most important element is definitely going to be present at yours..... everyone's luv and support. Shaadi family mein hori hai... thats why :) 2 of my first cousins are engaged right now and all of us realllyyyyy can't wait for their shaadi. We are so happy and excited. We are a super tight knit family so we know that no matter what... its going to be enjoyable. Its just going to be amazing for all of us to be together for that event as well u know?? I'm sure your family feels the same way...
And Duffy - YOURS AS WELL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :D
Yaar I have no concept of UK sizes ...except that they are more normal than US sizes. My US size is a 00 if u can believe it. :( Yikes.
Piyari - U are moving from UK to Lahore after shaadi??? U know, my mamani did that. She and my mamu are cousins so she had no problem adjusting at all even tho she did not grow up visiting Lahore that much. Having a luving atmosphere is the MOST important thing of comfort she has told me (I luv her to pieces). I go to Lahore quite often myself! So every 2 years or so I go back to visit. I luv it there. You are definitely going to have to keep me updated on all of your shopping. When you are there- keep a list of all your recommendations Piyari!! It will help future brides like me with our Lahori shopping! :D My family lives in Faisal Town and my own parents are building a house in Defense right now!!! So that when we go back we will have our own place to stay :D
Are you getting your jewelery all made in Pakistan??? If so- u are going to have to let me know which jeweler u got it from in Lahore. My mom is scared about this process because she says there are so many irreputable jewelers trying to rip off their customers now a days. U don't know who to trust. So keep me posted. Getting a set made with ruby's was smart piyaari... its true... u know u want to wear red for baraat so why not get it made???
InshAllah I hope all three of us find out our shaadi dates soon! From what I can tell from our posts... all of us are in the same situation where we are waiting for another family member's shaadi to take place and then ours will be decided afterwards. Looks like we all have fun functions to attend in the near future tho :D Have u girls gotten your kapray tayaar for these upcoming festivities????
I also just want to add that u girls r very lucky that u know your MIL's and have a wonderful and luving long-standing relationship with her. I pray that it always remains like this. Ameen. Please pray for me ... I am marrying outside of the family and although my MIL is very kind and luving towards me now..... I hope this never changes. I still have not spent too much time with her tho u know?
I agree!!!
I’m like a camel… i survive on very little for a very long time. It’s a bad habit I really should kick.
wow the makeup sounds lovely, ive heard alot about the mac prep+prime, will have to try it! Lol@ the eyelash curler! yeh ur best bet is taking a few and getting the rest made from there..aww thats so nice that you’re all going to be co-ordinating..make sure to tke pix!! Shagun i think is what they give to the dulhan as like a gist or something..sounds sweet mashallah 
. But its a different zamana now so u will be fine!! And as I said - the luv of your inlaws will make everything sooooooo much better and u will feel SO comfortable with your surroundings much sooner than u even realize I am sure InshAllah. 
I cant wait to hear about your shopping experiences… Duffy’s as well!!! U guys are going to be my link to Pakistani shopping as of now!
And… nothing for Valima because there is no Valima. She is marrying an egyptian and his family all lives in egypt. In the future they will have a function there.
yeh hun, thanks for the tip definitely we need to boost each others diet! aww i hope we can put on ‘love weight’ as piyari has!! bless 
. These two things are definitely the least irritating and best remedies for super dry skin like ours. It may sound messy but honestly u only use the tiniest amount and it gets the job done. Go see another dermatologist… its always good to get a second opinion if u see that the first diagnoses and treatment is not working. Ask them about the vaseline/aquaphor for dry skin … he/she will guide you inshAllah. And also help you get red of these annoying bump issue.
I took the bar exam simply as a precaution… like what if my first job requires the license?? Plus I was worried I would forget everything I learned in my 3 years of law school… 
Since I live in the same city as my fiance we see each other about 2-3 times a week. You would think it would be more often than this but he works really hard and I dont want him to be out and about on weekdays. I want him to go home and relax and have some time to himself after a long days work. Weekends is when we spend time together. He lets me pick a new restaurant every week and takes me out for a proper “date” dinner on Friday nights… its become our own little tradition! Saturdays and sundays we like to spend time hanging out with our friend… or I go to his house and hang out with his family. We go to the movies… shopping. Very chill things basically.