Men tend to be a bit clueless when it comes to this kind of stuff. If something is upsetting you, you should just be striaghtforward and tell him. It could just an honest misunderstanding or whatever, but you need to tell one another what is wrong rather than just giving them the cold shoulder. Half the time, I don’t think the man will even realise he did something wrong, which is why I say men can be a bit clueless at times. Expecting anybody to guess why you are upset is pretty stupid and can lead to further problems.
Its only with Homer's views that I am consoled. Rest of you who believe I have not tried communicating, trying to guess by myself what could be wrong?, asking her to tell me whats bothering her, waiting for the right moment so that she opnes up her mind, giving her lighter moments to be at ease to talk etc, live like a frog of a well. Assuming that one might be lacking in this and that is like punishing someone for what he has not done.
Yes I am against marriages after I got married. Funguy, I wish I wish I wish I was single again. Single in a sense that I could reverse the time and decide against marriage. Now that I am married, I have to go through it.
homer_j_simpson -- I prefer to keep my marital status and my personal life to myself. Anyhow some of what I said was in jest, I apologize - not for what I said - but that people didnt understand. :)
Anyway as for this situation, I would say theres a lack of proper communication. It is true that some women are impossible, as are some men. But if you are married to somebody, you would have an idea as to which is the best approach to talk to them or ask them what is wrong.
Sometimes a person is no mood to discuss personal issues, and this can harm the relationship. Because the other party feels left out, and gets the brunt of the moodiness, not understanding why he/she is being treated in such a manner.
Ups and downs are common in all relationships. Zalim since you are married, I would suggest that instead of wishing to be single, you take the time out to remedy your relationship. You know your wife better than all of us. Do whatever is possible to mend matters, and explain to your wife exactly how you are feeling. Relationships are about being there for each other when the going gets tough. Hopefully things work out. I wish you the best of luck.
Yes I am against marriages after I got married. Funguy, I wish I wish I wish I was single again. Single in a sense that I could reverse the time and decide against marriage. Now that I am married, I have to go through it.
sadly i know quite a few people that feel this way, both guys and girls.
Why is it so hard for men to accept their true faces when shown a mirror?
Zalim, you are describing yourself as a perfect husband, which I doubt you are. Taali aik hath se nahi bajti, mere bhai.
are you that unhappy???
